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Going out alone to socialise?

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I have moved back to my city after working in another city for 3 years.

Most of my friends are married with kids or just stay home and drink/play video games. I am single and want to be more social, make new friends and hopefully meet a girl.

My friends don't like going out, so I'm thinking of going out alone.

Do you think it's crazy for me to go to bars and pubs by myself, and try make friends that way?

Tonight there is some Latin party in my city tonight and a lot of people are going to it (a lot of non-Latina as well). I'm thinking its a "safe"social event to go to alone and hopefully I won't look like a wierdo.
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>>17579460
>I am single and want to be more social, make new friends and hopefully meet a girl.

Want a girl? Go to speed dating or something. Don't expect to find girls by yourself if you don't have a strong social network.
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Tried speed dating but had no luck.

So by the sounds of things with no social circle I am wasting my time and will look like a wierdo?
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>>17579515

Not look like a weirdo, that's not why I meant.

I'm saying, if you are really alone, focus on meeting "people", not "girls". Build a new social network.
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>>17579531
Yes that is something I really want to do, perhaps more so than meeting s girl.

I hope I don't look like too much of a creep tonight
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>>17579552

Just be honest, don't try to "act cool". If people like you, let it be for how you really are.

I don't know which kind of party you are going to, but parties are to have fun, so try to do that.
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>>17579460

I think it's perfectly fine to do and perfectly normal. I know what you mean, it does feels weird at times, but I'd just go for it. If you can do it a few times, you normally get the hang of the fact that it's actually an entirely normal thing to do.

I think the only thing (which is quite easy to do) is to go out with the sole purpose of having fun / making friends. When you start trying to go out alone and looking for GF too much, I think it's BAD.

U be fine!
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Thanks guys

Sorry to keep bumping this thread up but I looked at who was on the invite list and it was a girl I dated from tinder a few months ago. Dated her once but I never bothered following up with her.

Hopefully it isn't awkward if I see her or her friends hate me.

Wish me luck :)
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