Should I try and homewreck this relationship? Kinda a long story but I'll do my best to shorten it.
I'd been talking with this girl I liked for quite some time but, being the beta introvert I am, took far too long to ask her out. Someone else asked her out, she said yes and now they are dating. I knew they were dating before they were actually official, so as a way to get some closure I asked her out anyways. She obviously told me she was dating someone else but said she really liked me. She still talks to me just as much if not more now that she is in a relationship. She gives me numerous compliments, shares pretty private information, and compares me to her boyfriend every once and a while. So my dilemma is, am I just on a new level of beta orbiting or do I have a shot??
It seems to me I have a semi decent shot, he's a normie and boring as they come. I know I don't have much a shot until the puppy love phase is over, which shouldn't be too much longer.
What do you guys think I should do, and if you think I should, how would I go about destroying her current relationship?
i feel the guys who say beta and alpha and cuck are very isolated and confused young men
>>17916075
Maybe cuck, but beta and alpha are pretty universal terms.
Whatever you do, don't be a cunt about it.
Women don't like men who are cunty. If you run a feminine game like homewrecking, you're virtue-signaling that you're a cunt. That's how women operate, and it doesn't work when men do it. You either get friendzoned or resented for the aforementioned cuntery.
>>17916075
great advice bro
>>17916067
find other girls to talk to, and become slightly more unavailable to original girl. she'll notice, and the fear of losing you to someone else will take hold. at that point, all you really need to do is find an excuse to be alone with her and escalate physically. after that, she'll want to be your girlfriend so as to not feel like a cheating slut
good luck
>>17916079
I don't use that shit and I don't have problems dating girls. In fact none of the decent, cool and honorable people I know do. What's the point of comparing yourself to others?
>>17916099
That's actually really great advice, I try to slowly become less and less available. I definitely think that being far too available was my original downfall.
Go for it. You dont have much to loose.