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I met this girl on craigslist about 2 years ago and she was basically

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I met this girl on craigslist about 2 years ago and she was basically close to what I at the time considered perfect.

Anyway, we were supposed to meet up one night, I went to the cafe, waited for her like an idiot all by myself (it was late anyway though no one was there), she never came. She messaged me later and asked if I went and that she was sorry because she assumed I was busy and she went through with other plans. I told her I didn't go. Basically what happened is that I refused to give her my number so we couldn't text and that's how the misunderstanding happened

The fact that I refused to text with her basically ended up ruining us meeting each other. Though I would message her sort of inappropriate sexual advances (the whole prospect of meeting up was based upon sex) and dick pics to which she would always respond oddly positively but then begin to ignore.

Then we lost contact for 2 years.


And this is where it gets crazy. I sat directly behind her on the subway the other night. Totally inadvertently. It's kind of strange looking back on it because the woman I sat next to I wouldn't have normally done that. And I hear two annoying dorky kids in front of me a boy and a girl and the girl was her. What's even weirder is that I knew it was her by the way she said something. As in I wasn't paying attention to her but then she said this thing and her name immediately popped into my head, and I looked up and sure enough it was her.


What does it mean? Maybe it would have just been coincidence if I bumped into her on the street, or if I sat in the same car but in a different seat. But sitting directly behind her? No, it's mathematically impossible.

She was alone for a minute or two. Was I supposed to talk to her?
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>No, it's mathematically impossible.

Pretty sure it isn't...
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>>17582851
Factor in all the random variablessed and yes it it. If that was my nightly getting home from work train it would be at least improbable, but it was not. It was in fact the diametric opposite of that. It was probably the most random instance of me hoping on the subway possible. Like I was meant to be there. Supposed to be there.
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>>17582872
Variables*.
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>>17582872
>Like I was meant to be there. Supposed to be there.

Oh, well in that case, too bad you blew your chance.

I find it a lot easier to live as if life were a string of random events - that way I don't have to go looking for meaning in every little thing, but if that's your bag, then I'd say you probably missed your one chance at true happiness by not reconnecting right then and there.
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>>17582884
She didn't respond to my email/text.

Why are women so uninspired and self defeating?
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>>17582905
>Why are women so uninspired and self defeating?

Asks the guy who refused give his cell number to the gal he considered perfect...
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>>17582919
True romance extends beyond telecommunicability.

How typical would that have been? Might as well be using fucking tinder at that point.
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>>17582940

Well either way, you are two for two on not making contact with her.

You got any plans for next (if ever) time you bump into her?
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>>17582981
What do you even say in a situation like that. I guess to be honest that's one of the reasons I didn't say anything to her. I didn't know how to do it without making myself seem like a creep. I mean granted. She's 26 years old and has mild acne. (Still very pretty, hard to describe).

I feel like maybe I was supposed to go home with her that night. Makes me almost too angry to think about it.
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>>17582905

>Why are women so uninspired and self defeating?

Women, as a whole, aren't anything. They're all different people who want different things and if you keep meeting shady women who aren't interested in you its because you're subconsciously attracted to shady women who aren't interested in you.

Don't be a fucking dullard. Just because you live on a beach doesn't mean the whole world is covered in sand. Get my meaning?
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>>17583044
Women as a whole are something. I can't be held responsible for you not being bright enough to see that.
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>>17583044
This woman was interestep in me, also. To the point where she singled me out from hundreds of other men.


What is being bemoaned here is how women lose sight of their own decisions so whimsically.

It's not attractive. It's just downright wrong.
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Pst
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>>17583065

>Women as a whole are something. I can't be held responsible for you not being bright enough to see that.

Right now we're talking about holding you responsible for being a fucking child and bombing a relationship because you got stood up.

I'm bright enough to see past the redpill propaganda bullshit and know that talking about women as one giant, congealed entity is fucking retarded.

>>17583078

>To the point where she singled me out from hundreds of other men.

Being momentarily interested in someone that crossed your path during your day to day life isn't "singling out from hundreds of men". She met a guy, had a brief interaction and it didn't work out. Why are you so incapable of admitting that shit just got fucked up that it HAS to be a reflection on all women?

You crashed ONE bike and now ALL bikes are evil and dysfunctional. You got food poisoning from ONE oyster and now you're telling me all seafood is toxic. You're being an idiot.

"Women" didn't do anything. One woman rejected you. Get over it and stop projecting your shortcomings onto the entirety of women because if there's one thing for sure its that its not 49% of the world's population's fault that you're a fucking autist.

Blame women all you want but the common denominator in this retard circus is you, numb nuts.
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>>17583782
It isn't retarded. There is a lot of sense in seeing a group of things as comprising one single sort of substance. Just as there is humanness, there is womanness. To deny that stark reality is the truer stupidity.

That different women behave differently sometimes is the superficial side of the equation. They are ultimately cut from the same cloth, as are men.

>Why are you so incapable of admitting that shit just got fucked up that it HAS to be a reflection on all women?

Because this has been happening with greater frequency and progression over the years. It is a reasonable assumption to make, based on those data, that this is indeed a sort of trend.

Who's the real autist for not being able to discern the single implied point.

Hint:
> It's you bud
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>>17582831
Found the problem OP, image relevant.
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>>17582831
she showed at the designated meeting place, saw whom she thought to be you, was not impressed and bailed, messaged you to confirm it was indeed you and disappears
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>>17584047
I laughed too and he thought she was perfect
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>>17584047
Where do you meet women? No social media is viable because any woman who touches it might as well be a pile of bricks with a vagina, and how do you talk to women in public? It's the same situation. Any woman who engages in small talk is braindead.

>>17584051
This went through my head I remember like a week after it happened, but then I remembered it wasn't possible because I was sat right by the door the whole time watching every person go by because I was eager for her to get there so we could go back to her place and fuck already.

My thought for a long time was that she knew the folks who owned the place and that it was them who in fact did what you are suggesting but I ended up getting to know them and it turned out to not be true.
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>>17584053
Relatively perfect. She would have been great for me at that time in my life.
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being this beta
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>>17584065
either she was already there before you arrived or she sent in one of her friends
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>>17584069
I'm no beta I just have impossible standards and think guys are fucking stupid for compromising their own.

This girl singled me out and it was only my stubbornness after weeks and weeks of trying to negotiate meeting up (for sex, mind you) that turned her away from me.

>>17584082
No one else was there save for two old men playing chess.
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>>17584082
You've inspired me to go back and look at the emails to see if it was possible she pulled a fast one. Will report back with details.
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>>17582831
>>>17584047
>Where do you meet women? No social media is viable because any woman who touches it might as well be a pile of bricks with a vagina, and how do you talk to women in public? It's the same situation. Any woman who engages in small talk is braindead.

In all honesty I have multiple dating site accounts, I have a POF, OkCupid and Tinder.
I understand where you are coming from though OP, wasn't trying to poke fun, just relaying my experience.
All 3 accounts I've basically given up on however I do reply to certain ladies to see if they actually try to keep a conversation going. If they do, then I might attempt a date after about a week.
However, with craigslist I've only ever gotten bot responses, "escorts", or whores that a dumb as hell.

Lately I've actually been working on self confidence. If I see a cashier that I find very attractive some where, I try to find something to compliment them on that doesn't seem too pervy, eyes, hair, perfume smell, etc. Basically short and sweet to see their reaction and to help me boost my confidence at complimenting in public. Later on once I feel confident about it I plan on seeing if I can get a number to get to know them better after complimenting them.
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>>17584082
Okay so I was sure that she had asked to meet up immediately after but she said she was g owing out of town for a week and that she'd hit me up after.

Then again she did actually leave town to go camping, as I remember.
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