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heartbroken guy who can't move on needs advice on how to move on from a girl who he can't forget
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>>17916618
What about her is so unforgettable
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>>17916618

Man, it's never easy, especially if it's your first.

Just occupy your free time with things you enjoy or shit you need to get done. Get rid of any reminders of her. Focus on getting to a better state of mind.

Yeah it sucks and seems like the end of the world, but somebody else will inevitably come along. Don't stress about it too much.

Booze helps.
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>>17916618
You will get over her. Has it been a month, or has it been like 6 months already.
Took me a few years to get over the girl I was going to marry. She was a con artist and scammer. Some women see their husband as someone to steal from.
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>>17916623
the way she talked to me,her eyes,her smile,personality,almost everything
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>>17916633
that's the problem, i litterally have nothing to do, except for gaming but now my pc is broken i won't be doing any gaming for a while
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monitoring thread...
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>>17916638
i know i will but i'm really getting mentally unstable
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>>17916618
when I can't get over someone, I use this weird mental technique. In your head, paint a portrait of that person, put the painting inside a room in a house. Then turn off the lights and exit the house.

I kind of use this to forget anything in general, people or situation, and it might only work for me... but give it a shot :)
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>>17916658
will try this when i'm over this crying and writing depressing poems phase thanks anon
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>>17916646

You just have to go find things to do man. Some days it may be marathoning a tv show you like. Other days maybe you just go for a drive, put a puzzle together, cook a badass meal for yourself or something. Idk. Just find anything you can possibly do that takes your mind off it.

This likely isn't your last relationship, and you will likely go through this multiple times. It'd be a good idea to learn how to enjoy being alone. Besides, that in of itself can lead to many good things for you to come.
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Go no contact. Seriously, Never ever reach out to her. Don't stalk her, including social media.

A few weeks of going cold turkey should help a lot. Then it will be much easier to get her off your mind.

Go on dates with other women, maybe jack off to lesbian porn until your sexual palette is cleansed.
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>>17916670
i will try anon thanks for the advice
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I feel you. Trying to distract with vidya doesn't help much because you will always keep thinking of her and how much of a good time she's having without you while you're just fucking around with some pixels. Working out is a good way although after you're done, your she could still cross your mind. I'd say move on to a different girl.
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>>17916671
Not OP but why lesbian specifically?
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>>17916671
i actually tried going on a date with someone else but after the first date she acted kinda vague and am going on a second date tomorrow but kinda thinking it won't happen,also downloaded tinder and only got 1 match and she deleted me. kinda made a huge dent in my self-esteem,not sure if i will find someone else. i'm kind of social awkward
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>>17916676
well was thinking about starting to work out again thanks for giving me that extra push
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