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ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything

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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.

FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.

>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.

>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.

>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.

>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
Fuck off
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Girls

Could something like this been seen as a hint towards you wanting the guy to ask you to do something?

>There is a 1968 movie on the book, perhaps A good movie night movie (never saw it).
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>>17912235
Somewhat, but the fact that you haven't asked straight up is somewhat unappealing.
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>>17912245
The girl sent that along with stuff like this in messages to my friend. Seems like she wants him to say something?

>Have you ever wandered around five points/riverside? When your at campus, you should check it out. A lot of coffee shoppes and bagel/smoothie places. Peanut butter smoothie = yum."

>I don't look like a Disney fan? Lol! It's because of my mature/pessimistic personality . . . Isn't it (lol). Love the Mickey Mouse! Do you like Disney? I'm going to Epcot, if that defends my maturity any (lol).

And she told him the day she's going in a different message
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Girls.

What are your fetishes? What turn you on the most?

What sort of porn do you like, if you look at it?
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I've always been attracted to women who come from matriarchal, traditional cultures (Italian, Greek, etc).

Lately I've also been attracted to non American women. Idk why. Australian women, European, Colombian, etc. Someone from a different culture always fascinates me. I would love to learn more about the woman this way.

Femanons, do some of you fit this description? I'm curious what you think about it. Am I being too narrow or is it important to find a compatible mate with that sort of social chemistry?
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Girls
What means virginity for you ?
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Maybe not the proper tread but any tips for figuring out what to do with your life? I woke up today and discovered i'm 25 and my life is exactly the same is it was when I was 20.
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>>17912315
You're right, not the greatest of breads.
Since you haven't said whether you mean career or lifestyle, I'll give one for each.
Career: since you're in your mid-twenties, look for free or low-cost programs, usually given by a local YM/WCA or area post-secondary school, which allow you to take a test to see what you might be suited for doing. Some of the results might surprise you.
Lifestyle: assuming you're not happy with the person you are, the first thing you have to do is make yourself happy. Spend at least 15 minutes in a nature surrounding, not thinking about anything at all. It might sound counter-intuitive, but it's great for restoring happiness. I'm sure you're familiar with the others: make sure you spend one day doing things *you* want; read something interesting for at least 45 minutes per day, and so on.
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Went on a date with grill, had fun. Planned for second date but something came up. Week later and made plans again, but now sick. How do reschedule for a second time? Can I? Am I fucked? I wouldn't be asking if I wasn't throwing up, running a fever and borderline shitting myself.
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>>17912384
Nail down a date.

>I'm sick as fuck today, but how about [specifically this date here] when I'm better?
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females

i recently started talking to a girl that i know for a fact is very shy
should I keep initiating text conversations and in person meetings if she never does the same, or is she just not interested
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>>17912472

Guy here.

Ask her out. But only if you guys are like decent friends.

If she says yes then cool. If she flakes out dump her
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Girl asks me out.
Sets up a date.
Than 2h before she cancels. Twice.
I'm kinda getting frustrated. Is it justified?
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Girls:

If you liked rough stuff like being fucked hard, pinned down, ass spanked, spitting in your mouth what else would you enjoy? I'm interested in physical and verbal
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Girls/Guys

So there is this girl I kind of have a thing for and I known her for a few months and were both 24 and we are hanging out this weekend. The thing is, I noticed all her close friends are already married or are in a relationship and they all seem happy. I see on social media, and they even post things like "look shes single, anyone?" anyways, is this a red or green flag? And it seems to kind of tick me off and i feel im loosing interest
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>>17912291
I fit this description, and I also an really drawn to men from different cultures and backgrounds. I enjoy being educated by them, understanding new and different things that I otherwise would never know.

>>17912472
I would keep on talking to her for as long as you want to. Some people, girls and guys, friends or love interests, just don't like initiating conversation.
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>>17912255
So does it look like this girl is strongly hinting for the him to ask her out? (She flaked twice on him)
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>>17912562
Her friends are teasing her and she obviously is looking for someone for herself. That's not a red flag at all, unless you're looking just for sex.

Be aware though, that she might start pressuring you into marriage one or two years into dating. Women tend to go crazy for marriage and kids after 25.
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>>17912557
I love my boobs being slapped and bitten.
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For girls who also smoke weed, frequently or on occasion.

Do you ever consider doing sexual favors for weed with dealers? I want to keep telling myself girls wouldn't actually do this, but have you ever gone through with it?
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>>17912591
>I want to keep telling myself girls wouldn't actually do this
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>>17912574
Nice, thank you. I like to squeeze, bite and pull her nipples. I'll try slapping.
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>>17912593
yes i know, i don't preferably like people who do drugs in general but i'd like to be more open and accepting of people's habits
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>>17912600
You should never compromise your own ideals for a bit of pussy. Especially for girls who /will/ suck dick for a bag of weed.
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Femanons,

I've been dating this girl for quite some time now and there's this one thing that keeps me up at night. It's these one-sided interactions we have when texting. It usually starts with me initiating contact and "doing the work" in the convo. We don't see each other all that often because we're both very busy with university, so conversation usually takes place via text. I also know that she's not that much of an outgoing person and very introverted in general butI keep overthinking things to the point where I don't know if we share the same feelings for each other.
What can I do to make the conversations less one-sided so that she "contributes" something, too (even if it's just some plain stuff like asking how I am)? Any help is appreciated.
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>>17912604
the thing is i dont know if she would actually do it because she doesn't do it frequently, and it' snot just "for pussy" it's for an actual relationship
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>>17912613
You realise there are videos all over the internet of girls sucking dick for weed, right? It isn't a rare occurence.
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>>17912617
What I don't understand about it is weed doesn't have that kind of chemical dependence. I mean, in all seriousness, to suck dick for weed she'd have to think very little of sucking dick in the first place. And at that point it's not the weed that is the problem.
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>>17912645
People build up a psychological dependence on it without even realising because "IT'S NOT ADDICTIVE SO LIKE, HOW COULD I BE ADDICTED TO IT?"
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>>17912649
Yes, but again, at this point we're talking about the same mechanism that drives people to internet, video game and food addiction. And even with a psychological dependence, they'll still realize after a couple of days of being completely out, that they don't actually need to be high that much.

The last two posts were not by the same person you've been talking to, by the way. I used to smoke weed daily. I really never had to worry about being able to get more, though, so I don't actually know how far some people might go to get some. That still points, to me, at underlying issues related more closely to sexual promiscuity however.
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>>17912660
Yeah but sucking dick isn't normally an option when bartering at Gamestop or Walgreens, is it?

I'm aware you're not the one who originally asked the question. You both write differently.

I know a lad who went 2 weeks without weed and it took 4 days before he became irritable as fuck and about 9 days before he physically lashed out at people. And he's normally not at all like that. In regards to dicksucking for it, there's a shit ton of women who will do that even if they have the money for it.
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sup

so, ive been very depressed for the last few...9 years or so, i feel like i am at breaking point. i´m dating a nice guy who really seems to like me but im starting to need space, how could i ask him to leave me alone for a week or so?
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>>17912613
>considering dating a drug user
LOL
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>>17912679
Realise that telling someone to leave you alone is not conducive to a good relationship and consider talking to him about your problems, if you're in a relationship. If you're just casually dating, you don't really need to ask him to leave you alone at all, surely?
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>>17912665
Well, yeah. They can use the cash for shit at Walgreens or Gamestop, which don't accept head for product.
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>>17912681
I think we are in a relationship but i´m not sure. I´m really fucked up, i got next to no support with my mental issues and no affection whatsoever, i know this guy loves me and i like him but i dont really feel any affection or wish to try to reach out and i´m not sure if i want to stay with him desu. he is always on his phone when we are out and dissapears to sleep for hours and i´m just bored desu. i do love him but the relationship is probably not going to survive.
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>>17912713
are your initials HW?
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>>17912681
This is valid. Talk to him rather tell him about your shit and say that you just need a few days to yourself. It's not a break or that you want to get strange dick, you just need alone time. If he can't understand and give you that, then this might not be for you

I know I need some alone time every so often
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>>17912713
also go see a councilor to talk about this. get some clarity outside of yourself and an online source
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>>17912725
Ian, is that you?
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How do you properly reconcile when starting over?

I know taking it slow, not bringing up the past and treating it like a new relationship, but what else?
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>>17912733
Nope
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>>17912213
Girls. The world is going kinda insane right now and I want to get away from everything. I want to spend sometime with someone in the middle of nowhere who I don't know that well and talk about everything.
What is the best way to create this situation?
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>>17912734
Both of you need to accept that the other one will still make mistakes.
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Guys: can you tell when you've broken a girl's hymen?
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>>17912775
>tfw I've never experienced this
I could tell when I've broken a thin condom with my dick and a tight vagina.
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What's the best to treat the girls nipples during sex? Should I tease her slowly or just straight off start sucking on it?
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>>17912665
>I know a lad who went 2 weeks without weed and it took 4 days before he became irritable as fuck and about 9 days before he physically lashed out at people
As someone who had done exactly that before and got no more than a bit touchy, he's probably got some other shit going on. By nine days your body should be clearing up quite a bit, and your brain should feel clearer as well.

If you've been off weed for nine days and you're lashing out at people close to you you've probably got a lot more problems than I do/did, and he was probably using it as a crutch to deal with life issues.
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>>17912258
There was a thread about this.

Basically BDSM, hentai, lesbian and gangbangs etc.
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>>17912291
Well, I'm Australian, and I would say a similar culture is pretty important; I mean, I wouldn't date a middle eastern man for example; I'd find them to controlling and patriarchal, in all likelihood. I guess I would just ask, why do you like that?
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>>17912827
Tease and lick softly and get harsher as she gets closer to orgasm. No need to be rough though, not all girls are into it. Gentle and mildly rough is a safer bet for most girls.
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>>17912747
Should I just drive out into the middle of nowhere and go to bars or something?
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Is is normal not to be able to act like a people person but not interested in being friends with anyone? I like my job working as a receptionist at a hotel but at the end of the day I'm so over smiling and listening to people talking about themselves that I just want some alone time.
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>>17912747
>>17912958

You're always better off venting with anonymous people. Just drive to some bar you've never been to and talk to someone. Look for someone who's lonely there two and buy him/her a round, and also be clear that you're not hitting on them.

Personally never did it but I think it'd work. Omegle is also cool if you manage to find someone who doesn't have their dick out, or go straight to the camless chats.
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>>17912952
Thanks.
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>>17912961
ts common for introverts, particularly those working in the service industry. I work in a library and it's the same thing; it just means you need to recharge a bit on your own, not that you're weird.
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Girls:
Would I look better if I lost fat and became leaner, or would it be better if I bulked up and got more muscle (but got a bit fatter)?
I wanna look better for my gf but I'm stuck inbetween skinnyfat.
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>>17912970
I am a guy. I am not really comfortable in bars yet. Is it okay to enter them alone? How do I initiate conversations?
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Girls (or guys?)

Under what circumstances would you agree to get together with someone, but then flake, while still speaking regularly to them?
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>>17912998
Leaner, definitely imo. Not many girls are really into the buff look, somewhere in the middle of muscles and slenderness is usually a good thing to aim for.

Really though you should ask your girlfriend what she prefers.
>>17913005
I wouldn't. Ever.
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>>17913021
>I wouldn't. Ever.

So you wouldn't flake like that after agreeing to get together with them?

Hmm. Now this is mildly annoying.
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>>17913027
What is? The fact that I'm not going to be an asshole to people?
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>>17912999

I didn't think of your gender, and I think my advice would work for both. I've tought of doing something like that myself just for meeting new people. Old friends are getting kinda boring...

Idk how to pull that off in practical means though. I guess it really depends where you live. I've seen people here saying to try talking to older guys just because they have more life experience to share.

I admit it sounds kinda creppy though, never acted on it from fear of people thinking I'm gay or flirting lol
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Guys am i being unreasonably pissed about him never texting me any response? Is he busy, forgetful, or are we not friends?

I have a male housemate who i hang out a lot with. we have the same friends and we play tennis together. I'd say we're good friends. We're both home for break and we live near each other. I texted him last week saying we should hang out and asked when he's free, and he's read the message last week and never responded.

So I'm just kind of unhappy about it as I feel like he's ignoring me or that we're not good friends like i thought. he could just say 'sry not a good time, I'm busy with senpai' and it would be cool. He even talked about introducing me to his friends since most of mine moved away. It's been a platonic friendship on both our ends. We've never hooked up or anything. Should i just not bring it up when I go back to uni next week?
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>>17913036
Eh. Just trying to figure what my best course of action is with her. She seems interested but shy/nervous. So I don't know if I should continue pursuing or if I should call it quits.

She definitely does not seem like the asshole type who would do that though
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>>17913043
Fucking autocorrect i mean 'busy with something' not 'busy with senpai'
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>>17912258
I had to categorize them into three main ones, they would be 2D, noncon/forced/power disparity, and clothing/uniforms.

Most common porn tags besides that might be shota and monster (especially demonic).
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>>17913043
Just hit him up again, I've read texts and forgot to reply them before
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>>17912298
Something special to be saved for a life partner
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>>17913061
You're right, thanks. I'm being silly.He probably was drunk as I sent it on friday night. I worry too much. I've been abandoned before by friends and i just worry too much sometimes
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>>17912606

pls respond
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>>17913092
She's obviously not interested, mate. There's no way you can force someone to initiate and engage genuinely in conversation with you if they don't want to.
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How many of the girls here have rape fantasies?
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Guys with experience with online dating

Im a guy having a hard time making a conversation fun or interestating, normally i would just go with something like asking what she studies or what does she like to do and every text just feels more of a fuck up and dull

I just cant seem to connect with them, can some guys give me tips and examples?
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>>17912725
No, JS. Also: in a gay relationship
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>>17913112
You can't 'connect' witb people over text. It's meaningless. Emojis aren't a standin for seeing your facial expressions and body language.

Ask the girl on a date and meet her irl to see if you have a connection.
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>>17913110
Me
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>>17913129

I tought i had to do this but it just feels weird to go on and say to set up a date, its totally fine for me but girls seem to be weirded out about it,

I honestly understand it because they dont know me and dont trust me, and im certain its not because i look creepy or anything, im good looking
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>>17913141
Perhaps my actual question is how to set up a date without looking creepy and needy?

help me bois
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>>17913141
Well, you talk over message for a little bit before asking, or invite them to a public/group setting like a coffeeshop or bar. But make it sound like you'd do it without them anyway. 'I'm heading to __ thursday if you'd like to join me' that way it's very informal and you leave it in her court if she wants to continue with you
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>>17913138
ever acted on it?
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I'm a guy, I lift weights, I'm a lean 200lbs 6'0 man.

But I like to be submissive, and roughed around, and I like women who take a motherly authority over me, who are a little older, who tell me what to do, who pin me and assert themselves.

BUT! I don't like being a weak twink. I like being big and strong.

How can I find a woman who will satisfy my mommy issues?
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>>17913156
It affects the porn I look at and the fantasies I have, and I've definitely gotten off to it. I've roleplayed it a bit with my partner over text mainly, and am looking forward to doing it more.
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>>17913165
Women who are smart and confident enough to do that are not gonna be interested in a guy with actual mommy issues. Unless you're fine with just being their boytoy fuckbuddy?
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>>17913180
London?
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>>17913155
This is good tip thanks

But honestly i feel like girls wouldnt be up to it, im not really sure how can i make a girl trust and be comfy to go with me, is it maybe because im hitting on 19-20 year olds?
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>>17913183
I want someone who shows me lots of affection and "mothers" me a little bit.
Not a lot, but just someone I can find comfort in.

I don't mean just sex btw. But assertive women who guide me, and take initiative and what not.
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>>17913189
I like this as well.
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Hey femanons.
Just lie to me and tell me girls can't tell you're super inexperienced and nearly paralysed with nerves.

Thanks,

>>17912606
I semi-fucked up a relationship with a girl who was distant via text. She gave one line or one word answers to my texts, rarely initiated, frequently took ages to respond and often enough finished a text convo by not responding to my last.

But in person she was super friendly. Always hugged and kissed me every time we met, even if we'd already seen each other earlier in the day. She gazed, laughed with me, everything.
But she was a bitch in text.

It was a problem for me and I didn't tolerate it, but if your girl is the same maybe you can.
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girls:
what is a nice way to turn down seeing someone you had a one night stand with?

girl has been texting me and I don't want to be rude
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>>17913187
Well, you haven't had any luck with your current method at all have you? It's time to try something different.

>>17913189
Yeah man an assertive woman like that isn't gonna want a boy she has to take care of and tell what to do. It's not an equal relationship and that kind of lady wants an equal, not a son she can fuck. You should get help for your issues mate
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>>17913205
Not a woman, but usually saying something like "I'm not looking for anything serious" gives them a hint. Some stay as fuckbuddies, others leave.
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>>17913207
What kind of help
I'm afraid of therapy because it makes me feel broken and I don't like feeling wrong and broken
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>>17913213
Hey man it takes way more courage to face something you're scared of. If you keep running away like a coward you won't fix anything. You know deep down that you are broken and do want help. A woman can't be your counselor. So yes, therapy, introspection, meditation is my answer.
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Ladies, can a guy be attractive without being so in the traditional sense?

I've spoken to three girls recently who all explicitly stated I was cute/hot. This comes as a shock to me because I'm nothing like conventionally attractive guys; the chiseled jaws, straight teeth, small forehead etc.
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>>17913236
Yes absolutely
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what is it like to have someone who loves you?
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>>17913267
Breddy gud
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>>17912213
How to land skinny/thin women? no fatties and uglies because those are gross garbage.
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>>17913236

Women have a much broader idea of what an "attractive" man is, including height, build, masculinity, eyes but also how they carry themselves, confidence, how they dress, etc.
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>>17913267

To love and be loved, this is the fucking best thing you can experience in this life as a human.
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>>17913267
Salty coins.
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>>17913236
Yes, contrary to popular opinion on here, not all women like the 'buff/rich/dominant' type of 'alpha'. In fact, most have a broad range of what they find attractive, from skinny to buff, all hair colours, confident or shy, intelligent or artistic, masculine or feminine etc. What matters is how you carry yourself, and whether you actually like who you are.
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>>17913301
Are you yourself a good catch in any way?
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>>17913322

Overwhelming majority of women have a primitive desire for masculinity, but that can be overriden by their conscious brain so they can be with different people (men or women).

A lot of women never override this primitive desire, but a lot do.
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To both genders:

Why does dating seem so difficult?
After being rejected, rejecting one girl, and trying to date a girl I couldn't be with because her family didn't approve, I feel like it's not worth trying anymore.
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>>17913326
That depends on your perception of me because I'm no brad pitt I would consider plastic surgery for myself because then I would be attracting angelina jolie instead of ugly trash.
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>>17913333
It doesn't mean women want masculinity though. The primitive desire doesn't mean it's ALL they desire, at a carnal level either. One doesn't have to intellectualise finding pretty men or slender men attractive, it's still a visceral, base desire devoid of intellect.

Also, lesbians and bisexuals.
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>>17913349

Angelina Jolie is fucking crazy, why would you want to date someone like that?

I know Brad Pitt regrets doing so.
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>>17913322
The thing is I don't really like how I look, and I've even told these girls this. I am confident in my personality but I've always thought looks mattered most. I still have trouble believing it to be honest
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>>17913354
>It doesn't mean women want masculinity though. The primitive desire doesn't mean it's ALL they desire, at a carnal level either. One doesn't have to intellectualise finding pretty men or slender men attractive, it's still a visceral, base desire devoid of intellect.

Overwhelming majority of women desire masculinity on a primitive level. There are probably a few % who don't, but relatively rare.

It's mostly young women who desire pretty/slender men; this is because they are scared of masculine men, so they choose something "safe".

Women that hit the late teens/20s desire masculinity, but like I said this can be overriden (fairly easily), but is still there.
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>>17913349
So average attractiveness.
But are you interesting?
Are you a deadbeat, or do you make your own money (not to support a girl, just so she doesn't have to support you)?
Do you have any emotional maturity?
Do you have any latent baggage?
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>>17913369
And you know this, how? Because a PUA or /r/ The Red Pill told you?
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Any tips for Tinder?

I seriously don't know what to fucking put on my bio, I don't want to sound dull or cringy.
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>>17913357
Crazy in bed and hot, there should be more people like this instead of the garbage trying to pass off as 'women'

I highly doubt he regretted tapping dat ass.
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>>17913386
>And you know this, how? Because a PUA or /r/ The Red Pill told you?

We are mammals, and as such have 2 genders: male and female. On a primitive level, males are attracted to femininity, and females are attracted to masculinity.

This is really not a fucking difficult concept, it's really really simple.
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>>17913398
Male and female, yes. But defining that in terms of 'masculine and feminine' is what SJWs do. Men and women are attracted to all sorts of things. The 'masculine' ideal is really only good for the first fuck, then the arrogance, lack of emotional intelligence and dominance inherent in ascribing to such things becomes a pain to deal with.

Like I said, women are attracted to a wide breadth of men, just as men are attracted to a wide breadth of women (and some people are attracted to the same gender etc.). Masculine and feminine archetypes don't really cut it anymore, and no one attraction is any less valid or visceral than the next, purely because it's 'traditional'.
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Why in the world would a guy ask a girl out on a date, and then on the day, flake with what is most likely a cop-out excuse? Happened to a friend of mine and we just can't work out why
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>>17913383
No I resort to stereotyping for any conversation starters which is easily picked up on by other people, I've either been told to keep my monotone 'opinions' to myself or to come up with an opinion of my own.
I make my own money but currently stuck supporting two ugly leeches that fell off the ugly tree.
I pretend to have emotional maturity, my insecurities are easily mistaken for deep and emotional person.
The ugly trash duo and also a bastard kid I don't care about.
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>>17913422
So, why are you supporting them?

Sounds like you're an asshole, and an unattractive and boring one to boot. Even the fat girls deserve better than you, so don't ever fool yourself into thinking you can get anywhere near the orbit of a thin or pretty girl.
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Girls (Or guys)


Is their anyway to just come clean with a girl whose been giving mixed signals, about your feelings without it seeming cringey or desperate?
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>>17913411
>Male and female, yes. But defining that in terms of 'masculine and feminine' is what SJWs do. Men and women are attracted to all sorts of things. The 'masculine' ideal is really only good for the first fuck, then the arrogance, lack of emotional intelligence and dominance inherent in ascribing to such things becomes a pain to deal with.
>Like I said, women are attracted to a wide breadth of men, just as men are attracted to a wide breadth of women (and some people are attracted to the same gender etc.). Masculine and feminine archetypes don't really cut it anymore, and no one attraction is any less valid or visceral than the next, purely because it's 'traditional'.


You are totally and utterly WRONG.

The PRIMITIVE desire for femininity and masculinity has never died, and will never die; it's hard-wired into our brains.

It's the reason why young (and stupid) women will ALWAYS go for "bad boys", why success is attractive to women, and why height is attractive tom women.

Conversely, femininity in women is attractive to men, and it always will be. A female body, long hair, feminine face; it's hard-wired.

That said, men and women can OVERRIDE this primitive desire, but both need to be at least a certain intelligence level.

But it is always there.

It translates into sex almost all the time, with women taking a more submissive role. This fits into the primitive desire for women and men. Notice I said almost all the time.

I don't disagree with your post at all, it's just incomplete (and therefore wrong). Of course we see empirically that men and women are attracted to all sorts of people.

But this is more their conscious self choosing who they want to live with and spend time with, rather than their primitive brain which regulates attraction.

The primitive brain always remains. We will always be mammals.
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>>17913446
So you don't believe thin men are attractive to women at all, except on an 'intellectual' level?

And you don't believe in gays or lesbians or bisexual people?
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>>17913439
One is obviously the baby mama and the other a failed step up in life/former side bitch, because the pig has an eating disorder I figured at least she'd stay 'thin' unfortunately since getting married it's gotten just as fat as the baby mama.

I can only dream of a pretty girl, wasted my money on garbage.
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>>17913390
Just don't put anything if you don't want to risk. Most people who do put things there are cringy too, and most won't even look and swipe to your first picture after they get bored of looking through everything.
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Guys:

Do your orgasms feel better when you're fapping compared to when you're having sex? I've found my climax feels better when I pull out during sex, but not better than when I cum inside.

I guess if I had to rank it, it would be:
Cumming inside> Blowjob > jerking off > Sex but pull out

Like the sex part feels better than jerking off, but if I pull out to finish I just don't quite feel like I scratched the itch.

Am I weird?
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>>17913466
But the greater than symbols are around the wrong way...
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>>17913474
>>17913466
I realize I miscommunicated there.

The symbols are right, but I misspoke in the second sentence. Basically pulling out to jizz on her back/belly/whatever feels weak comparted to if I was just tugging it at my desk.

am I normal?
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>>17913452
>So you don't believe thin men are attractive to women at all, except on an 'intellectual' level?
>And you don't believe in gays or lesbians or bisexual people?

I believe gay men actually are attracted to men. Lesbians is more of an open question. But even for gay men and lesbians, the desire for masculinity and femininity is often there.

Often you see lesbians with taped down breasts, with baggy flannels and short hair; while their partner is more feminine. Why would lesbians need to be masculine at all...except for that primal desire in their partner for masculinity? ;)

As for women: almost all desire masculinity, but as they age (and/or intelligence), that desire becomes less and less of a factor in their desire for a mate. They learn that their desire purely for masculinity can be unhealthy with men that hurt them or don't treat them well.

But women's attractiveness goes beyond physical appearance; a man can be "attractive" if he dresses in a suit, or is confident. Or has a sense of humor.

This is why women's "porn" is romance novels. It revolves around a story of a "masculine" man in a masculine profession, whom the woman eventually "changes" and he commits to her fully.

Or maybe you think Twilight, 50 Shades of Gray, etc. aren't women "porn"? Uh, because they are.


For men, it's similar; but men are more visceral and as such rate attractiveness on a purely physical level. That's why men can be attracted to mannequins, anime, and "porn" is almost always women who are completely nameless.

For men as well, their primitive desire when they are younger can override everything; so we can date a woman who is hurtful to them, but stay because she has a good body.

Over time, (most) men learn that this is not as important, and learn to look for other factors in a woman.

Read this post again, it will help a lot to understand the opposite gender.
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>>17913484
Women do find a variety of things physically attractive. Lived experience, discussion with other women, etc, tell me so. They like men that range from muscly lifters to thin emo types in makeup.

Lesbians, for example, are often attracted to femininity, and butch lesbians become so out of some desire to be men. Even in your example of a lesbian couple, one half is attracted to the feminine partner.

Women's 'porn' as you call it is about fantasy, not reality, women like the romance of a couple falling in love, be it dominant/sub stuff or John Green.
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>>17913518
>Women do find a variety of things physically attractive. Lived experience, discussion with other women, etc, tell me so. They like men that range from muscly lifters to thin emo types in makeup.

Yes, but the overwhelming majority of women have desire for masculine men vs men who are not masculine. Note that this doesn't mean to be just about "muscly", masculinity could be a small guy who is very confident. Still goes to the primal desire for masculinity. Also, ask women if they would date a short guy. You'll be surprised at the stats.

Lesbian couples are a bit different; the butch is trying to emulate masculinity to be more attractive (to a woman). The butch lesbian herself though, is normally in the relationship because she doesn't have other options. She overrode her desire for masculinity in order to be with someone.

>Women's 'porn' as you call it is about fantasy,
Same as men's porn. It's about fantasy, not reality. It's just that for men, the fantasy is about having sex with a hot woman in various positions. For women, it's about a masculine man, to be sure; but it's also about the relationship, his commitment.

I mean, look at romance novels; you see many of them with emo types in makeup on the cover? If not, why not?
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how do i stop hating females for being shallow cunts who only chads irrespective of how ugly they are? i asked out this fuck ugly asian girl (i'm a 5'11 140 pound 18 year old white guy with 6/10 facial aesthetics) and she rejected me
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>>17913543
Well, yeah, you see all types on the cover. Do you not think vampires are not the emo wet dream?
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>>17913443
Anyone?
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>>17913545
Stop being a loser. Maybe you're so unpleasant she doesn't want to go out with you.
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>>17913550
Just tell her; men need to be more forward, I swear.
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Girls

From your point of view. Is there anything wrong with a healthy male going his entire life sexless and loveless?

would you see him as a "weirdo"?
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>>17913569
Yes he's a weirdo, but it's his life, why do I care?
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>>17913548
>Well, yeah, you see all types on the cover. Do you not think vampires are not the emo wet dream?

Well, like I said, look at Twilight for a romance. It's not his body per se, but more that he's a masculine guy that she "changes" so that he becomes mated to her...but still keeps his independent, masculine spirit.

I mean it's like vampire Shades of Gray. Can you see the pattern yet? It's the same thing, over and over and over.
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>>17913569
Yes, he's a 'weirdo', the same way anyone who doesn't find anyone ever is. Crazy cat ladies, for example.

But why the fuck would I even care?
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>>17913566
Yea, but theirs a cringey way of doing it, and a acceptable way.

I'm thinking of saying this
"Hey, I know this may seem out of the blue, but I wanted to tell you how I feel about you, I really like you, but I've been kinda afraid to say anything because I really like you as a friend, but I feel like it was time I said something, so I hope this doesn't ruin things between us."
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>>17913566
>Just tell her; men need to be more forward, I swear.

This. Women find confidence very alluring. Smart women can tell the difference between arrogance (which is loud), and confidence (which doesn't need to be). That's why young or dumb women fall for "bad boys", smarter women learn that a man can be nice and confident at the same time.
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>>17913580
And yet, as I told you, if you are not a woman you cannot claim to completely understand female sexuality. Nor could I, as a woman, understand a man's.

Why does it matter if women do actually find thinness and femininity attractive?

I do. I date pretty feminine girls, and I have long hair, love clothing and makeup and am feminine myself.
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>>17913574
>>17913582

That's disappointing to hear..
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>>17913595
What did you want to hear? That we'd follow you around, desperately trying to win you over, obsessing, worrying about your mental health, falling in love with you from afar?

Most likely, most women won't even give a shit. Once you rebuff them if they try to ask you out or flirt, they'll just shrug and move on.
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>>17913595
Just like we don't care what you do, why do you care what we think?
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Girls, especially younger (18ish) what's the best opening text you've ever got?
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>>17913599

>What did you want to hear? That we'd follow you around, desperately trying to win you over, obsessing, worrying about your mental health, falling in love with you from afar

No, not that. Just my reputation is important to me. I don't want to be seen as a "weirdo" by female co-workers or just whoever I'm frequently around..
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>>17913593
>And yet, as I told you, if you are not a woman you cannot claim to completely understand female sexuality. Nor could I, as a woman, understand a man's.
>Why does it matter if women do actually find thinness and femininity attractive?
>I do. I date pretty feminine girls, and I have long hair, love clothing and makeup and am feminine myself.

Good for you. But you are not the norm, are you? No you are not. My guess is that your desires are more complicated than what you state, but I'll take you at face value. Even your desire for "femininity" does not equate with what men desire in women, because you do not have a male sex drive. That's ok, I don't want to take away your freedom; just being realistic.

Overwhelming majority of women desire masculinity, and the overwhelming majority of men desire femininity.

We are hard-wired like this so we can reproduce as mammals. It's just natural selection.
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>>17913606
Pickup line or conversation starter?
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>>17913617
Conversion starter. Not dating yet, trying to get there.
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>>17913606
19yrs, never got an opening text.
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>>17913338
because they're strangers and you're being cautious. it's like making friends on the school yard when you're a kid. Eventually you end up finding someone who's like a best friend. It's a very similar feeling to a job interview as well. Go into it just looking to have a bit of fun and not expecting too much right off the bat. When it doubt go for it. That's all I've got.

>>17913112
try to make it memorable and take some risks with it without being *too* insulting. If it says she likes to dance try: "It says you like to dance. What kind of dancing do you prefer? *please say the kind that receives one dollar bills* (I'm an argentine tango man myself, mind you.)"
I mean that's what I would do. Maybe she hates that, maybe it makes her laugh. But just be something and do it in your own unique way. Best thing I've found is to call out her sexuality in a way that doesn't associate it with being a whore though.
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>>17913610
But do you have any evidence outside of 'lol look at porn' and 'we're male and female' to back those claims up? If not, then your argument is meaningless.
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>>17913641
>But do you have any evidence outside of 'lol look at porn' and 'we're male and female' to back those claims up? If not, then your argument is meaningless.

Look at the same evidence I have. Look at male porn, then look at romance novels.

Why is "porn" (images/vids) popular with males to turn them on, not so much with women?

And why are romance novels (including Twilight and 50 Shades of Gray) popular with women to turn them on, not so much with men?

Think about that why, year after year after year, men and women gravitate to different things to arouse them?

Why?
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Do i just say 'i want to be more than friends'?

I reconnected with an old friend. And i've been hanging out with her alone but just ending it with hugs since im not sure how she feels.
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>>17913654
I mean to ask as well, how can i phrase it better, more romantic.
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>>17913627
I'm sorry anon. What's your ## and I'll help you out?
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>>17913588
So is this a cringey way? or acceptable?
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FEMANONS

HOW DO I START A TEXR CONVERSATION

HOW DO I ENGAGE THE OTHER PERSON
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>just got hired at a restaurant as a server
>tons of hot ass waitresses
>one in particular i like
>she says she doesn't do drugs, good for me because i need to get away from drugs and all the other girls here seem like party sluts
>want to fuck/date super badly but can't tell if she likes me
>today they tell her she can go home early and she decides to work longer and tell me I can go home early cuz i had a rough day (no sleep from new years)

this girl seems really shy and i can't tell if she's shy or just kinda stuck up. She's extremely attractive but I started going out of my way to help her and talk to her and she's still shy but very kind to me. I think she's a few years younger than me but i know she's of age because she has a few tats.

I want to try to take this somewhere but dont want to make it awkward or be known as a creep a few weeks after i started at this place. some people already dont like me I feel like, i'm very outspoken person and sometimes people get offended easily by what I say (not just here in all situations in life)

What do I do?
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>>17913738
sounds almost like a girl i know who works in a restaurant. Where is this?
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>>17913738
Should add that I've been trying hard to be friends w/ all the female servers and make them laugh and shit at work and i've been generally successful. They all seem cliquey and some of them might think I'm a weirdo but i dont really give a shit
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>>17913745
This could be literally anywhere in the US. Where are you located? I work in a movie theater restaurant
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>>17913753
Ah, definitely not the girl I'm thinking of. She's in an Italian place I believe?
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>>17913757
As I said "Shy but could just be stuck up" "Very attractive" "Doesn't do drugs" "Has a few tats" literally describes millions. I work in a movie theater bistro that serves pub food to people watching their movies.
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>>17913767
Sounds like a nice theatre.

But yea, it is kinda generic, but how you said that she stuck around to let you leave early seems like something few would do. Though the Girl I know would probably do that as well.
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>>17913728
just say hey
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>>17913773
ok, well how should I do this than? I haven't been in a relationship in a few years and this is girlfriend material.

She also has heard me talking about playing magic w my friend so she might just think I'm a nerd but honestly i've been playing magic for half my life and i'm not changing that for a girl at this point.
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>>17913776
Not that anon, but your post reminded me of this
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>>17913776
she repliead

"Hey Anon"
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>>17913787
And now you're back to square 1 because you didn't say anything that deserves a proper reply.
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>>17913796
I followed your advise

I'm sorry
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>>17913780
help w this, this is my dream girl
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>>17913802
It wasn't my advice
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>>17913416
Maybe he had second thoughts. Maybe there's another gal he decided to pursue instead. Maybe his friend invited him over to play coop on some new game.

It's impossible to tell as little information as you gave.
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>>17913821
I didn't want to write a novel that people would ignore. Here are the details

>she matches with a guy on Tinder
>she knows of him outside of Tinder already - they're both post-grad students in the same subject, and have mutual friends
>they have similar interests and have a pretty good conversation going
>both are looking for a relationship instead of a quick fuck (yes, I know Tinder isn't a good place for that)
>for all intensive purposes, it's going well
>he invites her out to go for a hike just outside our city
>she's not too keen on hiking, but she likes him, so she goes along with it
>day of the hike he texts her "maybe we should do it another time, when the weather's better"
>the weather was perfectly fine, perfect for hiking, and it wasn't forecasted to get worse
>she hasn't heard from him since
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>>17913834
You already have a 50% chance of being ghosted from the simple fact you're using Tinder. Honestly just sounds like he had second thoughts about her and decided to skip it, and I'd advise her not to stress it too much. I mean you say she's not just after a quick lay, but she's on a website that was made for explicitly that purpose.

Also what the fuck is it with people and hiking. I swear according to the internet that makes up about half of all dates.
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>>17913852
Yeah, she's just worried about it being awkward this year since they're moving some of the post-grad students' offices around and there's a high chance that she'll be put in the same room as him. I did tell her it's only as awkward as she makes it, but idk, she feels awkward easily.

As for the hiking thing, we live in a place that has good hiking tracks, simple enough for a couple of hours or a day trip. And I don't really hear about it being a common date/hang out idea either. It's definitely not as common as the cliche dinner and a movie
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Can one get rid of sexual attraction? What do you do when you've got a good friend who you feel a deep sexual attraction to? I don't have feelings. Not at all. I just use them as my spank bank. But I feel like one day we're gonna be really drunk and it will happen, which i don't want. I think they might feel the same way about this situation as well.
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>>17913866
>there's a high chance that she'll be put in the same room as him.
And? Unless theres a lot of group projects or some shit I don't get the deal. I still have a couple of jagoffs I chewed out in front of others I had to work with in the past, in some of my classes. I just ignore them because why would I give a shit about them?

As you said, it's only an issue if she makes it one. What is there even to be embarrassed of? That she was on Tinder, when he was too?
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>>17913882
>What is there even to be embarrassed of? That she was on Tinder, when he was too?
No, I think it's more just the fact that they just dropped communication for seemingly no reason. Idk, I'm not her and I couldn't tell you except what I'm guessing. We're pretty different when it comes to dating attitudes so it's hard to get into her head and understand her POV fully
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>>17913660
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Thanks
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Girls,
let's say you have been exchanging (dirty) pictures with a guy,
what do you do with this pictures he sent you ?
Do you keep them to look at them from time to time?
Do you just delete them?
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>>17913970
I have a whole folder of every lewd picture and video my partner has sent me
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How do I get my gf to try penetration?
Right now we usually do oral sex and I do manual on her bean. When I stick my finger a little deep, she stops me and says "don't" in a serious tone.
She has never tried sticking anything in there. I've discussed it with her over the past 2 or 3 months, she still does not want to take it in even when she is at peak arousal.
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How do I improve my social skills? Sometimes I feel that I push my guy friends away with my loud, off color humor that is sometimes hit or miss, and I have no idea how I'm going to get to know any girls, or make any new friends at all.
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>>17914006
You talk to her like an adult. If you can't talk to her about sex, then you shouldn't be having it.
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>>17912213
For all the women visiting this thread: Men often ask if women are attracted to the chiselled muscular look but it seems surprisingly few are. This lead me to the hypothesis that pushing this kind of look as the ideal for men is actually a conspiracy by homosexuals (e.g. /fit/) to make men more attractive to gay dudes. I'd like your input.
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>>17914135
I highly doubt it's a gay conspiracy, but for what it's worth, I'd rather date a guy who's 'too buff' than a hamplanet. Being overly muscular isn't attractive, but being grossly overweight is worse.
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>>17914135
The ideal is honestly just being fairly thin and maybe slightly muscular. The guys on /fit/ are grossly muscular.
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Anyone, help me, how do i stop this shit?,

I met this girl a few months ago,when i entered college,, i put all my effort and i did my best to impress her and then i asked her out but nothing worked, then when she started going out with a very pesmistic and angry guy, she started treating me like shit, with various indirects and passive agressive shit

But guess what, i dodged all of that shit because i found an old friend from highschool and we started going out, not only is my friend way more cute than the other girl, she enjoys the same things i like, she laughs at my jokes and makes me laugh, she understands me in every way, she is the best girl i have ever met

While i was happily going out with my friend , the other girl got cheated on, and broke up with her bf ,and well for various reasons we kinda had to see each other regularly, of course now the only thing in my mind was the girl i was going out with,

While we were at a party, the same girl that ignored me months ago, out of fucking nowhere dared me to text shit to my friend at a true or dare game, of course i didn't do it and i realized what a terrible person she is

i wish my story ended here, but recently i confessed my feelings to my friend,and things didn't go as i expected, now she is confused, she only talks to me in texts and i haven't seen her in a while

i think i can fix things with my friend but the real problem is that now my feelins for the other girt are coming back for no reason, i know by fact that she is shit and a part of me still likes her

im trying to concentrate as much as i can in other stuff like vidya, drawing and working out and during my vacation my bros helped me clear my mind, but last night i had a nightmare involving the shitty girl and now my mind is a mess again

>tl;dr: Why do i still like this terrible person, even when i know a perfect girl that makes me feel way happier, how do i stop this?
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>>17914190
I'm so confused by this
>recently i confessed my feelings to my friend,and things didn't go as i expected
But you weren't dating her?
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>>17914190
>>17914196
Should be "WEREN'T YOU dating her?"
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>>17914190

1. You're addicted to the thrill of terrible women. The lows are super low and the highs are ecstasy. She treats you like shit and you run back like a little puppy because gaining her approval is a nagging high that you can't escape.

The other girl, by comparison, is logically a better choice but she's not as exciting because subconsciously you know you already have her approval. There is no chase. There is no up and down.

A lot of guys struggle with this same dysfunction. Its not rare.

Be aware of the pattern. Take note of your behavior. With time and maturity you'll learn to steer clear of the psychos, as addicting as they can be.

2. When you behave like a child, expect childish results. When you establish yourself as a vessel for other people's dysfunction, expect to constantly be treated like a push over. Truth or dare game? Come on dude.

3. You're in college. All of your relationships are supposed to go terribly because you and the rest of the kiddies have no clue who you are or what you want yet. All you know is you want someone to love you and think you're awesome and there's nothing wrong with that, just don't think too far ahead.

You're not marrying any of these women. Take your foot off the pedal, man. There's no urgency here. Focus on your studies because dealing with the emotional roller coaster of women will be a life long journey for you, not fucking up at school is a one time shot.
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Girls. If most of you aren't especially attracted to muscular guys, what physical qualities do you really find attractive?
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>>17914215
In no particular order
>Not fat
>Dressing well
>Good skin
>A nice face

In the end, it's the personality that can make or break my attraction to a guy though. It's probably not what you want to hear, but it's true. A guy can be the most handsome guy in the world, but if he's mopey or an asshole, I'm not going to be attracted to him
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>>17914196
>>17914200

i said i was going out with her i never said dating, and things were going to well, maybe to well to be true

it was always just the 2 of us and even on some of the text she sent me she always said she wanted it to be that way, she said stuff that melted my heart, like "i still have my acne from highschool, i feel like im going to dissapoint you anon", and she always thanked me and said yes every time i invited her somewhere

even at the movies i warped my arm around her and she was ok with it

when i confessed she said she isn't going out with anyone else but, maybe there is another person in her mind, she lives a bit far and i can only see her on weekends, then her school got into some trouble and she couln't go out in a long time, im almost sure i can fix things with her the next time i see her, even if she doesn't become my gf i know she will always be there for me, even after that happened she was the only person that remembered my birthday


for now i just want to concentrate on erasing my feelings for the shitty girl
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>>17914269
Going out and dating is the same thing though...?
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>>17912775
the usual indicators are blood and/or pain from the girl
>>17913267
fucking decent
>>17913416
the same reason why girls flake out at the last minute
>>17913834
INTENTS AND PURPOSES
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>>17914276
>INTENTS AND PURPOSES
>being this new
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>>17914135
Muscles are good. Not being fat is good. Being healthy and working out are good. Don't get discouraged by girls who say muscularity is gross. You'd have to go out of your way and put in a ton of extra effort (and maybe even steroids) to actually get to that level. It's the same as girls who are afraid to lift because they might get "too muscular like those female body builders".
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>>17914274
English is my second language so maybe i should have used another term that i don't know, but anywayys that's not my main focus right now

>>17914210
Thanks, you are probably right on everything, my classmates have been partying a lot recently and they have already created a bunch of drama, the shit girl even decided to get out of our class's whatsapp group, and i feel like a lot of people is going to drop out soon, i think i'll just go semi-neet for now and i'll use my free time to work out in my room avoiding contact as much as possible, when all of their drama is over i'll talk with them again and see what happens. hopefully by that time my mind will also be more clear
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>>17914215
>>17914246
This.
Also, intelligence and a sense of humour are a big thing for me personally.

I have a big thing for brunets with blue eyes as well, but that's entirely personal.
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Is a big penis important?

I'm Chinese and I have a 4 inch penis at best. Is my only hope finding an asian girl because their vaginas are proportional to the asian male penis?
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>>17914374
That probably is your best bet. Average for white guys is 5.6" - 6.5" so there will be some expectation among white and other races of women.
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>>17914379

That sucks. Even if I can't get a girl I wish I'd at least was born with a huge penis. It'd be nice to jerk off to porn and imagine I'm womb deep in a woman.
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>>17914386
It's not a big deal guy, there's nothing wrong with going with Chinese women anyway. You'll be perfectly average so there's nothing to worry about for dating.
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>>17913787
Say some bullshit like "how's life?"
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>>17914135
Male posting, but I think men just tend to think of extremes. Women like a girthy dick, but it's men that tend to push the idea that they want a dick the size of their forearm like in porn. Same dealio with muscles, they like them but it's more to the effect of ottermode rather than a body builder.
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>>17914389

Maybe not to you, whom I'm assuming is an average white guy with an average white penis.

Reverse Cowgirl? Not deep enough

Doggystyle with a girl with a fat ass? Won't reach in.

Deepthroat? Impossible, she'll choke on nothing.

I feel inadequete as a man sometimes. I wanna go balls deep in a woman and tickle her womb with the tip of my dick.
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>>17914400
>I wanna go balls deep in a woman and tickle her womb with the tip of my dick.
Things that sound great in doujins, but are terrifying in the real world.
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>>17914402

How so? Women like it deep, right? Gentle, rough, as long as it's big and girthy.
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>>17914410
Getting hit in the cervix feels similar to getting hit in the balls

>>17914400
One of the actual pros of having a smaller cock is that a girl can easily take the whole thing into her mouth and give you a good blowjob without trouble
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>>17912562
You were in that /pol/ thread asking the same thing
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>>17914400
>tickle her womb
Women don't actually like that, it's quite uncomfortable.
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For girls:
Do guys with lots of sexual partners effect how you view them? I've had about 10, but they have all been hookers (I use protection). Should I keep that quiet if I ever get a gf?
I'm probably going to keep getting hookers, because I need to. 27 years old
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>>17914443
>I've had about 10, but they have all been hookers
>I'm probably going to keep getting hookers, because I need to
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>>17914443
I'm pretty sure the bigger issue would be that you've slept with prostitutes, rather than the fact you've slept with 10 people.
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>>17914443
>I'm probably going to keep getting hookers, because I need to
you dont need to idiot
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>>17914443
Yes, I don't like promiscuity and would only be with a guy who has the same values and sexual experience I do. I believe honesty will ultimately be the best for you and any potential partner because it allows for you to find someone you're truely compatible with.
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>>17914450
>>17914446
Yeah, what I mean is the number is going to become bigger and bigger. How many sexual partners would be considered to many?
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>>17914452
Bruh, it's the only way I can get laid. Gods know how long it will be until I get a gf, and I don't want to go years without sex. I-I actually don't know what I'll do
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>>17914454
The number of regular sex partners would vary per woman. 1 prostitute is too many for most women either way.
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>>17914454
Bang as many hookers as you want, in for a penny and in for a pound, but no girl will be cool with it. Maybe they'd of been possibly cool with 1 but 10 and counting? Fuck no.
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>>17914458
>Gods know how long it will be until I get a gf
i'm afraid its over anon. women dont want a guy that fucks prostitutes.
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>>17914459
>>17914461
The way I see it, it's no different than hooking up with some girl on Tinder. Only thing is I spend money instead of time on the girls. That and hookers are generally/probably cleaner.
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>>17914458
>get tindr
>get laid
Done. Wasn't so hard was it?
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>>17914468
>The way I see it, it's no different than hooking up with some girl on Tinder
The way women see it, you have no self confidence or self respect because you fuck hookers. They'd prefer you used Tindr to get laid than use hookers, at least Tindr is normal and involves actual conversation and someone not being paid to like you.
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>>17914469
I tried Tinder, tried and failed. Not a single girl banged me. Plus I don't have a car
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>>17914473
doesn't matter lol

i have a car and a job and tinder is shit for me too
i'm too pussy to buy a hooker so im getting neck deep into anime and shit
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>>17914471
>caring about what women think
top wew
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>>17914477
Then why would he ask what women think about his situation?

Top memers laddy
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>>17914482
Because he's a punk ass bitch. Besides all women are whores, their prices just vary.
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>>17914471
Hmm, I can do the self confidence. I'm athletic, and obnoxious. But I guess I don't have much self respect, and I am weird. Was going to post a hookers text even saying she was unavailable, and that I was strange/eccentric. But, I cant be bothered editing
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>>17914443
10 would be an issue. less than about 4 probably not. But the fact that they're prostitutes would be an issue regardless. That's just not attractive or appealing at all.
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>>17914488
Lie, women do it all the time. Your mistake is seeing them as your equals.
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>>17914485
Memes, memes everywhere.
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>>17914493
It's 4chan, no shit.
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>>17914489
Oh...
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>>17914495
Women don't like it when the value of their pussy is undercut.
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>>17914491
You must have a sad life if all you do is browse 4chan and hate women
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>>17914496
>>17914491
>>17914477
Are you the same person?
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>>17914476
If you're still here anon I'll give you some advice.
Don't be scared about getting an escort, they're used to having shy guys/first timers. If you are still nervous, don't go for the cheap ones, or ones from shady back pages. Get a professional one, from a site that at least has verified photos (Won't get catfished).
Sure she might be a little more expensive, but she will most likely be more laid back, willing to take the reigns, not going to cut the session short, etc..
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>>17912213
Girls..or experienced guys I guess

Had sex with girlfriend today and she wanted me to finish in her. So I did. She was adamant that because today she had just started her period she won't get pregnant. Of course, she knows that there is still a chance but really doesn't want to take an emergency contraception pill because she's sure the chances are so slim there is no point.

Anyone wanna comfort me? Or should she really take that pill.
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>>17914639
You'll probably be fine, but you really should not fucking do that again.

Go get birth control that allows you to cum in her worry free.
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>>17912213
Every time this thread comes up, I wonder who "fart guy" is.
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>>17914670
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ll6lICBF5II
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>>17914696
What the fuck? Wish I hadn't asked.
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>>17914709
suck it bitch
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>>17912213
So there is one grill I have a crush on.

I become cringelord around her, so everybody in our workspace knows about my feelings. She gave pretty clear hinta that she's not interested. I thought that would be enough to get over her, but no. That little bitch is teasing me, too.
So, how do i get over her?
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why have i been getting this strange feeling that some crazy shit is about to come my way and just JUST me in the near future?
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>>17914915

Could be paranoia (which is usually a symptom of something else) or obsessive compulsive thoughts. Depending on how badly it's affecting you either see a shrink or ignore it.
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Guys if you were a Mexican and while your ex girlfriend / best friend was giving you and head and said cum for me daddy would that turn you on?
I was thinking of saying papi but I'm not Mexican and felt it was to much.
What do? I'm nervous to call him this because I'm not sure if it'll turn him on or make him think wtf
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>>17915045
I don't think the "daddy" thing has to do with race. Some people like it and some don't.
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There's this girl who I like in my major. We don't talk to each other, but we have banter when we're drunk at parties. My friends know how I feel about her, and I think her friends have caught up on this as well.

With my birthday coming up in a couple of days, I think it would be a good idea to add her on Facebook. However, my gut tells me this is a poisoned chalice: whilst she'd probably write something on my wall for my birthday, I can't help but think her friends will see me for an obsessed creep.

What shall I do?
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My GF is a nice well meaning woman with a good soul but I don't feel like I connect with her on a deeper level. She only really likes things that are "rad" and anything artistic or interesting/different she's just like "wow.. yeah.. that's like.. i don't know!! haha cool!!"

how do I get over this.
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Either gender

How do I manage my thought and desires of other women?

I've been with my girlfriend since we were both in grade school (both are 22 now) and still love her, but I get desires to fuck other women. Any advice to manage these thoughts?
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(Not OP)

>>17914450
>>17914489
10 partners would be too much for a guy? Since when? Why do you like Chad Thundercock, then?

>>17914459
Where it is legal, many, many guys fuck/fucked hookers and the women never know. :)

>>17914461
What about 48? lol

>>17914639
DUMBASS!

>>17915045
>daddy
ABSOLUTELY DISGUSTING! I'm not Mexican, though.

>>17915057
Spoiler alert: she'll post nothing for you.
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>>17915045
if i were mexican id want to be called nigger jew
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>>17915066
Well, I didn't mention it, but there are photos of us together where I look like a drunk tool. Posting 'delicate' photos like that on someone's wall for their birthday is customary here.
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>>17915068
I'm Brazilian and I'd love to be called monkey in bed by a foreign girl.
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Girls
Can you give an example of a good time for a guy to talk to you, and a bad time? I usually feel like I'll just be bothering them if they're a cashier or something.
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>>17915092
If you're ugly it's always a bad time.
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I've been dating this girl for 2 months. I'm in my late 20's and she's 5 years younger than me. I was a virgin until I met her and this is the first relationship I ever had. We were going to be away from each other for Christmas, so we talked about becoming official before we left as I didn't want to keep our relationship at the "are we/aren't we" stage anymore. Lately however something has felt a bit off.

I had invitations to a few parties for new years eve, but I told her that if she wanted I could travel to spend it with her. She didn't seem that keen on the idea and since she was going to spend it with her childhood friends, I didn't push it. On the new years eve however, she texted me "Happy new year" but it was fairly dry. I tried calling her to tell her mine over the phone, but she never picked up the phone and never called me back. We texted normally the next day, but she didn't acknowledge my calls at all.
She was finally coming to town today, so I asked her if she wanted to get something to drink after her classes. She said that she needs to get some sleep and that she promised her friends she'd go for a drink with them.

So I'm pretty pissed off right now. I always go out of the way to see her, but it feels like she only has the time for me when it's convenient for her. Before we left for Christmas she told me she has exams coming up soon and that she won't have as much time. But she was pulling the same shit before and always tells me how she didn't do any work and how she leaves everything till the last moment.

Am I justified in my anger? I've never been in a relationship, so whenever stuff like that happens, I always put myself down and start thinking that clearly I must have done something wrong, I was overzealous, didn't respect her boundaries, etc. But right now, I'm pretty mad at her, because she couldn't even find a few minutes to see me and I told her a few days back I could pick her up after classes.
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Suppose your bf jerk off to ASMR to help him sleep better (caught him watching this)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1wh8f-b6Tys
would it be reason to start a fight even after he just gave you a gift in the morning???
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>>17915143
He is cheating on you with his e-gf!
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>>17915143

Jesus that is creepy. I completely get whacking off to porn but this is just another level. She's kind of replicating (badly) the girlfriend experience which is what you should be providing him with.

This isn't the kind of thing I'd feel comfortable with, personally.
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>>17915045

Not sure how it works for mexicans, but I think the "daddy" thing is only present in american culture. Not sure, but at least in mine it's not common at all and would be a turn off for me.
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>>17915143

Is he lacking in bed to justify a fight? If not, just let him jerk of for christ sake. You should be watching the video to learn to emulate and give him a raging boner for you to sit on instead of being jelly.
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>>17915065
Fuck other women
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Bf and I have a great sex life, very regular and we're both really intune with each others needs, however I'd like to try and spice things up a bit, so neither of us get bored.

Problem is...I don't know how, or how to bring this up without putting pressure on us having sex or hitting certain goals.

Any advice on how to bring this up and what to suggest?
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My fwb wants me to "sit on his face". What does this entail? I don't want to stick my butt in his face really because it could be embarrassing?
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>>17915170
What do you want to bring in?

Either talk to him about it, or slowly introduce it to your sex making. Depends largely on what are your intentions.

>>17915177
Crouch with his pussy on his mouth
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>>17915170
Massage his prostate.
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Do I look like a pussy if I unfollow an ex who dumped me on all social media and tried to avoid her as much as possible?
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>>17915340
Dude, that's actually a healthy thing for you to do.
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When is a reasonable time in the relationship to tell a girl you're on anti-depressants. Obviously you don't say that on the first date.
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>>17915348
Yeah thing is I have to see her everyday. I have classes with her and I can't just skip or else I'll look weak. I could change my schedule to not see her though.
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>>17915340
You only look like a pussy if you show that what she did fazed you. Namely getting all depressed when she shows up, blatantly avoiding contact with her and just emanating a lesser vibe/passion than you usually do.

Behave like YOU broke up with HER. It gets them all the time and quickly reverses the situation.
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>>17915177
Clit on his face facing him (so not 69 position), it's actually the best thing ever.
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This girl I was seeing started acting distant all of a sudden and said she was dealing with some things and just got out of a long relationship. I told her I'd give her space and to take all the time she needed to deal with it. Should I contact her at all? Ask her how she's doing after a while? It's like, I know I'm screwed but I'm in big time denial and think I can still salvage this.
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>>17915352
Whenever it feels like that sort of trust is built.

I told my SO I was on meds maybe around 6-7 months in. Took me a while, maybe a year or two, to explain why though since I have PTSD and didn't want to go that deep yet.

I think the thing that most people struggle with when we tell them things like this, is that they want to help and they don't know how. Or there may be a general confusion that we "seem so normal/happy"

I think with these things, it's also best to give a little explanation of how we are helping ourselves, so we do not make it feel like it is their burden.
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>>17915352
Before she asks why you never cum from sex
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Girls,
what's your opinion on grown up men that actively read and masturbate to loli hentai?
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>>17915419
Pathetic losers who I would never be associated with to begin with.
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>>17915419
Nope nope nope. Can't handle that. The idea of a grown man liking loli makes me throw up.

I like hentai tho, just can't handle loli shit.

A friend of mine and her bf were struggling with this shit because all he'd fap to was loli. 8 years into their relationship, he rapes the 11 year old neighbor girl. nope nope nope
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>>17915419
Should be lined up and shot
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>>17915419
Just kill yourself
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>>17915426
>>17915425
>>17915423
Is that also how you'd react to ddlg and ageplay stuff
Like if he wanted to roleplay, dress you up, etc
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Guys or girls
I work at the mall at a stand for a couple years and recently found out info about a restaurant there that's out in the open and can see Me all the time. I had an issue with a guy that use to work there because he forecully tried making out with Me in the parking lot and the cops were called.
Anyways my friend who is close with a guy that worKS at this restaurant told her that all the guys talk about me there in a very dirty way.
I wasn't happy to hear this because I'm overly anxious. She told me to be flatterd. I'm not though.
How can I be less anxious? I don't think they will do anything but I don't like this feeling and don't want to sound like I'm making a big deal out of nothing
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>>17915423
>>17915425
>>17915426
>>17915432
:(
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>>17915436
Yea, I'd react similarly. Reminds me of pedo grooming
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>>17915449
Have you tried having sex with him?
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>>17915419
As long as you stay away from both me and little kids I'm fine with it.
But really, try to find yourself a ddlg relationship and don't hurt anyone.
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>>17915467
What :( I'm not interested. I'm guessing I sound like I'm overacting
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>>17915476
give him a chance, geez
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>>17914639
So she's on her period right now?

There is literally the smallest of chances to get pregnant on the starting day of a period. My bf and I do this too. I like being came in, and this is the only time we do it since there is virtually no chance.


Taking the pill will likely fuck up her cycle.
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>>17915449
good thing you called the cops that one time. you're not making yourself look like an easy victim.
and yeah that doesn't sound like a great situation. i wouldn't expect any of them to do anything to you honestly, but there's no reason to feel flattered about that either...
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Girls, do you scrub your ass in the shower if you know you're going to have doggy style sex with a guy?
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>>17915397
you were the rebound
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>>17915436
Oh my god that's even worse. I mean sure we all got some taboo fantasies. But bringing it out like that means you're one step closer to actually going and taking it further like looking for cp or shit. Disgust. I feel sick thinking about it.Hell no am I gonna pretend to be a little middle school girl
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>>17915533
I scrub my ass every time I take a shower.

If we're doing anything with anal play, I do take my ass scrubbings more seriously tho.
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>>17915538
middle school girls around me aren't so little
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>>17915545
>I scrub my ass every time I take a shower.
with what?
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>>17915551
loofa or a wash cloth
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>>17915547
You're disgusting. They're kids.
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>>17915557
yeah that's what I tell myself, too
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>>17915547
Their bodies are developing, but their minds are much slower.

If any young teen gives off the vibe that she wants it, she is also adapting to her body's sexual maturation and is also exposed to sex at a young age, like we all were. This is known as sexually flexing, and it doesn't happen to every young girl, but some do this.

However, it is not a green light for you to be a pedophile. You are literally disgusting and will die alone.
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>>17915537
Feels bad, man. Guess I just fell for her a little too hard.
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>>17915092
If I look busy or have my headphones in then it's probably a bad time. If i'm just dicking around on my phone then I'm probably not actually busy.
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Guys:

This guy I'm with refuses to go down on me. It's my favourite thing though, I have multiple orgasms from that shit.
Should I end it? Is there any way to persuade him to give it a try?
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>>17915066
>10 partners would be too much for a guy? Since when? Why do you like Chad Thundercock, then?

I don't. I never have liked the 'Chad' type.

If 10 partners is too much for a girl, it's too much for a boy. I wouldn't date anyone who had had that many (am bi).
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>>17915620
Sounds like he's closet homo. How can you not like pussy? Do you smell down there?
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>>17915131
My family is pretty big on christmas and NYE, so I wouldn't break my traditions to hang out with someone who I just recently "became official" with. I think you might be blowing this out of proportion, but I don't like clingy guys so it might just be me. Your girlfriend needs to maintain her individuality, there's no need to spend every second of the day with you. I get that you were bummed because you hadn't seen her in a while, but this tends to be a crazy time for college students.


>I'm pretty mad at her, because she couldn't even find a few minutes to see me and I told her a few days back I could pick her up after classes.

I think you might tell her that you feel disappointing or upset when she doesn't make time to see you, but there's no need to be angry.
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>>17915620
Don't be a dirty slag and shower first
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>>17915143
I get porn and don't care if my man watches it, but this is like a...girlfriend. I'd be very uncomfortable here.
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>>17915419
As long as he assured me he wasn't into actual children, I wouldn't mind all that much. Mostly because I've masturbated to some pretty weird stuff so I can't really judge.
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>>17915170
Try some light bdsm?
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>>17915635
Good idea, thx anon

>>17915626
But seriously, he just says he "doesn't do that". Wtf?? I feel as if young guys don't eat pussy and it's crap.
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>>17915419
Fuck no. I'm fine with some weird ass hentai, but loli is waaay too close to paedophilia. Provided you stay well, well away from me and small children, I probably wouldn't call the cops or anything. But if you're asking about dating, no fucking way.
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>>17915436
Yes, I find that stuff really uncomfortable, particularly when it bleeds into daily life and isn't just a bedroom thing.
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>>17915649
he doesn't find you worthy of the effort, probably just want to put his dick in a wet hole
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>>17915620
How long have you been together? If not long, end it. It means he doesn't care about your pleasure.
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>>17915665
Tbh 99% of the time I dont care about the girls pleasure
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>>17915649
Are you sure this guy truly cares about you?
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>>17915678
You're a cunt but I guess some girls with daddy issues might be into that.
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>>17915678
So, you're a crap lover. And....?
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>>17915689
Girls exist for male sexual gratification
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>>17915679
Probably not, but I was at least hoping to get a few orgasms out of him.

When he said that I went completely dry and refused him sex - was that a valid response? Ugh, I'm probably going to ghost him.
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>>17915695
>I went completely dry
you can control this? lol
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>>17915694
Alright troll. Whatever.
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>>17915701
Natural bodily reaction when you're ready to face fuck someone and they say "nah".
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>>17915694
And men exist to support women.
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>>17915707
>she actually things her SO aka guy who's using her for sex actually cares about her
Adorable
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>>17915765
More of a fwb, but where's the benefit if he doesn't lick me out?
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>>17915765
Like I said, you're a troll. Plus, I'm in a relationship with a girl.
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>>17915780
You know exactly what a guy like this troll would say. Don't bother.

"It's only to benefit him".

He's a loser. Don't engage like >>17915781
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>>17915622
I didnt date them. Just sex
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>>17915740
I don't date or pay for shit for women. I have sex with them and if they want more ill find somebody else
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>>17915820
So? It's the fact that you did at all that's a turnoff. A lot of women, just like a lot of men, don't want someone who's been with lots of people. It's not endearing.
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>>17915847
Lemme guess. "MGTOW 4 lyf". All women are whores, and in spite of saying I'm 'going my own way' I spend a disproportionate amount of my time bitching on the internet about how awful women are, and the thought consumes me to the point where women have more control over my life than if I were able to have a healthy relationship.
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>>17915631

Thanks, I understand that she wasn't keen on spending the NYE with me. She lives on the other end of the country and she was spending it with some old friends so I didn't want to crash the party and interrupt.

But I was really bummed out that she didn't answer my call on NYE, never acknowledged it and then she blew me off to go out with her female friends that she sees at school.

In the end she texted me if I wanted to come out and I ended up walking her to a bus stop, as I live close to her school.

I don't know if I'm being clingy or not, but it just feels like whenever we're meeting it's on her terms. I get that she's pretty busy, but I went to the university myself and I now work full time, doing stuff that is very time consuming. And yet, I find the time to do my work, go to language classes, workout at the gym and go out with her whenever she wants to, even if I have to work longer hours next day. Whereas she complains about never having time, while watching movies, going out with friends, baking etc. I don't expect to be the number one person in her life since we've haven't known each other for that long. But sometimes I feel like she doesn't really respect me and assumes that I'm just gonna be there for her, while she's not willing to put in the same level of effort.

Maybe I'm being salty, maybe I'm clingy or I just have no backbone. I work freelance from home and I'm new to the city, so I don't have a large social circle, so it could be that that she has much more stuff going on in her life than me.
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>>17915620
>>17915626
>>17915649
>>17915661
>>17915665
>>17915679
>>17915695
Some guys just don't like that kind of stuff. Just like some girls don't like giving blowjobs either. Femanon, don't act like you're entitled to receiving oral, it's just as shitty of behaviour as if a guy acted like that.

Though if it's borderline, like >>17915635 said proper cleaning might help.
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>>17916015
Well, we're not acting like we're entitled, but everyone is allowed to decide that you don't want a selfish lover who won't do anything they don't want to do to be nice to you.

I don't like giving blow jobs, but I do, because my bf enjoys it, so I'm being a giving lover.
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>>17915620
Think of it on the other perspective, what if he told you he was gonna leave you if you didnt let him fuck you in the ass?
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>>17916039
But, it depends on if she can get off from penetration. If not, then he's not doing anything for her.

From my understanding of doing anal on a girl, is that it's not so drastically better than PV sex that it means that you're not giving your guy any pleasure.

A better equivalent in a blow job. Any form of oral is not usually done for your pleasure, it's so that you can do something nice for the other person; if it were a guy complaining that his girlfriend never gives him a blow job then I at least would give the sane advice. No one wants a selfish lover, and anal is not exactly comparable.
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>>17916022
but you are a girl an 99% chance submissive sexually, ofc you sign up for others pleasure and being a "giver". Guys are not like that, we are not submissive by nature and being a "giver" is a huge turn off for us.

>>17916052
what if you met a guy who cant cum except from anal sex? Its a good comparison.
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>>17916062
Then it would be unfair and equal. But I've never met one. The thing about penises is that generally, if you stimulate it long enough the guy will come.
> Guys are not like that, we are not submissive by nature and being a "giver" is a huge turn off for us.

But it's not about you? It's about her, and being a good lover.

Also, I'm not only submissive, I can also be dominant.

Look, it appears really selfish to a girl when you won't go down on a girl, and if you're likethat with sex it'll probably eventually bleed into everything else in your life.

Like it or not, that's how most women think.
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Is using a filter on your fb profile photo lame?
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>>17915873
>healthy relationship.
You mean successfully falling for the succubus scam?
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>>17916098
Did you even understand what I wrote?
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I asked a girl what type of coffee does she like and she said "depends on my humor". Where do i go from here?
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>>17916113
Tell her to stop being so cryptic and just tell you what kind of fucking coffee she likes.
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I was super friends with this girl, before, but now she's being distant and never texts me unless i do it first. It's been fucking with my mind a lot, and now i'm thinking whether I should text her asking if there's something wrong, but I'm afraid she'll think I'm needy if actually nothing's wrong and it's just me being paranoid. Wat do?
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>>17916203
Forget her, women are stupid
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>>17916203
Why do people assume that if someone stopped talking to you, that means you did something wrong?
I've lost contact with tons of friends throughout the years. It's not because they did something to offend me. Usually I just wasn't that into them. Our interests were different, our humor was different, we didn't share the same schedule, or I got busy and prioritized other people.

It's not their fault. They aren't bad people. They didn't "scare me away" or something stupid like that. I just have a limited amount of time and energy. If I kept contact with everyone that I've ever had a friendship with, I wouldn't even have time to sleep.

Also, what if she's depressed and withdrawing? What if she's the one with the problem? Making it all about you would make you look a bit like a self centered twat.
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>>17916483
>that means you did something wrong?

Because clearly you didn't do something right if they can just forget about you like that.
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>>17916022
You are definitely acting like you're entitled. You're acting entitled to someone having sex in a way that makes it unpleasant for them and is a major turn-off.
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had to use paint for this foto, don't know how other people paste their tinder bios and stuff, but anyways this is my tinder bio. teh thingy is, when I wasn't a shutin I would get some female attention irl, but on the internet I get none. Do my fotos reek of shutin or something? I tried changing it to some other attractive dude and I got a bunch of matches, but with my own I barely get any. it's weird to me. the other attractive dude's pic was similar to my main one, but he had some muscles showing and his smile was not as awkward i suppose. also i know less attractive people than me who get matches, so what gives?
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>>17916487
It's not about right and wrong.
There are some people who are extroverts and like to go out and play card games. There are some people who are introverts who like to stay in and watch tv. If I am the former, I'm not gonna really enjoy time with the latter, and vis versa. You have to be compatible.
Some people like to talk about what's bothering them. Some people prefer to discuss sports. Some people like to talk about politics. Some people prefer to talk about anime. Some people like to talk about drawing. Some people prefer to talk about music. Some people like to jokingly insult each other. Some people like to make puns.
There's nothing inherently wrong with any of these people. But they might not jive completely with people who don't think the way that they do.
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>>17916616
Why the angry face? I wouldn't want you making that expression at me.
Try propping up your phone and taking a timed photo. It's more flattering than selfies. Being this close to the camera can feel a little claustrophobic. The straight on look feels like a passport photo. 3/4? Hold your cat/dog in the photo. Or your friend's cat/dog.
I'm not a fan of you describing yourself as gorgeous, petty, and a god. But whatever.
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>>17916693
well the angry face is just my regular face. but i see what you mean with the photos. my reaction though is fuck that noise. i'll just talk to people i guess, because faking all these photos that aren't me makes me nervous. i'm a very awkward person you see, so it just isn't my gag i suppose. maybe i'll change my mind if i get more desperate, i dunno.
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I come from /g/, first time in /adv/. I know this may be questioned before. But finally I have the balls and I will talk to that cute girl tomorrow and I don't know how to start a conversation with her if I have never talked with her. I was thinking I should talk about the new year and then ask her name. Please help.
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