In my experience, girls prefer my personality when I'm being cynical and sarcastic and hating life... Kinda like Rick from Rick and Morty. It happens when I'm in a bad mood.
This is exactly the opposite of what I've learnt about attraction. I don't understand, it's like I'm showing all my red flags and they love it.
When I'm trying to be nice, they ignore me.
Why is this?
>>17938463
Probably because you mistake being passive with being nice
Niceness is a neutral quality. Most girls are neither attracted nor unattracted to it
But passivity is a negative quality
>>17938463
They like the experience you're spewing, not necessarily the negative talk. Girls are more impressed about the things you've done, and the shit you've learned from it.
>>17938470
That's the thing that confuses me. I'm being super negative! Every dating couch I've watched on Youtube suggest being positive around girls.
Maybe it's because I'm faking it?
>>17938463
It's because you seem confident enough to be real with them.
Just be a more confident version of yourself. Treat girls the way hot girls in hs used to treat you; Seem unattainable and better than them. But also flirty.
>I'm being cynical and sarcastic and hating life... Kinda like Rick from Rick and Morty.
>YouTube dating couch
These are the reason why you struggle with girls
>>17938557
I don't get it.
>>17938571
Unfortunately.
>>17938575
Care to explain?