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Need your input on what path to follow /adv/, first of all:

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Need your input on what path to follow /adv/, first of all:

>22 year old
>just graduated college
>got a job in a prestigious place but the pay is shit
>live far from work, long commutes, no sleep
>day after day I argue with parents more
>argue with mom about trivial shit I can handle
>argue with dad about more serious shit, we end up not talking to each other for days
>genuinely hate dad but depend on his financial aid
>could afford to move out of parents house but I'd had to cut luxurious shit, I'll borderline starve

Should I:
A:
>move out
>starve
>no car in the foreseeable future

B:
>stay at home
>deal with parents like a little bitch
>MAYBE dad handles me a car
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>>17572609
>>17572609
Also, it's common for people to live with parents till they marry where I live, most of my friends are >25 and live with their parents.
>>
or you could

C:
>repair your relationship
you havent told us what the fights are about.
you're a graduate with a prestigious job, I'm p sure none of us see what's wrong

are you not doing chores? Do chores
do you come home piss drunk? Stop coming home piss drunk
>>
If you're living at home and depending on your parents financially, I think you owe it to them to not be an ass to them. Arguments are a two-way street, you're not blameless for the fact that they occur. If you continue to live at home, you need to do your part to make living there more tolerable for all of you, otherwise they'll be more inclined to kick your ass out.
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>>17572617
>you havent told us what the fights are about.
With my mom we fight over trivial shit

>don't move the furniture
>don't cook, things will get messy


With my dad I argue about other shit, we basically have the same personality where we don't take shit from anyone, and if my dad screams at me because he's pissed off about having a bad day or shit like that, I'll scream back at him.
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>>17572636
>trivial
so you wouldnt mind if she went into your room and moved shit around, or forced you to clean the kitchen while she made a mess while cooking?
here's some things you can try:
>stop moving the furniture
>clean up after you cook (honestly this should go without saying, it's just a matter of being polite; stop being a child)

with your dad, why do you yell back at him? Are you legit autistic?
just let him vent, and wait for him to calm down
if you dont want to take his shit, respond calmly

tl;dr stop being an autistic manchild
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>>17572673
>>stop moving the furniture
In my own fucking room, my room is basically a deposit because my mom stockpiles a fuckton of shit she doesn't use.

>if you dont want to take his shit, respond calmly
But I don't take shit from anyone, only person that should be able to yell at you are your superiors at work, at even like that, no one screams at work.
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>>17572713
regardless, they're providing free housing
so stop moving furniture, regardless of where it is
and drop your ego, you filthy nigger
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