Looking for some advice on what path to take in life..
Right now and for the past 2 years my life has been in a total stand still.
I've wanted to get an apartment and a job but I've also wanted to simply get a van/truck and live on the road for a year or however long.. these two opposite lifestyles have been in my head for 2 years and I have not made a decision. I don't want this to be my 3rd year of unmotivated indecisive sad "existing"...
Any advice on how to accept a path and take it?
Being homeless and jobless just isn't working anymore. I was able to save some $ though so I do have a good amount of savings. I am just struggling with indecision and don't know what I truly want.
My girlfriend wants to move out of her parents place and get an apartment with me but apartments here are so fucking expensive (1400$ a month) and I don't even have a job at the moment because I hate the fact that I have to settle for some construction position that pays 10 an hour.. I just fucking don't know anymore.
Get a van/truck and live on the road for a year or however long then get an apartment and a job.
>Any advice on how to accept a path and take it?
Write down a plan with measurable results and timeframe then carry it out.
>I want to have my cake and eat it too
Make a choice or stop complaining, you don't get both.
>>17903395
flip a coin. make sure someones in the room to see you do it. then they hold you to it.
>>17903408
I always do that but end up hoping for the opposite of what comes up either way.
>>17903404
this, kind of. If you're really as indecisive as you say the only way you can settle this is to experience both of these lifestyles. So get a van and start living the hippie life. Do that for at least a few months or so. After that, if you dislike it or still want to try the other thing start looking for a job and saving money for a flat.
>>17903395
Why are your expectations so high? You'll have to work for any decent lifestyle so you can afford it.