Maybe its a millennial thing. .

>>17904121
M8 my girlfriend doesn't even have social media. I don't know why you have to ask if that's okay or not.

>>My gf is in her early 20s and I'm 10 years older then her.
What the fuck man? You're a pedo

I'm gonna try really hard to not give you:
>She wants a stable, older guy for a long term relationship, but still wants to sow her wild oats while she's young

But that's all I can come up with.

>>17904121

None of this is normal. At first I'd say she was just insecure and had an inappropriate outlet for it, but now I have questions.

Is she protective of her phone/computer? If she allows you to use either without argument, does she watch/refuse to leave you alone the entire time you use one?

When you guys decided to be together did you/she ask "will you be my boyfriend/girlfriend?" Not necessarily in those exact words, but was it an unambiguous agreement?

>>17904130

No he's not. Get out of here if you have no advice. She is an adult and so is he.

>>17904121
>Says the reason she has it is just for attention and the confidence boost it gives her from all the complements on the days she feels down.
Grade A roastie right there.

First, quite being insecure. They can smell that.

Second, it's normal for dudebros to shower women with attention through social media. It's common for them to shower women with attention everywhere. They have learned to play a numbers game to get laid.

Third, it's common for women to enjoy whatever attention they get. The ones that have nothing else going in their life obsess over it.

tl;dr your bitch needs a goddamn hobby besides waiting around for people to tell her she's attractive.

>>17904130
>false accusations
People who cry pedo for reasons other than the involvement of actual children deserve the same consequences as actual pedos.

>>17904135

Yeah she asked me to be in a relationship.

Asked to be 'exclusive'.

Sometime after cleared it up when talking that she's my girlfriend and I'm her boyfriend.

As far as her phone shes not protective of it. I even know her pass word. Even her laptop stays out in the open and I get to be alone with it when she's gone. I never snooped though either.

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>>17904148
>tl;dr your bitch needs a goddamn hobby besides waiting around for people to tell her she's attractive.

That's her problem. OP's problem is that he needs a different bitch, one who doesn't immerse herself in an orbiter harem every day then scream insults like "insecure" when anyone points it out.

>>17904152

Those are good signs. Sounds more like insecurity now.

You should tell her you're uncomfortable with her friending all these guys that are just trying to get a foot in the door.

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>>17904152
You're on a leash tied to a fence while she's browsing the dogpound without you. Since you've chosen to accept this as your lot in life, what are you seeking advice for?

You should kill yourself.

>>17904121
Shit situation. Get out while you can.

>>17904153
I called him insecure because he's on 4chan worrying instead of doing the things he wants to do with this woman so that in the event the relationship ends, he's not left with empty regret.

>>17904121
Fuck that shit, i stopped using facebook 3 years ago and my gf 21 spends a huge amount of time on there, she probably even chats with guys on there regularly but as far as i knos she still makes it pretty obvious that we're dating.
I'd check over all that shit but social media is a major headache for me.

I'd normally advise you to just go on about your day but well, that thing with the dating app seems shady. If her reasoning is honest though it would explain why she sets the status to single.

Try hinting at things like open relationship, friends with benefits, ffm threesomes subtly, if she catches the bait in any way have a serious conversation with her and find out what she really wants.

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>>17904121
Get
The
Fuck
Out
Of
This
Girl.

AS FAST AS YOU CAN!!!

>>17904125
Do you not allow it, or she doesn't by choice?

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>>17904162

Im asking if it's some kind of generation gap as to why she acts like this.

She's born into the social media age. While from my experience the soical media age showed up. I wasn't consumed by it at an early age, so I'm not sure if this is 'how it works now at days'

>>17904180
It's not

I'm the same age as your gf, above average looks, and I can say no, it's not normal.

I don't even have my facebook beyond 'friends of friends' can add me, and I've never been on a dating app in my life.

Sure, men pay attention in the streets. I can't help that, and my bf knows that and doesn't care. But I'd never in a million years encourage it online, where you can choose who you talk to or add/see.

Your gf needs a hobby. Maybe you should try dating late 20s, so the girls are a little mature, or if you want her then try to encourage her to pick up a hobby beyond fishing for compliments and validation online.

>Maybe it's a cuck thing..

Fixed.

>>17904152
she's either an idiot, an attention whore, or playing some convoluted game with you and a bunch of other dudes

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>>17904180
no, women were placing side-bets well before the advent of social media