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Shall i tell my ex bf that i love and miss him even if i know

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Shall i tell my ex bf that i love and miss him even if i know we can never go back now?
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>>17909579
Do whatever makes you happy

If you're going to put the both of yourselves in a situation though where you're sad, I advise against it
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>>17909586
It would be sad. I know its best to not. Just so hard.
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>>17909579
no

find somebody new !

hint - i'm available :)
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>>17909579
No. It's time to move on.
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>>17909579
does he love and miss you? Why can't you go back?
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>>17909949
Okay. Lets get together.
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>>17909954
I have but at times i struggle
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If you know you can never go back then what's the point?
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>>17909579
you shouldn't have fucked that guy so he'll never believe you love him
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>>17909987
Well people do tend to fuck in a relationship.
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>>17909579
H.A.W.?
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>>17909965
He does i think. We just dont seem to work despite being in love. Its such a pisser.
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>>17910056
No
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>>17909979
There isnt one. But its hard. Fuck fuck fuckerdy fuck
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Im in same boat
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I texted her that I wanted to start over. Either the response will be yes, then it'll be a little work to get things going again but that's fine. Or she'll say no and business as usual getting on with life without her
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>>17910173
Hope she replies either way
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>>17910188
Thanks
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>>17910097
Why?

sounds like you're assuming a bunch of bullshit. Talk to him, for real. Just communicated and be honest.

What's so hard about this?
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No. Just move on.
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>>17910208
I wish i could. It is hard. Youve no clue so please stick a carrot up your ass or muff and be on your merry way.
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>>17910216
>Youve no clue
are you 12?

yes, it is that easy dipshit. Like, THAT easy. As easy as making retarded posts and you've got that down.
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Christ my ex wouldn't stop doing this shit, I told her to please stop talking to me as politely as possible at least 6 times within the year and that I was finally doing good without her, finally I had to be rude about it. But here's the kicker, she dumped ME.
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>>17910220
Who says dipshit anymore? Are you 11 1/2
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>>17910208
Just send a text. Easy. If bad response or no response, then you know you need to drop it once and for all. If positive, then maybe you can work it out
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>>17910228
It is over once and for all i just wanted to tell him i love him. Is that so wrong? Its nice to be loved and to know you are.
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>>17910234
So just say that. Quick and to the point
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>>17910248
Can you tell him for me?
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>>17909579
Yes it might cheer him up.
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>>17910253
Yes
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>>17910290
Or i might upset him. Dont want to do that. Miss him so much. Why did it get so fucked up?
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>>17910293
Thanks. What did he say?
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>>17910308
I dont know him you have to give me his number and your name
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>>17910301
Jus tell him how you feel Jesus.
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>>17910318
Do i have to do everything? Can you not just take a guess?
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Depends on why you broke up

If you hurt him please leave him alone and fuck off

If you didn't let him know.
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>>17910320
Im not jesus
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>>17910324
We hurt each other. But yep i will fuck off.
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>>17910328
Did one/both cheated?
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>>17910332
Neither cheated.
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>>17910334
Why did you broke up, OP?
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>>17910341
Good question. Its complicated but it wasnt because we didnt love each other. We just oh fuck idk
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>>17910345
Literally makin zero cents.
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>>17910345
Just message him for fuck's sake. What's the worst that could happen? You apologize and continue a relationship with someone you obviously still love?

Just do it.
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>>17910345
If you didn't want to do it then you wouldn't have made the thread. Fuck what other people say. Do what you want. Good things take time, great things happen all at once.

Make romance, play your part.
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do it. just do it. you made the thread to get confirmation to. so, good luck with that.

also, i'm in the same boat and waiting on the idiot to message me back
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>>17909579
>tfw debating calling my ex husband
i really fucked up when i left him
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>>17909579
I would say yes imo. How did your relationship end?
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>>17909579
no. i did that to two people and they basically told me to go fuck my self.
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>>17910448
Then why tell someone to not do it?

The worst that can happen is they say no? So nothing changes?

The best thing that can happen is they keep talking to OP, they rekindle their love and live happily ever after.

Good things for the one that tries.
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>>17909579
Do it
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>>17909579
Fuck off Tracey I know you cheated on me.
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>>17910713
Might not even be you. But I don't fucking care., You're a lazy fucking stupid bitch who blames her problems on everyone else

You've had years to show any initiative in this relationship and you just don't do it. You never did anything. Go fuck yourself. You've had ages to message me first, over and over, constantly, so many changes to message me first. YOU NEVER DO IT. EVER. AND YOU NEVER WILL

You fucked everything up, it IS your fault. We're done. "I have but at times I still struggle"

Shut the fuck up, you moved on far before I did. "Shall I tell my ex bf that I love him and miss him" you never had any interest in the fact that I LOVED AND MISSED YOU countless fucking times

OMFG FUCK YOU FOR STARTING USING ADV. JUST FUCK OFF. I CAN'T GO ANYWHERE IN THIS WORLD WITHOUT YOU BEING HERE. LEAVE ME THE FUCK ALONE. GO SIT IN YOUR FUCKING GARDEN AND FEED YOUR CATS WHILE YOU TALK TO GARY

FUCK YOU.
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>>17910721
So if you are who I think you are, and you genuinely want to say "I love and miss you" my response is FUCK YOU, you should have thought about that ages ago. You should have thought about that when I was begging you to fucking care about us as much as I do by refraining from blocking contact with me constantly

Just what the fuck ever. Fuck you. I wish I never met you. I wish I had just not logged on that day we met.

I don't want your fake "love" if it's mixed in with your punishment any time I'm less than perfect

Now you're sitting here trying to get sympathy, even saying "Okay. Lets get together"

Go to that canal where we had a picnic tomorrow afternoon and think about all the nice times we had and all the things you've done to punish me for being less than perfect and reflect on how much of a fucking BITCH you are putting EVERYONE ELSE above me constantly.

"Oh I just want to talk to my ex"
"Oh I just want to comfort my ex"
"Oh I'll leave him soon"

I always came last for you, you almost always came first for me, and when you didn't you used that as justification for continuing to never put me first

Fuck off and stop using this fucking website. "It's a kids website" as you described it while fucking insulting me for no good reason, completely unprovoked, so why the fuck are you here you old fucking hag?

I know you cheated on me, I don't even care anymore. FUCK YOU.
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>>17910733
You're incapable of handling loneliness. You're incapable of handling solitude of any type because you've never been forced to have experience with it

"At times it gets hard" means "at times I wish I had that branch back as an option"

You're a prime example of fucking scum branch-hoppers going from one cock to the next as long as you can leech from them.

Your husband isn't good enough for you, none of your exes are, I never am, nobody is. It's because you aren't good enough for yourself so you want someone to make up for that and make your life okay. Try living alone. You couldn't. You never have.

Basically fuck off normie bitch
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>>17910741
I don't want your fucking sympathy you stupid old hag.

How fucking dare you come here and say "I want to let you know I love and miss you" after you fucked everything up beyond repair with your constant lack of respect for me.

I don't blame you though this is all my fault for being stupid enough to think you are capable of handling relationships, which you clearly can't without crowing hissy fits and having mental breakdowns any time your BPD idealization of me breaks down, instantly switching into a devaluation.

Don't do this shit to anyone else. You're fundamentally broken as a human being and mentally ill

All of our shit and stupid sweetness was all fake because you never backed it up with ACTIONS.

Anyway I don't care because I'm sitting here speaking to someone who has already moved on and who will continue to go and find other boyfriends with ease because you're good at pretending to not be insane to lure them in

Nothing I said was ever enough for you, nothing we had was any good. It's all fucking shit. I can't believe I wasted over $10k on you even after all the things you said. Yes, WHAT YOU SAY MATTERS. IT'S NOT JUST FUCKING WORDS.

Never contact me, I never want to see your goddamn selfish face again.
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>>17910757
Everything was going fucking fine then I had to read your stupid fucking post

Leave me the fuck alone I want to forget about you. So quit your stupid shit, your selfish self gratification of being able to say to yourself "I told him I love him and miss him, that puts me on the higher ground at the end since he didn't do it" I always fucking did it, all the fucking times you never appreciated

Instant fucking rage the moment I'm reminded of your fucking existence. You are everything that should be hated in this world. A worthless cheating slag who never appreciates what she has, ever, nothing's good enough for you. All I wanted was for you to fucking like me even half as much as I liked you and you NEVER DID. YOU NEVER FUCKING DID
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>>17910768
I'm done with you all. Prostitutes and one night stands for the rest of my life, you women are not even remotely worth it, you're all insane, you make everything harder than it has to be

Fucking relax. How fucking hard is it to just fucking relax and enjoy things while they're going good? You just have to keep throwing shit in the air causing arguments constantly.

Everything is an issue, even when you try to not make an issue, you make this big point about how you're explicitly not making issues by mentioning the fact that you're mad about something but not telling me what it is

You are literally the most stress-inducing person on the planet. No wonder your husband sits in the fucking living room all the time and huffs when you walk downstairs. You don't contribute SHIT to him as a human being. You just exist and leech off of him and buy food with his money and take half of his bed. You're nothing
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>>17910774
Overall, I don't love you anymore because I have made the choice that you don't deserve it and never did. All those times I let it slide, all those times I thought "What the fuck? How does she possibly think this is an okay thing to do in a relationship" and then forgiving you once it's said and done because I loved you

You don't deserve anyone to love you ever again, ever because of all the guys you've now fucked over and cheated on.

I hope you enjoy your life and have lots of cats or whatever the fuck you end up doing. You've made your bed so I shouldn't have to feel bad for letting you sleep in it.

Enjoy your lesbian shit, bye. Keep living your shitty selfish life. Go away. You're delusional.
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>>17910802
Hope you had a nice New Years Eve probably in the living room with Mick, the same living room you've now fucked multiple guys in because you're a cheating slag

You think you're the exception, you think the rules of ethics don't apply to you because of your feelings and how people make you feel - you're not an exception. You're a cheating piece of shit, a bored old housewife who uses guys for attention

Remember that yahoo answers question I made years ago asking about our situation and they all said "She's just using you, you're her boy toy" and you said "Well duh, didn't you know that?" in a serious way - you were serious at the time. All these times you said horrible shit you were serious when you said it

When you said "If the sex isn't better next time we're done" you meant it and when it was fine you stayed with me, but I should have left you based solely on the fact that you even said it

Just honestly, fuck you Tracey. Get it through your fucking head. There's nothing for us anymore, I don't want you. I know you don't want me and you never really have

So I don't give a fuck if you supposedly "Love" me because that means NOTHING. FUCKING NOTHING.

Bye
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>>17910812
"Wow he really is a loser, look at all that complete trash he wrote, glad we're over" fuck you. I was fine before I met you. Wish I left you for real after the first time we met. My biggest regret in my life atm. But now I know better when it comes to you fucking bitches

So thanks for the lesson "Never trust anyone, not even me" you were right

You're twice my age, you've had years to figure out basic human decency and you've failed. The only reason you're not an r9k fucktard is that you're a female instead of a male. Otherwise you'd be nothing.

Whatever, bye.

Fuck you.

Fuck you

Fuck you
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woah, dude...
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No.
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>>17910713
>>17910721
>>17910733
>>17910741
>>17910757
>>17910768
>>17910774
>>17910802
>>17910812
>>17910826
Uhhh why do you think this post is about you dude. I don't know your situation but the post seems rather generic from what I can see.

(I even hoped for a moment it would be my ex who dumped me wanting me back ;(

Sounds like this Tracey bitch really got to you. How'd you even get so attached in the first place? Was she basically your only option? I feel like that's what went wrong with me.
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>>17910887
I can just tell, maybe I'm wrong. She was all I fucking wanted and she kept ruining everything by "getting back" at me over and over to teach me how much she hurt, supposedly so much more than I was
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>>17910915
Sounds a lot like a friend of mine (who unfortunately is still in that abusive relationship). He got obsessed since he didn't believe he could find anyone else. I also feel like I convinced myself to get into my ex since she was the only one readily available (probably only reason she dated me too lol). Is that similar to your situation? I seriously think I only got attached since I didn't have any other immediate option but her so I guess I must've subconsciously convinced myself.
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Melisa?
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>>17910956
No I really liked her in specific for many great reasons about her, and I kept letting all this bad stuff about her slide because I thought all the good things made up for it, but over time I kept letting more and more slide, putting up with more and more things that I never wanted to put up with in the beginning, constantly giving her the benefit of the doubt.

I couldn't anymore so I left her. Poor her sitting here on adv on NYE. That's what she fucking gets. Feeling all sorry for herself, she doesn't fucking get it. I know it's her, I know how she types.
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>>17910975
Sorry to hear that. I wonder if OP will show up to confirm.
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>>17910826
Maybe you didn't cheat but guess what - when you TELL YOUR BF THAT YOU CHEATED ON HIM he will obviously think you did. You can't just say "I only said that to make you mad though, it was just words" and expect him to believe you. Literally omfg. You are beyond horrible. That is unacceptable, period. You're fucking insane. I'm done with women.
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>>17909579
dont do it.
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Hands down best ive ever read on here. OP how did you enjoy the prositute?
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>>17911017
Dude.
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Holy shit. 10/10 best thread.
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>>17911060
What
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>>17911017
You have NOTHING on me anymore

No more "Oh I have other people to talk to" in your coy voice, give me a fucking break

No more "I had sex with him" or "I'm going to have sex with him" or "I want to have sex with him" and then afterwords you take it back and say "I was just trying to show you how much you hurt me by jacking off to porn every once in a while, or look here's a picture of his cock that I just asked for :) I'm going to be fucking that, haha get over it, poor you" give me a FUCKING break making excuses for yourself where you rationalize that it's okay and you did nothing wrong. You are beyond insane.

I don't care if you cheated, I don't care if you ever fuck anyone in the future, do whatever you want. I don't care anymore so you don't fucking own me anymore. I can do whatever the fuck I want. I can fly to Amsterdam and fuck 50 women if I want to. I don't fucking need you and your shit, your threats, your "I was just trying to hurt you because you hurt me" bullshit
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>>17911072
I gave up all of my self respect for you. You claim that I hurt you the most? Were you ever once reduced to sobbing and begging for me to say you love me again? Pathetic of me to do so but give me a fucking break thinking you're the hurt one here and you have "nothing to apologize for" you so often say
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>>17911076
"When you get revenge it's supposed to be bigger than the thing they did" constantly when I never did the same and when the thing I did wasn't even bad at all the majority of the time, with a few exceptions which came later anyway

THAT is why our relationship failed.
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>>17911079
And now I'm sitting here fucking typing about this bullshit right when it turns new year this minute, maybe not even to the right person if OP isn't my ex gf

This is how much you have fucked me up with your shit.
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>>17911065
Nice rant man. How many replies did it go for?
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>>17911102
It went on for too many replies. All I should have said was:

I know that you love me and miss me, and I love you and miss you too and I agree that it cannot work. And I'm sorry for that. So goodbye.

And I really don't like how you replied, "Okay, let's get together" to that guy who said he's available. I don't know if you were joking or meant it. That's how sensitive I have always been, and you purposefully cause me jealousy when you're upset, and it makes me crazy, so we cannot work. Now you understand. And I do know how upset the porn use made you, despite you for some reason constantly claiming that I don't know and don't understand. And you showed me his cock and said you're going to fuck it.

Imagine me doing the equivalent to you. LOL. I never came close, get fucking real. See I can't even write you a 100% positive goodbye note that's how angry you make me. So in conclusion:

I know you miss me and love me, and I miss and love you too. But we can't work for obvious reasons which I will stop elaborating on because I could for years and years and so could you. That's the issue and it doesn't matter who is right or wrong about what. Goodbye. Ily. Goodbye for real.
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>>17909579
Oh my God

Oh my fucking God

This isn't some little thing of you wanting to tell me you love me

This is literally, you had sex with someone this weekend, and now you know you can't go back now, and this is your way of sitting here talking about it

And you were in the hotel room with him while you wrote this thread, and he replied "you shouldn't have fucked that guy so he'll never believe you love him"

If you fucked someone I swear to God I'm going to kill myself
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>>17911194
You fucked someone didn't you?


FUCKING LOG ON NOW IF YOU READ THIS THREAD YOU FUCKING CUNT OR I SWEAR TO FUCKING GOD YOU WILL REGRET IT.
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>>17911196
Just when I had a bit of faith in the decency of humanity you go and do that shit.

You're a fucking typical cheater and this is your little "boxing" ritual for it. LMFAO. It's done now, you made your little cathartic thread trying to get a bit of sympathy for your plight of "I fucked someone else"

What a big fucking joke of me to actually think you were doing something decent for a change, the same way I constantly do by ACTUALLY reaching out and telling you I love you one last time

And I thought you were doing that same thing I've done so many times, in an honest way, but no you're sitting here fucking cathartically releasing your non-existent guilt for having sex with someone else

"Nope, no cheating" because we aren't together. But you know what you've fucking done. I hope you rot in hell and end up an old cat lady. You miserable old fucking cunt. I hope you get AIDS and die you fucking disgusting legitimate whore
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>>17911209
Oh my fucking God

You made a 4chan thread WITH THE FUCKING PERSON YOU HAD SEX WITH and made a reference to the fact that you were in a relationship with that person

"Well people tend to fuck in a relationship" you're in a new relationship with someone else AL FUCKING READY and mentioning how you fucked them?

I'm beyond fucking humiliated. Oh my fucking God for my response before saying "Oh I love and miss you too" when in reality you're sitting there flirting in a thread with the guy you just fucked

I'm literally going to kill myself right now. I'm fucking done. Smashing window with a weight and jumping. Good fucking bye.
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>>17911211
Oh my fucking God. I cannot believe this shit. Cucked by the fucking world. I am done with you all. Fuck all people. I'm fucking dead.
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>>17909579
Even though I can never go back now. Oh my fucking God. I'm going insane. Is that you. Did you fucking write this Tracey. Did you have sex with someone. I'm going mad. Please just tell me
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>>17911216
SHE ALREADY LITERALLY HAS SOMEONE LINED UP

JUST LIKE SHE HAD ME LINED UP WHEN SHE LEFT HER LAST BOYFRIEND.

SHE HAS ALREADY FUCKED ANOTHER GUY. AND THEY PRETEND THEY'RE THE ONES WHO ARE MORE LOVING AND EMOTIONALLY CARING AS A GENDER?

THEY ALL GET OVER RELATIONSHIPS FASTER. Oh my God I'm fucking done with this shit. Fuck women. Fuck you all, every last one of you. I fucking hate you all. Every single one.
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>>17911218
Honestly I may as well kill myself look what a fucking mess I've got myself into. This is what I get for trusting someone, yet again, you are all fucking shit. I hate you all. Every fucking time, this is what happens. I fucking get lied to about how much they liked me.
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the fuck's going on?
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>>17911218
Now now, they don't all suck. Just because you have a particularly nasty bitch on your hands, doesn't mean you should give up.
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>>17911224
I think it's several people airing their own experiences with women at once and they all seem to think they are all the various 'other men' of their ex gfs.

Basically, it's a wild ride into the mind of rejected and hurting men. Sit back and buckle up.
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>>17911229
Okay can I hijack this advice thread and ask what the hell to do when you find out an ex moved on faster than you and already likely fucked someone when you're sitting here miserable and missing her to death?

How the fuck do I get over this shit. Fucking hell, why does this shit just keep happening to me. Everything keeps getting worse by the day. I'm so fucking miserable.
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>>17910234
"It is over once and for all"

Do you have ANY fucking clue how reprehensible a euphemism is for "I just fucked somebody"

This Earth is too fucking sick and cruel for me to fucking ever want to take part in it again. I'm going to go take a long walk now and fall asleep in a fucking lake.
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>>17911230
Some people just get over things more rapidly, because they didn't care about it as much.

If it's any consolation, the fact that she (presuming you're a guy) can move on so quickly probably means she doesn't form as deep a connection as you, which, while it hurts in the short term, means she'll be less happy in the long run once you find your girl (the one) and she's still bouncing from guy to guy.
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>>17911233
It's fucking over once and for all? You sick fucking shit?

"I just want to tell him I love him"

Why? For a sense of smug satisfaction, as if you're being the bigger person in the situation? This is how it is and you've just been lying to me for years, holding back the harsh truths letting me think we actually had something
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No wonder you guys are single you're all fucking insane
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>>17909579
yes, so you can receive a negative and move on.

(or is it so? I'm asking myself that, with my ex gf that just returned to my hometown, even though she's engaged with a french guy)
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>>17911277
tbqh I can't tell who is who.
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>>17911283
pls answer guise, i'll do that in 5
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MbXWrmQW-OE
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>>17911277
Yep I am indeed insane for believing in some sort of pure eternal love. It clearly does not exist which I always knew before I got trapped into feeling it then I temporarily suspended my judgement

I hope you're happy Tracey. I hope you really enjoyed that fuck. Because you're going to be old and wrinkly some day, and it isn't this fucking loser who's going to be paying your bills. It will be a different one. And that makes me feel good.

I've escaped the trap of your nonsense. Like Odysseus' sirens

Way to start the new year fresh. I learn that my ex fucked someone 2.5 hours in and I live to tell the tale, immediately. My worst fear was faced 2.5 hours into the year. This year can only get better.

Going to keep working out and fuck some fucking young college 18 year old slut pretty soon just like she'd hate more than anything in the world. Because that's what she fucking deserves for fucking someone already, after years of me being fucking faithful to her in ways she never was to me.

I'll get my fucking revenge through success while remaining uncaring regarding whether they acknowledge it. This is just life and this is how women are, none of them are going to be perfect and love me as much as I've tended to love them. So fuck them and be done
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>>17911288
Oh my God MGTOW for life I swear to God. Being in love is more mind altering and judgement impairing than a fucking acid trip. Holy crap I can't believe I actually trusted her to do something outside of her proven track-record of cheating.

Judge people as they are and have been, not as they promise to be, within reason. Give a few chances but not forever.
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>>17911292
Lol, MGTOW nerd? Come on guys, get over this. Stop posting, get on with your lives.
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>>17911288
All that's going to happen is Tracey is going to have lots of fun now she hasn't got to put up with a complete basketcase all the time and you're going to waste time weeping on a Mongolian abacus construction forum. Get a grip.
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>>17911292
Once a cheater always a cheater

NEVER forget that anons. Even if they don't actually end up cheating on you, they still have the heart of a person who cheats. A lacking one, that is, too cowardly to risk losing what they want to respect the other person enough to tell them "I want other people and we're over"

So much fucking bullshit. AWALT
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>>17911297
I know you're right and I'm really glad I've learned this. She doesn't even miss me, this is just a cathartic release for herself to say "I just fucked someone new, now it's over" but she says it like "I miss and love you" LOL. Oh my God women are disgusting.
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>>17911297
>>17911301
Maybe I wouldn't be a basket case if she didn't literally flop back and forth between loving and being apathetic toward me at the drop of a hat, threatening to cheat on me and supposedly-falsely revealing that she's been cheating and all sort of shit

Anyway the only mistake I made was trusting her. Never trust them.
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Alright, to the MGTOW guy who's clearly a bit unhinged post breakup (admittedly, it seems messy), please stop throwing around the 'All women are sluts' type rhetoric. All of either gender are not anything. All men are not racist, and all women are not materialistic whores. Get over yourself. This red pill meme stuff is boring and ultimately pointless.

You've already said enough to this ficticious girl. Give it a rest, for your own sanity. Pick up a hobby, go and do other things, talk to new people, meet someone new. The worst thing you can do is wallow like this.
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>>17911320
Where the hell are they then? I thought this girl was a good one and it turns out she wasn't. I'm just retarded

This girl had a history of cheating for the past 10 years of her life. She cheated WITH me when we first started out

Yet for some reason I trusted the idea that she'd stop being a cheating branch-swinger just for me. This was nonsense. Oh well. That's what I get
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This is not me. Jesus fkn christ. Slug
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>>17911333
What the fuck ever. I don't care if it was her who made this thread. I don't care if she's already fucked 10 guys. It just means I'm lucky that we've split this soon now, any more time would have been a waste.
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>>17911343
You're OP and my response wasn't relevant to you is what you're saying? You could be lying though and just someone else fucking with me so whatever.
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>>17911333
Seems like you're only focussing on this one girl. Go out and meet others. Seriously. Before you become Elliot 2.0
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Im worried. Ive got your message.
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>>17911365
What's happened?
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>>17911370
OP wasn't my ex girlfriend

Messaged ex girlfriend on facebook saying I'm going to kill myself and she called me and said she loves and misses me and all sorts of shit. Give me a fucking break.
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>>17911397
I hate myself. I cannot believe I've done this tonight. I fucking hate women and the shit they do to your goddamn mind. Convincing me they are worth more than everything so even the slightest sliver of hope convinces me to go back, like a fucking drug.
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>>17909579
Send him a text, seriously.
And don't text only, ask him as soon as possible (preferably in your first text) that you want to see him in person. Don't make it too serious, just ask to go out for a drink or something.

Seriously, i was in that situation, and it worked. 3 years after my first love and I broke up, I was still thinking about her, and i knew from mutual friends she was thinking about me as well, and she wanted to talk to me again. I wasn't sure if it was a good idea, i was 100% sure she wouldn't want to get back with me even if she missed me, because i thought she didn't believe in that, and myself i didn't even know if that was a good idea to try.

But one fucking day, i actually had the courage to text her, telling her i wanted to see her. No desperate bullshit, just that i wanted to see her.
Even though it had been 3 years we didn't talk at all, she replied that she wanted to see me too.
We saw each other that same day, it was like the best date i ever had, went amazing, and by the end of the date we were back together. And now we're still together and everything is great. It's been 6 months now and i still can't believe it even happened.

So maybe it won't go as good as it did for me, but give it a try anyway, you never know. At least you won't regret it for not trying.
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>>17911185
Is love really the right word for all this shit you've described? Do you really think you can say you love her?
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>>17911229
Pretty sure it's all this one guy ranting about a Tracey
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