>be me
>be """18""" in high school
>in Singapore
>traditionalist parents cane me since the age of ten
>caning is done on Saturdays for bad academic results or misbehaviour
>tried to say that I won't take it
>they said that I either will lay on a bench or they won't pay for my higher education
>had to lay down
>recently got 40 canes for drinking vodka and smoking pot
>can't sit normally for two weeks
>they have all the legal rights to do it
>how to solve it?
You can't solve it.
They will be paying for your higher education so that is at least another 4 years of canning.
OR
Work and move out once you have enough savings.
Stop giving them a reason to hit you even if you have to act
have to agree with the other poster, since the law is on their side in your country you have no option but to put up with it until you do turn 18, but when you do turn 18 is when you have a choice. Either keep putting up with their rules and let them pay for your education or assert your independence move out and find a job of your own.
Frankly speaking though you asked "how to solve it" and the real way to solve this problem is to abide by their rules. From what you've said it sounds like they do have your best interests in mind, they've caned you for drinking alcohol and doing drugs, things you shouldn't be doing anyway, and for neglecting your schoolwork leading to poor academic results. You should really be focused on doing well in school, not getting drunk and chasing girls or whatever it is you're doing.
Are you allowed to cane your parents when they get old and senile?
>>17564929
I have one more year of high school and then I'm out to the US.
>>17564942
Party is not the only reason they do it. You can get your ass whopped for a minor underscore from the top grade in class.
>>17564977
So 4 more years of canning then. Just because you leave the country doesn't mean you still won't get beaten once you come back for the summer dude.
Endure, work hard and then move out.
>>17564984
I'm pretty sure I will not be in Singapore for summers