>22 yo kv
>just got first gf
>she is attractive
>I am attracted to her
>have sex and bj
>find neither one particularly interesting can't cum from either
>always finish by hand
>never as good as just jerking off
Have I just been broken by internet porn or what? I don't get it. This isn't how it's supposed to be.
Today she surprised me with a blowjob and I could tell she went all at it but I could only think "fuck I wish I was jerking off instead"
>>17573518
you might want to consider these possibilities:
>you're gay
>she's loose and gives bad bjs
godspeed op
You just need practice, that's all. Keep having sex, you will soon fins it more enjoyable and easier to cum.
>>17573518
Everybody's first sexual experience is like that, OP.
>>17573518
do you have a strong grip? do you masturbate often?
try not fapping for a week and see where that takes you.
>>17573523
not gay and she's not loose. Bad bjs might be a thing though.
>>17573532
We've been together for a few months now with pretty regular sex
>>17573536
kinda? Not really? I used to masturbate like 2-3 times a day.
I've done the no fapping for a week thing and it didn't help. Just wanted to jerk off.
>>17573518
too used to feel of your own hand the more you have sex the more you will get used to her touch
>>17573544
>2-3 times a day isn't much
ha......... you're joking, right?
make her wear some kinky shit
get one of those furry buttplugs if you're into that
see if you're more of a dom or sub
find a fetish that she can be involved in m8e
like maybe fucking in a changing room at the mall
>>17573550
>>2-3 times a day isn't much
Never said that. I was referring to the grip.
Also yeah I should probably do that. She's incredibly submissive so I'm stuck there.
>>17573518
Sounds like years of virginity conditioned your Brain to Porn.
Stop masturbating to a while and use your memories instead of porn if you do so.
It'll get better.