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Am I gay? I am so depressed

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When I was a boy, I was so curious about sex, and women like every boys. Everything happened normally until 18. I got my first love - a woman. After breaking up with her, I am not in love in any woman. I thought I crushed in some boys but I denied that facts. In that time, I still watch porn but interest in both genders.
Now I am so depressed because I have to leave my crush - a straight guy. We had a good time like friends.
Am I gay?
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>>17909446
Proly bi and curious. Don't feel too bad though, nature is actually pretty queer.

One roman emperor in a line of emperors was considered pretty weird cause he only preferred women, which tells alot about how societal norms are all just illusions
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>>17909462
I thought maybe I am bi, but for recent years, I am only interested in men. I feel love, and imagine of every happy scene with men.
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>>17909462
I thought maybe I am bi, but for recent years, I am only interested in men. I feel love, and imagine of every happy scene with men.
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So what if you liked women before and like men now? Why do you need a label for your feelings?

You're probably just bi, you're not attracted to women now but might be again since you were once. Looking for labels is what brought us the "gender fluid" useless shit
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>>17909523
>>17909542

probably gay then. maybe not.

one thing to keep in mind is that labels aren't really important. they are to other people and its great to be able to put one on for their sake.

i dont agree with tumblr insisting the entire world know their personal sexuality label and definition, but i dont think they're wrong for defining it for themselves.

gay and straight and bi are all really simplistic. most men will never understand how complex sexuality can be.

they dont bat an eye when they switch from one basic type of girl to antoher thats compeltely fucking different, but the idea of them going with a different gender is a shocked.

im gay as far as anyone needs to know but it runs a lot deeper. it changes. in march a guy approached me and i thought he was the ugliest thing in the world. this weekend he approached me and he was my dream guy. its weird how things change. im afraid to tell someone im not into them cuz sometimes i know I'll be attracted to them in just a week or two.

dont label yourself too soon. whatever you label yourself with, keep it in the moment, dont say you have to stick with something just cuz thats what you want now.

and if other people ask. just go with what you feel at the moment, or just keep it priate. whatever works ofr you.
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>>17910753
I'd say this is the guy to listen to. His advice sound solid. But I would add, what do you dream about? The erotic dreams. Are you with a man? A woman? Unless you've had a very fucked up childhood, filled with shame and regression, who you want to be naked with in your dreams is a big hint as to your sexuality.
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>>17910753
I think I am gay now, but why did I love women before?
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>>17910950
I have a normal childhood. Actually, when jerking off, I almost think of women, few times men. But the feeling of love to men only right now.
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