So i think i need advice how to get my life better. I am 19,

view women for what they are, lesser beings. It will help you alot.

>>17915716
OP wanted to get a girlfriend, not protect his virginity.

>>17915737
>virgin
>have slept with over a 100 women
Lmao

>>17915742
Do you keep a list?

>>17915716
I don't not if you are trolling but my mother raised me and my brother alone and she even took care of my grandparents at the same time. She is the most important person in my life and i don't know how i can live without her. She is probably a better and a greater person then any of you could ever be.

So don't bother yourself writing anymore. Women are not lesser beings. Most of the women are idiots but most of the men are idiots too. One of them is you.

>>17915697
>but i don't have any motivation at all
Looking and feeling better isn't motivation enough for you?

Something like a gym is also generally a decent hobby and you're bound to meet people to improve social skills with, in turn maybe even meet chicks and have more to offer to them than you have now.

Although others should never be your motivation to improve. Why wouldn't you want to be the very best version of yourself for you alone? The rest usually comes.

>>17915832
I like doing sports actually but i am fat. I haven't gone to gym in since the summer before. One day i am super energic, running 10 kms, next week i don't even want to get out of bed. I had a chrush in high school i never talked once in 4 years. She gave me some motivation for couple do months but nothing ever gives me motivation to go on a diet for 6 months. I want to be best of myself but i can't act on it

>>17915871
Well, try the "fear" approach then if positive motivation doesn't do. Where do you picture yourself if you won't be able to motivate yourself to improve? Do you really want to end up there? Eventually you totally will and the older you get and more used to your current thought patters, the harder will it be to change. Metabolism rarely improves with age either, so there is that too.

>go on a diet for 6 months
Try picturing it in different time frames, week to week and track down your progress. Still long but not as demotivating as "6 months".

>>17915910
I tried everything to get motivated but i just can't seem to get it going. I just don't care after a while.

It isn't the 6 months that demotivate me. I tried it for a month about 9 months ago and lost 5 kgs in a month. I can do it but can't bring myself to do it.

Same with girls. I don't fear that they will reject me. I talked to a friend of mine who studies psychology and he said i most probably fear the effect that rejection would have on me. I think he is right. If i knew a girl was into me i think i would talk to her easily.