Just had sex for the first time this last week. Have done it again since then. I came to realize I cannot maintain an erection for the life of me if I have to use my legs or hips at all. I never noticed this before because I always fap sitting down. Then it starts getting in my head and even if I lay down I cannot get it up. This is super embarrassing, how do I fix it? I've started fapping standing up instead and have stopped watching any porn at all, but it's only been 3 days and even if it does work it seems like a long term fix. What's a short term fix? Like, I can't do anything but be on bottom, a glorified dildo, right now.
>>17446593
Are you a fat piece of shit?
its pretty standard to lose your erection at the start. just keep at it
>>17446600
no, but I used to be, i've been going to the gym religiously for the past 2 years now, though I have neglected cardio quite a bit.
>>17446609
Even at home alone though, I don't really have a problem getting hard while standing, but if I start thrusting or walking or something, it goes away in an instant.
>>17446593
This happened to me my first time, thought it would go away. It didn't
After 500 fucks with my gf, i realized it's not a performance anxiety thing, its a depression thing. So i got my doc to get me some viagra, And it helped a little bit, not alot but enough.
>>17446620
To add: The viagras just for them, to me sex is for the girl, I can jerk off and get the job done way faster and way easier and less messy.
>>17446612
Probably get into the cardio then. If your heart is going like the clappers, your body will direct blood to the bits that need it most, and that isn't your dick. You're probably also just a bit anxious, you'll be right.
>>17446624
>>17446620
why would depression make me lose an erection only when i thrust or move my legs?