alright /adv/
qt girl in my class
she's quiet and doesn't talk a lot
never an open seat next to her in class
after class she just leaves
how do I start a conversation with her
also is adding her on facebook and talking to her on there to break the ice okay? why or why not?
shameful self bump
>>17793519
There is no 100% safe way to approach her.
You could add her on facebook.
Be earlier to the class, so you get to seat next to her.
Just don't seem creepy or desperate.
>>17793620
Like anon said, there's no 100% safe way to approach her, you might get rejected even if you don't do anything wrong. She might simply not be interested.
I would say either add her on facebook and send her a message or talk to her IRL before adding her. I guess it doesn't really matter, but the first one might be easier because you seem pretty nervous about it. Like anon said, just don't seem creepy or desperate.
I recommend approaching her with a school topic, because you know for sure it's something you can have a conversation about and it would be natural to talk about it even if you weren't interested.
Don't be afraid of faiilure!
>>17793620
>>17794008
>don't seem creepy
I guess therein lies the problem. I'm not an ugly fuck but I'm also not handsome af either. How do I not come off as creepy?
>>17794363
have you EVER talked to her in class before? does she even know you exist? doesn't sound like it from your OP.
if that's the case trying to first talk to her on Facebook would seem pretty fucking creepy to me personally. just my 2cents.
just get to class earlier. have confidence. initiate conversation. worst case scenario you don't make any sort of move and regret it for sometime. if you so make the move and get shot down it'll be much easier to go on than living with never knowing.
speaking from experience here. just do it faggot.
>>17793519
Find a way to run into her on campus.
"Hi. You're in my Econ 210 class, right? Did you get the last assignment?" - "Yes, here it is." - "Thanks. You're a life saver. I'm Bill, by the way" - "I'm Nancy" - "Well, thanks again Nancy. I owe you one."
Then the next time you see her you can chat.