Over summer my friend's gf started attending the same university as us and we ended up having a class together and really hitting it off.
I'm positive she reciprocates my feelings for her
>gives me the "look"
>takes my side in disputes
>lets me check her out
>texts me shit like "okiee" and "heyyy"
>she often turns to me when my friend embarrasses her and complains about him often
>everyone says we click well
>she looked destroyed when I mentioned I hooked up with this asian girl at a party we all went to
Honestly, my friend is a shitty person and I've known him and thought that since 9th grade. He's a know it all who pops off on people for trivial shit, & told me he used to torture small animals and other creepy shit like that back in high school. He's not really an asshole, he just says things that make conversations unnecessarily tense. That's not to say that he doesn't have redeeming qualities, I just like his gf more than I like him as a friend.
Should I go after her? I'm kind of set on it as you can tell but someone may change my mind. What moves would I have to make to steal her away?
>>17567424
This is not a movie, kid. After you "get the girl", you'll still be in the same university and group of friends as the other guy.
He used to make things awkward in conversation? Imagine what you'll do from that point on...
>>17567424
>What moves would I have to make to steal her away?
brutally assfuck your friend infront of her to show she deserves better
>>17567444
I have multiple friend groups and so does she.
I know a guy who cheated on his gf to be with this girl who was cheating on her bf, now they live and work together. I've seen this work before.
>>17567473
You still go to college with him, right? Do you really think you can pull this off?
>>17567492
Anything is feasible and it's not like cheating is an uncommon thing, especially in college. It's not like I would be explicit about it with everyone either.
You don't "steal her away". What are you, fucking stupid?
Don't try to make her your gf. Just fuck her instead.
>>17567500
That's what I'm trying to do for now but I don't see why I shouldn't make more of it if we do end up fucking.
>>17567498
See? When the reasoning is "the sky is the limit" it usually means you are taking a huge risk. But sure, go ahead. It's your life.
>>17567512
You don't see why?
Maybe because he's your "friend" first of all. But morals aside, he sounds like a fucking psychopath (torturing animals). Even if that girl ends up with you, she still did cheat on her bf to be with you. Chances are she will cheat on you too.
It's a recipe for a disaster. Pump and dump only. Otherwise, you're in for some shit.
>>17567523
>>17567444
Moralfags gtfo.
Go for it OP. Invite her over or something. Get her alone and see what happens.
>>17567424
What do you mean should you go after her, you already started. I just wonder why you think your friends gf is a prize if she will betray your friend and her bf? Seriously. Does that not concern you at all she would do this? She does this to him and she'll do it to you and if I was a friend of yours you wouldn't be much longer.
>>17567542
>This is not a movie, kid. After you "get the girl", you'll still be in the same university and group of friends as the other guy.
>He used to make things awkward in conversation? Imagine what you'll do from that point on...
That's not about morality, it's about practicality. He is playing against his own group of friends, and he clearly goes to class with a few of them.
More than likely you're reading too much into your interactions with her and just seeing what you want to see.
It's not worth ruining your social life and froendship.
>>17567523
Thing is, I'm pretty use she's in a relationship just to be in one. She likes my friend enough and get's sex out of it, but I get the vibe that she's not completely invested.
>>17567572
Doesn't even matter. Look, if you want to be with her, good, go for it. But it's a bad idea. It always will be.
>>17567572
You're getting that vibe because that's the vibe you want to get. You've got some heavy confirmation bias going.
But let's say you're right and she's a flaky girl who will get in a relationship she doesn't like just to be with someone, and will drop someone all of a sudden when something else comes along despite the drama and heartache it would cause. She doesn't sound like a good catch in that situation.
>>17567548
What's to say some other girl that I date in the future won't cheat either? She's a dime and I see a lot of myself in her.
If she did cheat, she'd be getting out of a relationship she wasn't happy in.
And if my friend's don't want to be friends with me after that so be it, that's a bit shallow. I really wouldn't care if one of my friends did the same thing to someone else.
>>17567562
That's fair, and you may be right, but it's stupidly easy to find a different friend group if things come to that.
>>17567596
>You've got some heavy confirmation bias going.
Do I though?
>she's a flaky girl
college freshman
>who will get in a relationship she doesn't like just to be with someone
She's been with him since junior or senior year of high school. She wants to have fun and do college things, he wants to go with her every time she goes out to "monitor" her.
>and will drop someone all of a sudden when something else comes along
That's what I did with my first gf in high school. Broke her off one day and upgraded.
>drama and heartache it would cause
in one of a few friend groups she's a part of.
80% of the time I hang out with them is to smoke weed at their house because my roommates threatened to call the police if they smelled pot and the house is a fence hop away.
Same with her, she's usually trying to smoke there cause she lives in a dorm.
>>17567523
This anon raises a good point about your friend being a psychopath. What's to stop him from taking revenge on you? If he can kill animals and not feel bad about it then he certainly wouldn't feel bad about jumping you.
Or your blinded and dont see what it could really mean.
>"gives you the look" Maybe she is just looking at something near you
>"lets me check her out" She probably feels uncomfortable and doesnt want to deny you since your friends with her bf
>"texts me shit like okiee and heyyy" Literally every girl ever says shit like that.
>"she often turns to me when my friend embarrasses her and complains about him often" Emotional tampon is when a girl just dumps her issues on an unattractive guy so she can just focus on fucking the guy shes attracted to
>"she looked destroyed when I mentioned I hooked up with this asian girl at a party we all went to" Probably grossed out that you would even bring up sex in front of her. Disgusted at the though of you doing anything
Open your eyes anon, just open them up
>>17567780
>>Maybe she is just looking at something near you
a straight up look into my eyes. I've noticed her checking me out too. Doesn't surprise me considering her bf is a lanky beanpole.
>>She probably feels uncomfortable and doesnt want to deny you since your friends with her bf
Doubt it. At the very least she likes the attention.
>>Literally every girl ever says shit like that.
lol ok man
>>Emotional tampon is when a girl just dumps her issues on an unattractive guy so she can just focus on fucking the guy shes attracted to
Thing is, she literally turns to me after he says some shit and says "I hate when he does that", etc. or looks at me after he says some awkward shit. She's not dumping her problems on me.
>>Probably grossed out that you would even bring up sex in front of her. Disgusted at the though of you doing anything
Considering I wasn't the one who brought it up, I highly doubt it.
You sound like you belong on /r9k/ with your defeatist attitude. It's not my fault you can't get laid bruh. Go back to your containment board.
>>17567648
>Do I though?
Yes.
You've already made up your mind that she wants your dick.
Almost every post has told you what a bad idea it is, but you're obviously not going to take that advice.
Go for it and live with your decision.
>>17567839
Lmao still doubt it but your negative moralfag ass won't ever know
>>17567844
Yeah, not gonna lie everyone telling me it's a bad idea has thought up some pretty lame reasons not to so I'm going for it.
I just need to figure how I'm going to go about doing it now.
>>17567733
>what's stopping him from taking revenge?
An assault and battery charge.