Hi adv,
I date girls and ditch them after the moment of a "relationship" comes to place. Am i an asshole for doing this? Am i perhaps afraid of commitment?
>>17904818
yeah you sound like you're afraid of commitment
do you feel guilty about it because of how you think you should behave or feel about it or because you actually feel bad about hurting these girls
Yes and yes.
>>17904825
I meant to say, right after i fuck them. When im horny i just go and do whatever. But after i nut i just stop feeling anything for them and eventually let our relationship die off on purpose
>>17904825
Op again.
And yes, i usually dont want to hear anything of there personal story. The negative side of there life, i felt this with 2 other girls now and today i did my third.
>>17904818
>>17904826
>>17904841
Yeah. You're trash mate. This feels suspiciously bait-like as well.
>>17904888
Im not baiting, 3 of january im going to my therapist to tell her also what iv been doing, i was just wondering if anyone has experienced the same or could share some knowledge
>>17904818
people act like the only two options are to be willing to commit to whoevers the first to settle for oyu, or being afraid of commitment.
maybe you're not afraid of commitment at all, you just know the girls aren't worth committing to. not because they're shit or low quality humans or any of that nonsense, but they're not a match.
>>17904912
he's confused about why he has a habit of doing this
and didn't specify in the op whether or not he actually liked the girls he dated
which you would assume he did
it's true that he's probably not found someone he's into to want a relationship
but then he shouldn't date girls he just wants to fuck without them knowing that
>>17904841
see above
>>17904917
I like the girls until i cum. Then its dead. And it's an on going cycle to nowhere. Im just dating > fucking > stop responding. Is it bad to satisfy my needs by not even lying but saying that this isnt what im looking for? I really dont want to go back to fapping
>>17904951
fuk u nig