Need help

OP here. To clarify I'm a guy and I've been on 3 dates with the same girl. Was typing too fast and missed few things.

>>17567321

Chat minimum amount over text and whatsapp and stuff, save talking for when you hang out in person

Until you get to that point where you just wanna talk to each other all the time
If you're at this point, then just say how you feel. Texting is always a little bit awkward but we cant tell you what to tell her, its gotta come from you

Just do things like ask about her day, what shes up to, if shes gonna anything planned, about one of her interests etc.

And bring up your own stuff. Talk about what you got goin on in life so its not all about her

>>17567316
Phone calls work

>>17567316

OK, simple texting tip from another socially awkward guy: NEVER assume your joke is funny on text. Specially if it relies on sarcasm.

Try to keep the texts straightforward, mostly informative. There's nothing wrong with a few cute things here and there, but stay away from sarcasm.

If you spend enough time with her face to face, messaging isn't particularly important. My bf is rubbish at messaging, but I know this, so I don't expect him to write eloquent long winding messages. Mostly we just message to set up a live meet somewhere, but even more importantly if I do get a cute message from him on occasion, it's all that much more special. There's really no standard protocol for these type of things, just find what works best for you and your girl. My advice would be, worry about the quality more than about the quantity.

>>17567431
>>17567448

Let's assume he needs to chat. If it really was that easy for him to get away from it, I'm sure he would.

I assume she has told you things about herself or mentioned things that are going on in her life right now. Bring those up again. Ask how that event went. Ask what she thought of this or that. Make an opening for her to start talking, then comment on what she says, offer your own view or experience. Or alternatively, mention something that happened to you and hope she'll take the bite and tell about her own experiences.

OP here. Thanks a bunch for replies lads. It seems like I have to figure out how much is normal for us because I see some of my friends typing all the time on their phone and I'm here with the minimum of that. It's been over a year since I was dating so I'm kinda rusty with all those stuff.