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I honestly think I'll be alone forever. I always get attached

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I honestly think I'll be alone forever.
I always get attached to people who are either taken, are in horrendous relationships that they can't leave, or people who aren't interested in dating at all, let alone me.

The only good thing about this is that I think I'm slowly accepting it.
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Pic unrelated
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>I always fall for emotionally unavailable people
Dude you're the problem here. You unconsciously seek them because they're zero effort: you know that you will be rejected and that the fault won't be yours. Hence you avoid committing emotionally.
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This is a fairly common problem, yes. Accepting it is wise, because some people never do find a worthwhile relationship, so maintaining a realistic approach helps you direct your energy towards more productive goals. However, also keep an open mind about it. Accepting and giving up are two different things and if you let defeatism to get hold of you, then you'll miss every chance you could have. You don't mention how old your are, but the chances are you have plenty of life left to meet someone, so don't give up completely. You never know.
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It's ok to be alone
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No Relationship > Shitty Relationship

Being Alone > being around people you have no connection with.

Remembering those things won't magically make you stop feeling shitty... but it helps.
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