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Hey /adv/ this thing has been bugging me for a few days now,

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Hey /adv/ this thing has been bugging me for a few days now, I was hoping you could give me a helping hand with it.

I've been dating this girl for a week now, and she's really great, I mean it. I get along with her like I've never had with anyone, I love all about her. But there's one thing that has been bothering me- she's good friends with her ex. Now I'm not sickly jealous, neither am I a controlling type- if I'm in a relationship with her I trust her enough to belive she won't fuck every guy she meets. I'm also in no position to tell her what to do and what not to do- it's her own fucking life. She dosn't tell me what I can/can't do, works both ways.

But despite all that- it still makes me a bit uncomfortable. She's been firends with the guy for like a decade, then theye were dating for 3 years and they broke up a while ago. Yet still she calls him when she's drunk, meets up with him every now and then. How do I deal with it? What do you think I should do about this?
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>>17580621
Questions:

You've been dating for a week and love all about her?
So what if she calls the dude? Is he a nice dude? Do you know him well enough to judge intentions? Why are you so bothered about this? It's been a week.

Listen, tthere's literally no way for you to say anything to her without coming off as a dumbass. Also you can't ever win this. She's known him a decade, you've been here a week. The only person who has a problem is you so learn to deal or leave the situation.
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>>17580621
>good friends with her ex
>calls him when she's drunk
You're right to be suspect, if you stick it out and she gets preggers anytime in the future I'd demand a test to see if the baby is yours.
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>>17580621
I wouldn't stand by gf to be friend with her ex.
Explain her that this makes you uncomfortable
Also,don't you have problem if she goes out,drinking,without you?
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>>17580636
More or less a figure of speech, I'm not literally in love with her. I have no idea, I've decided it's better if we don't talk about our exes- why would we do that? I know she's been in a toxic one, she's been hurt, but I didn't inquire any further, why would I want to hurt her by making her talk aboutthings she doesn't want to talk about?
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>>17580657
My*
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>>17580657
What is it, nazi Germany? What, you'd put your girlfriend on a leash, tell her what she can and can't do?
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>>17580665
Btw I am a girl,and I wouldn't like to go out drinking without my bf, also if he let me do it I wouldn't believe that he loves me seriously.
Also I would never stay friend with an ex
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>>17580621
come on OP. You are dating she isn't really a gf so use this period to access if there are deal breakers for you or not. I guarantee if this bothers you now multiply this by ten if you make it a year. Having said that you aren't really in any position of power to even ask her about her "friend". She'll choose him over you in a heart beat. Who knows, maybe as you guys know each other better she becomes enamored by you and stops running to him daily but I doubt it. This won't be the first relationship that never had a chance because one partner has not moved on from their last.
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>>17580621
>What do you think I should do about this?
don't date a girl that is not over her ex and still dating him
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>>17580676
all of those sounds like your problems though
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>>17580659
I was feeling especially cheerful, until you said "not literally"
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