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What do guys think about going down on girls? I am with my long-term husbando, and I insanely love giving him blowjobs, but he doesn't go down on me in return. I don't ask him to, because I haven't had any good experiences with it, and I'm too impatient to teach him. I also don't want him to feel bad. What if he sucks and I can't come, and he's unhappy with being unable to please me? Sex makes me come much faster than fingers or oral, so I really don't mind not doing it. However, I want him to want to do it. For, if he wanted to, I wouldn't have to worry about how neither of us are enjoying it.

So anyways, what kind of men enjoy going down on women? Is it viewed as degrading? Do most men prefer not to?
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Maybe he's just a big pussy. I love going down on a girl, and on the contrary, it's a dominant act. She is completely at my mercy while I tease her and slowly bring her closer to orgasm. She loses all control. I'm in charge of letting her come. Maybe. If I want to. She might have to beg.
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I love going down on a girl and munching on some dripping-wet pussy ... Not all men like it though ... Your husband is not a telepath ... just talk about it. It's weird that you're together for so long and didn't discuss things like this ...
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>>17560465

If you want your lad to give you oral then you need to talk to him about it. You probably won't get what you're after if you don't bring it up.

>So anyways, what kind of men enjoy going down on women?

Making someone else feel good makes me feel good. Don't really know what else to say.
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>>17560465
It's beta as fuck
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>So anyways, what kind of men enjoy going down on women? Is it viewed as degrading?
I do.
Seriously tho, I think cunnilingus is viewed as degrading mainly in more conservative circles, where people still care about being manly and so on, and where they think you can't do this because it implies you are like a dog or something (see >>17560492).
I could imagine kinky men and those passionate about sexuality probably like doing it more.
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>husbando
Take a chill pill, and teach him to be good.
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>>17560482
This so much. Then they're just laying there, dazed, mentally wandering the realms of dimension 69
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>>17560492
Found the virgin.
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if you want to get your dick sucked, you better eat pussy.
oral for oral
end of story really.
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>>17560527
Not really. You need to make your girl fall for you hard, and then she will enjoy sucking your dick whenever you want it.
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>>17560465
Can't speak for everyone but I don't like going down on women. No particular reason other than it's not in my nature. I'll finger her but that's it outside of full blown sex.
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>>17560527
>I'm a stronk independent women

That's not how it works retard. Sometimes someone enjoys giving head and the other doesn't. This isn't a business deal you dumb faggot.
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>>17560465
a lot of things go into if i want to go down on a girl. If I'm in the mood to want to(sometimes i just want to). If she's clean. If she's a slut.

Most women are sluts, so i'm not going to want to go down on most women right off the bat. even if i'm in a relationship with them.

But you certainly could get him to do it maybe get him horny and sit on his face or ask him to lick you out, even if he doesn't do it until you cum it could still be nice for you.
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>>17560465
It's really no big deal.
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>>17560465
Yeah giving a woman oral is pretty gross. I mean, it's a part of the body that was meant to be felt and not tasted. I like receiving oral obviously but I could live without it and I understand why a woman wouldn't want to do it.

Both acts are kind of degrading, and I'm not sure if you ever kissed someone after they gave you oral or smelt their breath but it's pretty gross. Which would be even worse if you ejaculated in their mouth.

However manual stimulation is cool and I've always been partial to being manipulated by breasts if you catch my drift. Now that's heaven with a well endowed woman.
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>>17560482
This, I almost enjoy eating pussy than fucking it.
Just talk about it with your husband, he might just not care or maybe he does not know if he likes it.

You are adults be open and talk about it and even if he is shit just teach him how to do it and be patient, if he is your husband than what you got to also it is a small time investment that will pay off throughout out your marriage.
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>>17560465
Broham needs to sack up and eat some fucking pussy.

Serious answer: just ask him to do it, experimentation is fun and you learn each others quirks.

Also 69'ing is fucking awesome.
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>Get in first relationships
>Dying to eat pussy
>Girls see it as gross and don't want it at all
>Start to think it's demeaning to myself in their eyes
>Stop eating pussy completely and just demand blowjobs
>Everyone happy
>Later relationships
>Anon, why don't you eat my pussy, it's just fair
>Lack of blowjobs now
IT'S A NEVER ENDING BATTLE
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
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>>17560482
>it's a dominant act
Spoken like a true cuck
fucking maximum level delusions
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>>17560999
I guess all women are different. Wow, who knew.
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>>17560465
I went down on my girl a lot when we were first started going out. I don't think it's degrading or anything and she seemed to enjoy it. I just don't do it as often anymore for some reason. Mainly to impatient to make her O from it now. It takes a while and I think I'm pretty good at it. Tongue gets tired. I don't think it's as special for her anymore either because it was standard practice when we had sex for a long while. She used to orgasm in about 5 minutes. Now it's more like 10-15 from oral.

If that's what you want you should at least hint at it though if not ask. Watch some porn with him and talk about it when it comes up. Or just talk to him.
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It's disgusting, if our dicks shot out blood every month, would you still suck it?
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Would pushing his head down kind of forcibly work, .. like we guys do sometimes?
:-)
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>>17561209
Yeah, no shit. I just wouldn't do it while it was bleeding.
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>>17561209
virgin again?
I've got a friend that was soooo into it....
He'd rather lick a girl than fuck her.
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>>17560465
>What do guys think about going down on girls?
I've always been for it, every girl I've dated has gotten off from me going down on them in a couple of minutes, then I can fuck them or get my dick sucked as much as I like until they want another.
I struggle to get off from blowjobs alone (<5 times from blowjobs alone in 8 years of fucking various women), so I prefer to go down on a girl, get a blowjob then 69 a bit later on to keep them going.

tl;dr I do because it gets the girl off quickly and I can do whatever I like.
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For me it's nasty, stinky, even more if hairy. Damn, these hair on my tongue. I've been always losing boner when I was going dow on my ex because she was nagging me to do it. What's ever more fun, she was not satisfied with me doing it occasionally, she demanded me to ENJOY IT. Haha, shit was ridiculous. Feels kinda bad because she loved giving me bjs just like OP when I was not personally turned on by oral in both ways. And I had to do another thing I did not enjoy much in return.

Then I finish reading OP post.

>Does not enjoy oral much herself.
>Bf also do not enjou it.
>However, I want him to want to do it.

HAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAa

Now that I read that, poor bastard, I feel him. I was in exact same situation. You are funny chick OP.
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>>17561237
Seems like some kind of cuck or simply pervert.
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>>17561237
What a cuck, bet he likes pegging too.
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>>17560527
To be fair, sucking a dick seems easier.
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rough powerfuck from behind>>>>> shit >>>any kind of oral

That's the real man's taste, sign me in every time
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>>17560465

As long as a girl's cleaned up beforehand, I'd go down on her in a heartbeat. I expect they want a similar treatment so I'd gladly clean up before getting a blowjob, it's only courteous.

But I enjoy a woman's pleasure. Nothing turns me on more than to know she's turned on and wanting it. Going down on someone is an easy way to figure out those tricky sensual buttons and how they work if they've got half a brain and are willing to use it, and the lady's able to show she's enjoying it, and give a little guidance when she isn't. That's all it takes.
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>>17560506
these are good techniques, but those illustrations are disgusting.
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>>17560527
sex between most people is a power exchange, and most women, especially younger women, don't want to be on the winning side of this exchange. "oral for oral" is fine in logical theory, but in discussing the idea and in practice it's a turnoff for most women.
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Depends on the pussy.

I love going down on some girls, and hate it on others.

My current GF, she has to be freshly shaven, and showered before I'll go down on her.

Other girls, I'll fucking eat that shit at the drop of a dime, after I beat it up, before I beat it up, however, whenever.

And, then there's some girls where I'm out instantly from the smell.

It really all depends, they can all suck my dick though.
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>>17561355

you're a obviously a connoisseur.

do you smell it first? just to get the "bouquet"?
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>>17561305
are you a girl?
but basically this, a really good fuck doesn't compare, I'm really let down cause my gf doesn't cum from fucking

>>17561355
like this guy too,
some are really inviting, others are not,
not sure if a hygiene thing or something to do with genetics
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>>17561369
Mhm, if I decide against eating it, but I'm already set up to do the deed, sometimes I'll just tease and kiss at their thighs, and then work my way back up as if nothing happened.
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ITT: virgin cucks convince OP that most men like eating pussy
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>>17561400
Eh, I'm not convinced. Is your opinion, then, that I shouldn't talk to him about it/redirect him to my groin one day during sex? I don't necessarily want to do it all of the time, but I want to try it.
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Giz us a kiss
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>>17561444
Tell him, see how fast he's gonna change the subject.
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>>17560465
>I don't ask him to, because I haven't had any good experiences with it,
with him or with others?
>and I'm too impatient to teach him.
HOL UP HOL UP

YOU are impatient to eventually teach HIM giving YOU an oral orgasm?

Is that correct?

How can you be married without that basic level of communication?
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>>17561598
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>>17561344
That's because it was made a Tumblr fag trying to be "MUH diversity all vaginias is equally appealing even the ones with flappity ghost arms!"
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>>17561598
>looks like a cooch
>thing that looks like a dong swings out at the last second

definition of a trap
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>>17560465

>What do guys think about going down on girls?

Going down on a girl for me is like cleaning my garage. I never really want to do it but once I finish I'm pretty proud of myself.

I don't particularly enjoy it but I do it because I'm not an asshole and I like getting my dick sucked.
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I dont like sticking my face and tongue where you pee and poo. Its hairy, sticky, smelly, mucousy, slimy, forget it. My dick is designed to handle that not my face.
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>>17560465
I think a lot of men do enjoy going down on a woman. For me, the smell of a woman's naughty bits after she has just showered is intoxicating. It is a smell that I definitely wouldn't describe as aromatic, but it really draws me in. Once a girl gets horny, I can't stop until she finishes. If I have to add a finger, or two, or three, it's fine. I just really like being up close to the action when a girl cums. Usually, they are more than happy to suck me off or let me fuck them like crazy afterwards (if they aren't too sensitive). So, it usually makes those things more enjoyable because the girl really gets into it.
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I like going down on a girl if she has a nice pussy and ass. Nicely shaven...nice skin.

If shes got an ugly pussy and is over weight and has hair down there I wont even bother going down in that area.
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I would never be with a man who didn't love giving oral, let alone one who expected me to suck his dick without going down on me in return. But then, I don't orgasm from penetration alone, so I might be more attached to that particular act. Still, no cunnilingus is a huge deal breaker for me personally, and if a guy asked me to suck him and then acted like doing the same to a woman was disgusting or emasculating, I'd laugh my way out of his life. So glad to be with a guy who likes spending equal time with either head between my legs.

But anyway, this answer, like so many others, TALK TO HIM. If it's a long term relationship, you need to get conformable doing that or resign yourself to suffering in silence. Maybe he never does it because he assumes you don't like it.
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>>17560501
That might just be the single funniest fucking thing I've ever read holy fuck
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>>17562407
found the closet homosexual
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>>17560465
Why the fuck would anyone want to go down on a girl.
>Yeah let me lick this place youve never washed in your entire life
>but... but.. the vagina cleans itself
Yeah just like your body cleans the rest of its insides. But secreting mucus and shit to collect and export it outside of the body. Sure sounds amazing imagining licking what your body considers waste product.
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>>17562542
don't forget the heat in your face. mmhmmh.
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>>17561007
Spoken like someone who's never given a woman pleasure
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Kek, I love guys who make a big deal about how it's not masculine to go down on women. Makes the girls appreciate those of us who love feeling them cum that much more.

Also it means when we start fucking, I can focus on my orgasm. Already gave her 3.
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Anyone who doesn't like going down on a chick is a closet homosexual. Unless she has a jungle down there you have no excuses faggots
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>>17560465
Don't think it's degrading, just too wild for me. I'd rather stick to vanilla and keep whatever diseases/bacteria might show-up away from my mouth.
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>>17563226
Yeah must suck that you cant get a girl to climax from just sticking it in and have to get good at oral.
I legitimately think only dicklets go down on women.
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ate pussy twice, first time was with a 30 year old and i was 19. she said that it didnt feel too good (probably because i was doing it wrong) but the 2nd time on a different girl i focused on her clit and made her squirm. it was pretty hot. would eat pussy every time
>tfw go to bed with chapped lips and wake up they're moist
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>>17563279
>tfw go to bed with chapped lips and wake up they're moist
Mate wash your face and brush your teeth after you're done, nobody wants to wake up the next morning with their mouth smelling like cooch
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>>17563304
>not sleeping in your sex juices

virgin detected
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>>17563265
>>virgin detected.

The average vagina takes an average of 8 minutes direct stimulation. The average penis roughly 3 minutes.

If you don't cum before your bitch with only intercourse there's a limited number of options.

1. You've desensitized your dick. Enjoy your ED.

2. Your loose woman is overly sensative. Too much sex with bigger dicks likely. Enjoy your whore.

3. You found the 1 in 300 million woman who actually derives satisfaction from intercourse and isn't faking for your ego. Enjoy your faked female orgasms.
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>>17563471
Enjoy your r9k worldview and die alone.
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>>17563471
Im sure it takes 8 minutes for a dicklet to get a girl to climax.
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>>17563471
The entire problem can be solved if intercourse is combined with stimulation via hand. I love combined penetration and stimulation more than stimulation alone, and my partner outlasts me almost every time.
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>>17560482
Look bro, enjoy it if you will but eating pussy is the ultimate emasculating act. Don't try to convince yourself otherwise and just own it.
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>>17564300
>>17564300
Really? THAT's the ultimate emasculating act?

Not cuckholding, but eating a girl out and driving her crazy?

Not getting pegged in the ass, but making a girl lose control and orgasm nonstop with your tongue skills?

Do you listen to what the fuck you, or are you a juvenile retard that really speaks in absolutes at the drop of a dime? Funny you preach about masculinity, but making poorly thought out absolute statements is not the sign of a masculine man.
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>>17564385
Settle down anon, you seem really insecure. Sorry to have hit a nerve.
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>>17564397
Apologizing and passive aggression are also non-masculine acts.

You strike me as a whiny bitch who shuts up and doesn't say anything if someone cuts him in line.
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>>17561344
>>17562318
That image is not meant to get you off.
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it's awesome but depends on the cleanliness
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>>17564385
>Not getting pegged in the ass,

Hey dude why dont you shut the fuck up before someone gets hurt
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>>17560465
>What kind of men enjoy going down on women
A lot of different kinds I'd guess, for different reasons. I do it because I actually enjoy it and because I can make my gf have multiple orgasms doing so. It feels pretty good as a man when youre told you give good dick, same applies to being good at eating pussy.

>Is it viewed as degrading
For real men, no theres nothing degrading about pleasuring your woman. To insecure fucks who care too much about what other people think, they could possibly feel it is degrading. After all, isnt there a stigma for women with blowjobs too?

>Do most men prefer not to
Hard to say, cant speak for all men. There are plenty of men who enjoy it, plenty of men who do it just because they want to get their dick sucked, but theres also probably plenty of men who dont do it unless asked
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>>17560465

I don't go down in casual sex, and correspondingly I don't allow girls to do oral on me, but I would if she were my girlfriend. I love too much to have control over them.
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>>17564480
OP here. Yes, blowjobs feel degrading, but I want to feel degraded. I love the unequal power dynamic between my partner and I during sex. I want to be dragged by my hair onto his cock and called dirty names. I can dissociate blowjobs from degradation, but that's the last thing I want to do.

However, he probably doesn't want to be degraded, as he wants the superior role during sex. In that case, would him going down on me be "out of character" of sorts? (That's probably a shallow way of thinking but also an interesting line of inquiry for me.)
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>>17564496

Yes, probably. Some girls are very surprised of me taking care of them in all kinds of ways. I infer that some men just pump, come and say goodbye.

Is it the way of making love? Is it just to get your pleasure and forget about your partner?

Maybe.
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>>17560465
I'll do it for foreplay before sex but it's not my favourite
Although my current partner just kind of lies there silently when i do it so maybe if the girl was more into it id be more into it
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>>17564543
>Although my current partner just kind of lies there silently when i do it
horrible.
you might be doing the "physical" work, but without any kind of feedback you might as well be licking a pole. such a turnoff.
sorry to hear that, mate.
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>>17560465
I really enjoy going down on girls quite a bit. I get pleasure from giving pleasure. I dont see it as degrading at all. Hair pulling is fine. But if a girl ever spoke in a degrading way to me, face sat on me, pushed her hips roughly against my face, pushed my head into her hips, i would walk out immediately. That shit is a huge turn off for me.
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>>17564726
Oh man I fucking love having my face sat on. But it's always a mutual thing, it sounds like you're more turned off by being forced to do something.
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>>17564496
I dont like being degraded or doing any type of degrading personally. It would be a huge turn off if they requested it or tried it on me, not a deal breaker. With that said as a guy i definitely appreciate dominance and submission.

Have him hand cuff your hands to the head board and he can hold your hips etc...

That is the whole power struggle is an issue for him. Talk to him about that.
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>>17560465
ask for it,
When he sees how good you feel with it he probably gonna do it without asking just to see how you enjoy it
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I would do it, but i dont like vaginas.
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>>17560465
>Is it viewed as degrading? Do most men prefer not to?

The only people I've ever seen call eating pussy degrading were here on 4chan. Make of that what you will.
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