so im in little bit of a tight spot i used to date this girl

>>17455043
Just wanted to comment that that picture looks uncannily like my brother.

Is the kid really yours? Did you do a paternity test?

Also, you really should get a lawyer.

>>17455067
did your brother knock up some fat ugly bitch a year ago?

>>17455079
he looks a lot like me. and i mean a LOT

i didnt do it at the hospital cause i didnt want to get my name on the certificate. without my name on that thing i have my freedom.. but she can just take away my kid whenever she feels like. i know there a chance he might not be my kid but even my mom says the little guy looks just like me when i was a baby

i want to get a lawyer but itll take a while as i get the cash together. the part i hate is in the mean time while im not seeing him hes doing things like crawling and eventually walking. he just said his first word the other day. it was cat.. im gunna miss all his little baby achievements and i hate it

>>17455080
I think it was more like 6 years ago by now. And two bitches, not just one. Of course, I haven't seen him in a while so he could be on his third kid for all I know.

>>17455043
This isn't a nice reply but.....

Stop setting yourself up to be under the fat bitch's power. Step back, enjoy life with the new GF and let the fat bitch deal with the kid.

Soon she will reach out to you to try and draw you back under her control. Ignore her completely, never respond. Not until you're ready to on your terms.

The kid doesn't know anything so nothing you do now will have an impact. So now is the time to sort out the power struggle.

Let the fat bitch see the bracelet and the hickeys. Let her know you don't really give a shit about her or the brat and that you don't care to hear from her or about any issues she or the kid have. If it's sick, it's her problem. Be firm. Don't yield.

You want her to be grateful you want to involved. At the moment she assuming she has the power because you have to be involved and you have no choice. You need to fix that assumption.

The kid will survive even if u just withdraw completely. Just make your child support payments and enjoy your life, fat bitch and brat free.

>>17455106
From a guy who's been in a similar situation, this is good advice.

Attempt to see kid, record everything for when he grows up.

>>17455106
>>17455148
Yeah just evade responsibility for your biological child because that would be the alpha thing to do.

You came in a chick, yeah she lied but YOU fucked her, retard.

>>17455043
M8, as long as you continue to let her have power over you, she's winning. Don't compromise. The kid can wait. It sounds harsh, but it's better this way. Do you want to live under her thumb till that kids 18? Do you think the kid will respect you that way? Show up with more hickeys, tell her you got a stunning new girl, rub it in her face. Gather evidence, take her to court later. Don't cut off your new fucking bracelet man. Don't be a bitch