I'm scared of losing my virginity and going after girls

Practice having sex with prostitutes.

Realize not every chick wants a big dick.
Frankly I don't see the appeal. Big dicks just look painful and I for one want nothing to do with them. I'd actually bail from a dude with a horse cock faster than a dude with a slightly below average dick any day.
Like whenever I see a big dick I'm like "Ok, so I'm gonna have to lie here in agonizing pain for the next 15 minutes so you can cum and I spend the next week and a half waddling around with a sore gaping hole? No thanks."

>>17580699
This

asian guy with a 4.5 incher here. every pussy is different. I do well with most women but some are size queens that just need bigger cocks. Yeah bigger is better but I been told (take this with a grain of salt) that there is such thing as "too big" where it just doesnt even feel good to them anymore

>>17580684
Really you only have to worry about penis size if you're having sex with sluts.

>>17580684
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wXcdYBh3hgg

>>17580699
>>17580727
Also a couple other things,
"its not the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean."
Be a good lover, and your size will not matter.

And, keep in mind the majority of women do not get hardly anything, if at all, off penetrational sex. It's all in the foreplay baby, so your dick actually has almost nothing at all to do with your partners pleasure anyway. Hell I'd say your tongue is more important than your dick. Learn how to work the clit and you'll be fine, and fortunately for you working the clit isn't rocket science. There are a handful of guides around 4chan and the internet that will teach you how, and it only gets better with experience. So get out there and start munching carpet.

>>17580785
If she knows I'm a virgin, she won't expect perfection, will she?

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If you have a small dick you just need to go after a girl who's a little shorter. Have you ever watched porn with a big dicked guy? Usually the girl is wicked tall or fat if he can get in there all the way. When it's BBC and a little skinny white girl they can usually only get in about halfway. That's the downside of a big dick. You can't just plow relentlessly. You have to be considerate or you'll hurt them.

But in the end, it's not the size that matters because only the girl cares about the size, right? If you're feeling pleasure then it doesn't really matter how big you are. You're just caring about her pleasure? Who gives a shit. If she's letting you fuck her, it's for your pleasure--not hers.

>>17580684
>BAWWWWWWWW I HAVE A SLIGHTLY LESS THAN AVERAGE PENIS
>BAWWWWWWW
3 inches rock hard here, kill yourself.

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>>17580796

>3 inches rock hard

>>17580684
5-6" is so perfect for me.
My pussy is tiny and tight and even my boyfriend who is 6" fucking hurts unless I am literally dripping wet.
Also - if a girl is naked in bedroom in front of you, it is unlikely that she'll walk out because your penis is slightly under average.

>>17580785
No. I'm a girl and I get off from penetration. Playing with my clit or nipples does nothing for me, unless you vibrate my clit. Then it's sort of a given I get turned on. How deep I get penetrated, how hard, and how fast all matter to me. But 8 inches is too big. My first sexual partner was that long with no girth and it wasn't too great for me

>>17580791
Probably not, but I'll tell you in general, unless she's your gf she doesn't really need to know.

Because here's the thing I hear when dudes feel the need to tell me they're a virgin before sex.
"Hi, I've already resigned myself to be terrible, and I'm telling you this to excuse my terribleness. I'm not even going to try to pretend to know what I'm doing, so I'm just going to be awful and saying this will ease my guilt at not trying."
She's already not going to expect perfection, but I'll tell you right now you're only going to be as good as you think you are. If you go into it just knowing you'll be terrible, then you will be. If you go into it with confidence, even if its just faked confidence, you'll show her a better time.
>>17580835
Congrats, you're one of the 30%. But something like 70% of women are not like you. You are the minority, but you should be happy about that. It means sex will be far more interesting and fun for you. For the rest of us sex is just foreplay, and then laying there doing your best with little to no sensation so he can get his.
I wasn't saying you don't exist, I was just saying OP is statistically more likely to encounter chicks who are clit based than not.

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>>17580783
this, OP you need to wake up

>>17580850
While the majority of women have difficulties having orgasms, just 20-25% rarely or never orgasms through vaginal sex and pretty much all of them feel pleasure.
If your women doesn't feel any pleasure at all while you're fucking her, you're most likely doing something extremely wrong.
The majority of women can orgasm both through vagina and clit.
Don't spread false myths.

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Read this, OP

>it was fine after that

crazy stuff

>>17580699
Nice sour grapes you feckless ugly bitch

>>17580870
in case that story is real, the faces of the doctors when she said "it hurt the first year" must have been priceless.

>>17580864
Got any sauce on that "false myth" claim? Because I am a woman. I've never once had a good time through vaginal, even when I'm doing it to myself. And I've talked with a lot of ladies with the same experience.
http://www.nytimes.com/2005/05/17/science/a-critic-takes-on-the-logic-of-female-orgasm.html
>She analyzed 32 studies, conducted over 74 years, of the frequency of female orgasm during intercourse.... When intercourse was "unassisted," that is not accompanied by stimulation of the clitoris, just a quarter of the women studied experienced orgasms often or very often during intercourse, she found.
http://abcnews.go.com/Health/ReproductiveHealth/sex-study-female-orgasm-eludes-majority-women/story?id=8485289
>About 75 percent of all women never reach orgasm from intercourse alone -- that is without the extra help of sex toys, hands or tongue. And 10 to 15 percent never climax under any circumstances.
https://asktheexperts.plannedparenthood.org/?p=562
>Most women experience orgasm through clitoral stimulation rather than through vaginal penetration.

Sure the numbers do fluctuate a tad, but most experts are still saying the majority of women do not orgasm from penetration.

5.5 is average. Apparently 10% of guys have micro dicks so you're not actually doing too bad

>>17580898
>It's a broken woman thinks others are like her because she was abused as a child episode

>>17580906
I mean you can argue with facts, study, science, and biology all you want mate.
All I was trying to do was reassure OP that his dick size has very little to do at all with his partners pleasure for most women.
But hey, to each their own.

>>17580898
It's pretty rare to not feel anything through vaginal sex.

I read the 2nd study you posted, which is probably the best study on the topic.
25% women orgasm often or very often, 50% sometimes orgasm, 20% orgasm rarely and around 5% never.
So the 95% women rarely, sometimes, often of always orgasms through vaginal sex alone.

Also not orgasmig doesn't mean not feeling pleasure.
I don't always reach orgasm but always feel pleasure vaginally.
To reassure OP - the study also found that there's no correlation with dick size.

>>17580684
the key to good sex is working with the fact that men need to be dominant and women need to be submissive. dont be shy about your cock size, just go for it and act like a champ, be rough and dominant

second, the key to female orgasm is deep penetration and clitoral stimulation- if you can involve the anus in there youve perfected your technique. as a dude with a smaller dick (speaking from experience) youve gotta do positions that give heavy clitoral stimulation as well as give you an oppurtunity to get deeper than you normally could.

>>17580944
Again though, where are you getting those numbers, because in that article it's saying 75% NEVER reach orgasm from penetration alone
While I'll give you that no orgasm doesn't necessarily mean no pleasure, but to a lot of people the orgasm is the main event. If you don't make it to there, most people feel unfulfilled. I mean, would you be ok with just going at it 100% vaginally with your girl and she never orgasmed?
I'd be willing to bet if you knew she'd get off with her clit that you would make the effort to at least try to make her orgasm rather than just selfishly get yours and care less whether or not she does.
So I'll revise it for OP then, while most women will feel something, you're likely not going to get them to the end with just your dick. The goal lies in the clit for the majority of women. You shouldn't just be striving to make her feel "something I guess" in sex, you should be striving to get her to cum. She may not always, since some women cannot cum (myself included), but that should be your goal. If not you're just content with showing her a "eh ok I guess time" anyway and not an actual good time.

>>17580976
Oh my fault. It was the first one you posted. I took them from that "32 studies over 74 years".

I don't get your rant about orgasm. Orgasm is the climax, and obviously everyone wants to come as much as possible, but during the same intercourse you can come from clit stimulation and vaginally. One thing doesn't exclude the other.
My boyfriend goes down on me and makes me come with my clit (which is much easier for me) during foreplay, and then as we have sex and I usually come again vaginally (which is a more intense/better orgasm) through penetration.

Also - you're really not the average girl. The vast majority of women can orgasm and can come through vaginal sex. Sadly a lot of guys don't put effort into it because "meh women don't come anyway!" and if you spread this kind of nonsense, you're more likely to get guys to not even try because whatever.
Clit is more sensitive than the vagina for sure, and it's much easier for most girls to come from clit stimulation, but it still doesn't mean that it is impossible to cum from penetration for most women or whatever.

>>17580902
The thing about averages is that they're not always the mode or most common value.

Guys with very tiny cocks like you said who never really get laid much could be skewing the average. Meaning the sexually active average could be higher.

That said 5" probably isn't so small that he should be deathly afraid of a girl seeing his dink.

>>17580684
"oh i have an avarege sized dick whatever will i do"- op

5" is average you retard

>>17580870
read this while listening to >>17580783

oddly fitting

>>17581011
I know I'm not the average since I can't orgasm at all, I'm the lowest minority actually, but there's still an overwhelming amount of survey evidence to show that vaginal (alone, with no clitoral stim at all) orgasms are not the norm.
I was never stating OP should just brush off getting his girl off, all I've ever said was the exact opposite. He should be getting her off, but his dick is likely not going to be the thing that does it. Like you seem to be thinking I'm saying "If she can't cum from ur peen in vag she can't cum at all".
If anything I think it's more harmful to get guys to ignore the clit all together, since it is the primary center of pleasure for the female body.
Again, I'm just stating from the many sources, women are saying they either rarely or do not cum at all from vag alone. But most of the time nobody's just doing one or the other, it's mostly both, but just because both are happening doesn't mean the orgasm is 50/50. Even if theres penetration, it could still be 100% clitoral orgasm if there's clitoral stim.
These studies though are coming from women who are doing just one or the other, and the majority of them are saying when theres no clitoral stim whatsoever, orgasm is at best difficult, if not impossible to achieve.

I'm trying to make it easier on OP, since vaginal is the hard road to making a girl cum, you might as well focus more on your oral skills than your dick.

5 inches is fine, you chode.

>>17580870
Oh my GOD