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Lost my confidence/charisma

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I remember around 3 years ago i had no problem talking to girls etc at clubs. Now I simply cannot do that anymore. I also think I may have acquired some sort of anxiety or depression. Even when I'm EXTREMELY drunk, I am still shy and anxious. Anyone know whats goin on?
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I think that might be it, man.

Back in high school, I didn't have much luck with girls. Got /fit/ in my early 20s, got a huge charisma boost, and got a dozen girls at least. Few years later I get numb to the whole thing, and I don't even bother trying to pick up girls anymore (though I still talk to them to keep myself sharp). Eventually when I do have sex, it's bad. My heart just isn't in it, anymore.

I wish I knew what to tell you, lad. If it IS depression, try to focus on where it's coming from, and work on that. These things are usually a product of something else bothering you. Good luck m8, it's too late for me.
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>>17568345
Not OP but what if some of the things that get you down cannot be fixed
Not saying I have depression but definitely making me feel low/insecure
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It comes in waves for me. I'm currently in a bad month. I almost feel like crying when I have to get out of bed in the morning for no apparent reason, just because i fear the day. Talking to strangers, especially girls feels unnatural and I'd rather not talk at all.

But sometimes i have phases too in which I feel in control and enjoy what i'm doing. I've always had this, but probbly, as you get older, your schedule becomes filled and your brain can't handle having to be an adult for that long -yet- (hopefully)
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>>17568624
I've been like this for probably a year or two at the stage. It's horrible. Can't sleep properly either
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>>17568345
>its never too late
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>>17568532
I didn't say "fix", I said "work on".

One of the major lessons I learned the last decade was that you can't remove the things that are wrong with you, just manage them.
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>>17569868
How can I work on this? I just want to rediscover who I once was.
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