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How do i get over this anxiety about going into a store for an

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How do i get over this anxiety about going into a store for an application process and/or just a quick meet up to put a face to a name. My living condition is dependent on me getting a job within the next two weeks otherwise I'm homeless. Yet I am frequently imagining and re-imagining scenarios of my self fucking up because I get extremely nervous and have an immense fear of failure that came from my childhood. Even on the phone when I ask for the manager to ask them if they had seen my application and to set up a interview time I fuck up and hesitate when I speak, I say uh a lot, I sound extremely nervous, I forget to ask questions (that are important) and just generally do horrible. This is a serious problem and i need help badly but i can't access professional help.
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Yep it sucks, but you simply have to do it. There is no alternative.
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>>17396313
Gotta practice, luckily you have a nice looming deadline. That's usually pretty motivating. Just go out and apply everywhere, fuck up a few times and realize that nothing irreversibly terrible happened. The alternative is that you're out on the street possibly getting that tight asshole pounded.
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The more you expose yourself to this situation the easier it will be.
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>>17396313
Imagine and reimagine scenarios where things go well.
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What is a bigger failure, losing your home and living on the streets, or messing up a job interview for a job you will eventually quit?
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Wear clothing that makes you feel confident. Speak slowly but firmly. Google some approaches for requesting job applications in person. Fake it til you make it.
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