I went to visit my long distance boyfriend a few months ago.

He wanted you back. "Friend" was just a word to warm things up again.

I'd personally move on.
He sounds a bit too self-absorbed. Also, long distance relationship with a bad start. Hope you two are young.
Good luck.

>>17911522
Early 20's for me mid 20's for him.

And thanks for the luck.

You're not the only one who has made a long distance mistake. So if you feel like you wasted time, money, effort, etc. You have no idea.

>>17911556
In fact, I'll go ahead and tell you my tragically beta of a story. So you get a taste of how cruel life can be.

I was talking to this chick from South Africa who lives(d) in Chicago. Met on a social app, talked on kik for months on and off, because she was suicidal and ignored ppl in a very rash hateful manner.

But still I felt sorry for her, because she was so out of place there. Her ex dumped her because she started developing feelings for a guy who knew her ex, and he told her ex. Ex breaks up with her, she turns out a mess. Similar to your story OP, except she actually cut herself n tried killing herself. She was desperate for attention really, and I didn't know any better then, just wanted to help her, and maybe show her the affection she lacked.

Long story short. She gets raped by her cousins roomate one day and jumps on kik to tell me about it. Sad as shit, said her stomach was in knots. I thought, okay, this is the big one... she's definitely gonna kill herself this time... So, believe jt or not (I was a roofer at the time and paid for all my own stuff, rent, food, travel, I had no help from the gov) I travelled over thinking I could help her. Big mistake.

She blocked me on kik again, wouldn't respond. I was going crazy thinking "this is it". So, took a greyhound, all I could afford with my $600 saved up. Went over. When I arrived, Chicago had a snowstorm, and me, I had never even seen snow before. I was trying every desperate means to try and contact her, with no luck. I was totally unprepared for that cold... Looked everywhere for her, lake, police station, hospital, other places.. no luck. Almost died of a fever at a greyhound station later. Got back home, a friend of mine then was able to contact her, she told me "she called you a fool". Today, of course I couldn't disagree more. "How could you share my private stuff with ppl like that!", ppl I trusted to help me... after all that, and nearly dying myself.. pff.

>>17911577
couldn't agree more* rather

about the whole being a fool then. i was very foolish indeed.

my advice to ALL of the /adv/ community, never waste your hard earned money on attention whores.

>>17911587
Your story is worse. Bitch didn't deserve you.

I'm tempted to message him (text as whatsapp is blocked) and say " if I'm such a good friend why did you cut me out of your life"

But I don't want to boost his ego anymore than I have, I don't want to be used anymore than I have been.

>>17911613
Yeah, don't. Someone who takes for granted that level of effort isn't worth it.

>>17911477
>If he saw me as a good friend, why would he do that?

he wouldn't

that was a line he was using to get in your pants 1 more time

please just find some local guy you can spend time with by driving less than 20 mins