Help /adv/ I'm a young guy that has never really been sucessfull

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>>17905619

(1/?)
This was taken march of this year while I was on a trip.

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>>17905619

(2/?)
This is a more recent pic, I'm weighting around 70kg (~154 pounds).

I forgot to mention I stand at 1.81m (5'9).

If you don't value yourself, and you don't, nobody else ever will.

>>17905619
>I don't ever get out of my house, and when I do, I don't try to get with women. Why don't I get women?

>>17905647

I try to portrait myself as confident to others, though deep down I'm not really happy with who I am. I understand fully where you're coming from though.

>>17905650

I might have phrased that wrong. I don't live in a basement and I'm currently undergoing college. I've been to parties before, didn't manage to get any. I've moved to a very small town after finishing highschool and I don't own a car, so going to places I don't really know can be a pain. I don't really think hookups are my thing, never managed to get Tinder and similar things to work out in practice. I expected to meet someone during highschool/college and go from there.

>>17905663
You're suffering from very low self esteem.
Are there any activities that you enjoy partaking in? Or anything you're particularly good at?

>>17905641
Your body looks fine. SOunds like your head is what you need to fix. I know how you feel because i have social anxiety. YOu just gotta go through the motions, jump in the deepend.

>>17905669

As I said, I do lift. I've done martial arts in the past , mostly Jiu-Jitsu, but was forced to stop after moving. I like to think I'm good with languages and am a good writer in my mother tongue. Other hobbies include video-games (I try to keep it at healthy levels) and travelling, though I can hardly do any of the latter since I lack the money (college student, nigh broke).

>>17905672

Should I look for a psychologist?

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Bumping with a picture of my early days. Around 11-13 years old.

My facial structure hasn't really changed much, again I like to think I'm not hideous enough to deserve what I'm getting. Then again I can be wrong, criticism is welcome.

This has been bothering me for more time than I'd like it to. Anyone undergone a similar experience before?

I feel ya. I'm in the same shoe as yourself but I'm to blame for this since I didn't really put any effort into meeting girls and I just kept waiting for a one to fall onto me. I've had a crush on a classmate whom I thought had the same feelings toward me (Pretty big mistake). I managed to force myself to tell her about it (she's the first girl that I truly liked and decided to tell her about it) and she rejected me.

Dude you're what most girls would consider a 9/10 if you didn't change much from 13 facially. You get girls' attention by touching them, doesn't have to be explicitly sexually, also look at their lips not eyes when talking to them.

>>17906925
>also look at their lips not eyes when talking to them.

Really? I never heard about this.

>>17905938
I don't think it's because of your appearance, if you look similar facial wise you're a 7/10 at very least.