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Hey /adv/ I need some advice about Asperger's. I know a

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Hey /adv/ I need some advice about Asperger's. I know a lot of people in 4chan have it and I'm really struggling with it, I depressed a lot, when I end up trying to do someting I just give up becouse I make it worse for myself. I have only 1-2 real friends who might have it to since they have a hard time socializing to and I have no useful skills besides knowing a lot of history, and I was never able to fit in with any group really. So I'm 18 years old and I decided to join the army and about ship off in less then 3 weeks. Any advice to give would really appreciate it?
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>>17395809
Shameful selfbump.
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>>17395809

You really expect us to believe you got into the military?

Well, that aside, as an INTJ of long-standing and more spergy tendencies than is becoming of my station (read: grandpa) I would very strongly suggest that you not go in the military.

Have you ever met anyone in the military (outside of your recruiter, of course)? They are by and large absolute idiots; they aren't joining because they're turning down a scholarship. They want the immediate authority it will give them, will do the absolute minimum, and create such a cesspool of mediocrity that China will have no problem taking us over.

Come on. If you're a real aspie you will never survive. There have to be alternatives for you.
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>>17395859
I did get in the military and am about to ship off literally less then 3 weeks. I did it because I didn't know what to do with my life after I was done with high school and I cant take it living with my parents. But your right it really isn't the place for me but its to late now I made the decision back in April.
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I probably have aspergers aswell.

havent been to the draft but think in hindsight I might have liked it, because of clear instructions and getting used to be disciplined.

depression is just a matter of thinking negative vs thinking positive. e.g. you can think like
> I have only 2 friends, I suck at friendship
or you can look at it from the positive perspective.
> i have some great friends and am lucky, there are people out there with no real good friends at all.

Same with aspergers, you can see it as a hinderance, or you can see the strength.
> you will never make an impulse decission, that will ruin you
> you will never fall for cheap scams
> you will never fall for emotional advertising

economically, aspergers is the best thing you can do and for starting a family, you are trustworthy and always care for justice. That can make you very attractive for a group of solid quality girls. Even if you might struggle with women now.
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>>17396029
What's the difference between a sperg and a smart, awkward person?
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>>17396051
aspergers feel differently, where other people are reacting in an angry, happy or sad way. their feelings are more bland, like a soup and they can only say, the soup is hot, salty, sour.
Often they learn that people tend to be unpredictable.
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>>17396075
I was diagnosed but that doesn't sound like me at all
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>>17396075
I have asperger and that doesnt describe me or my problems at all...
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>>17396158
did you have any treatment and the diagnosis in your youth?
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>>17396051
The difference is that you dont necessarily need to be smart to have asperger.
Alot of people with asperger have a problem socialising with other people because of the fact that alot of stuff that is normal/common sense for alot of "normal" people needs to be learnt rather than it coming naturally. But then again, not all people with aspergers has the same problems. The list can be made longer aswell
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>>17396229
>The difference is that you dont necessarily need to be smart to have asperger.
I want to learn your style
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>>17396234
One of the criterias for asperger is that you need to have average or above average intelligence. Average intelligence doesnt mean that you're smart
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>>17396189
I was diagnosed at like 4, don't think I had any treatment for it.
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>>17396277
Kind of hard to get a treatment or any help for it. That's only my experience though (but I got diagnosed pretty late aswell, might have something to do with that)
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>>17396292
Above being socially awkward and talented academically, it doesn't seem like a disability. Think it's just to marginalize nerds to help keep smart people out the gene pool by making them stay virgins. Fuck big government.
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>>17395959
You can drop out of the military, up to the day of shipping. You are still a civilian. I am in the same boat as you, except I am going into the Navy to be a nuclear technician. My parents make me feel awful, and I have no money for college. I don't ship for several months, though.
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>>17396320
Idk, it can become really difficult to not see If the persone you're talking to is getting annoyed at you or not, and If you should carry on talking or to stop. Or to not be able to handle stuff that people in your age should be able to handle (school is a problem for me).
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