You ever completely fuck yourself over semi-purposely? Like you get into a long talk about serious shit and just get annoyed or saddened by it and just purposely say some shit that you know youre going to regret before you even say it but you cant help it? Am i the only one?
Yeah, I do it sometimes
>>17568025
Happens alot to me. I fuck up alot of things by it. I think its my comfortability in control and my impatience with things that bother me. May be wrong
>>17568034
For me I just bottle shit up for so long that it just comes out eventually in the worst way possible. I just get to a point where I have to get those thoughts out of my head and I don't care how.
>>17568050
Same way. I bottle shit up and eventually when coping and rolling with the punches loses its usefullness i resort to saying "fuck it" and destroying a situation. Im very honest but i put myself in a bad spot when i try to bottle things up to protect other people or suppress emotions.
>>17568088
It helped me to keep a little diary of these things. Maybe you should try it too.
I excel at difficult situations. It's the only time I exist as a competent person. If something doesn't take up all my concentration, then it gets none of it. I nearly failed out of high school because I just...stopped. Then I took night-classes on top of work and regular school, and I did phenomenal at all three.
I put myself in bad situations because, ironically, the stress fights my depression. I'm just an angry dude who needs to be fought.
I find sometimes I drop myself into shitty situations for the bants, like to engineer a Fawlty Towers-esque disaster. I guess I just wanna entertain people.
I do pretty much everything everyone itt has said, but I do it very occasionally, only in situations where I don't really want to be in.
Like for my master thesis, which I hated, I basically didn't sleep for two weeks. Got a 99% (we have different grades in my country).
yeah. a couple years ago i was seeing this girl who i had lost interest in, and she took me to a family get together so i got trashed and acted like a jackass to everyone.
didnt seem like it at the time but looking back i think i subconsciously did it on purpose to get away from her. i really am a douchebag sometimes.
Sometimes I just say what people expect me to say, for example if someone is blaming me for something I didn't do I might say that I did it just so that I can get people to stop pointless arguing.
>>17568091
Thank you. I will try it