Hey /adv/ So my girl just went to a party and got drunk with

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2016-09-18 07:05:02 Post No. 17579876
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Anonymous 2016-09-18 07:05:02 Post No. 17579876 [Report]

Hey /adv/
So my girl just went to a party and got drunk with one of her closest friends. The thing is, he's an ex and her and I are long distance.
She's incredibly aware of how bad it sounded and offered multiple times at different points to just go home if I felt the slightest bit uncomfortable but I've been with her through thick and thin and trust her 100%.
I've dealt with her ex maybe 10 times however and only trust him about a 60%. I know she wouldn't do anything with him, even if he made moves, but I fear him making irresponsible choices like drinking and driving or possibly raping her even though I highly doubt that would happen.
I can't help but be worried for her well being now and it really made me wonder, was it wrong to say I was okay with it just because I trust her? Or did I make the right call in giving her my faith?

Anonymous 2016-09-18 07:07:01 Post No.17579879
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Anonymous 2016-09-18 07:07:01 Post No.17579879 [Report]

If you trust her, then there shouldn't be a problem. But the fact that you're making this thread indicates that there's something else going on behind this all. You can claim you're okay with this all you want, but we can see right through it.

Anonymous 2016-09-18 07:17:42 Post No.17579889
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Anonymous 2016-09-18 07:17:42 Post No.17579889 [Report]

>>17579879
I'm honestly just worried that something could happen to her that I could have stopped had I just said I wasn't okay with this.

Anonymous 2016-09-18 07:48:06 Post No.17579929
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Anonymous 2016-09-18 07:48:06 Post No.17579929 [Report]

I think you're just worrying because that's how you care. It's good to give her space and trust her. My boyfriend feels the exact same way when I go out and he usually feels better after a bit of affection when I'm back home. If you find yourself acting weird and she's questioning it or maybe feeling insecure just be honest and it'll relieve both parties.

Anonymous 2016-09-18 07:50:38 Post No.17579935
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Anonymous 2016-09-18 07:50:38 Post No.17579935 [Report]

>>17579929
I have no problem being honest.
I just don't know if I made the right call.
Even now that I know that she's home and safe I still wonder if I should have asked her not to go in order to protect her from the possibility of something bad happening ya know?

Anonymous 2016-09-18 08:04:01 Post No.17579943
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Anonymous 2016-09-18 08:04:01 Post No.17579943 [Report]

DONT TALK TO ME OR MY GIRLFRIENDS BOYFRIEND EVER AGAIN

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