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Okay so I've been dating this girl for about 6 months now and very thing is going great. We both lost our virgininty to eachother a month into it, and we both have voiced and talked about how we've been in love since the first month or two. My only concern is she talks to other guys as friends she says. I've told her that I'm uncomfortable with it, and we've been in arguments because of it because she says there is no problem and she only wants and loves me. One of the guys she was talking to said in one of the texts "what happened to daddy?" Talking about himself. She told me they joke like that but I've told her it's really inappropriate to talk like that even as a joke when your in a relationship with another guy. So I'm just wondering do you think I have to worry about other guys and her? I mean she's told me I have nothing to worry about because she only wants me and only wants my body. What do you guys say? How can I get her to stop talking to her "guy friends"?
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Also she always has guys hitting on her on social media and she replies but she does not ever make a move herself in a way that would be flirty. She keeps telling me I'm being to insecure and jealous and that I shouldn't worry.
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>>17395412
Do you trust her?
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>>17395418
I do but it makes me extremely uncomfortable. I mean she even talks to one of her exes. But she told me she feels stronger about me than him and that no matter what she'd never get back with an ex
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>>17395422
I don't know this girl, you do. So this advice will be vague but I think necessary.

You trust her, so ignore it and if she continues bringing it up, don't flip out. Just ask her why, if you're her number one, she even bothers talking to them.

Let her know(true or not) you don't even entertain girls that flirt with you. For all we know, she could be insecure and finds your jealousy a comfortable reminder that you like her or a prompt for you to remind her more. I'd probably bet money on it being that because she's TELLING you, not keeping it secret.

If she does cuck you? Bite down on that stick for emotional agony and leave her without a single sign of caring.

Anyway dude remember, we all want to know someone loves us. We're all afraid of losing that love. Some people express it in weird ways, no one is perfect. I personally wouldn't even think it'd be good if you outright asked her if she told you this because she felt you didn't love her enough(Blah blah, jealousy as proof, blah blah).
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>>17395444
I appreciate this man. I get really worried though because she's told me in the past if she would ever start having feelings for someone else for somereason that she'd end it with me before anything happens. I mean personally I think that'd be fucked up.
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>talked about how we've been in love since the first month or two
That's all the evidence I need to wager your relationship will crash and burn within the next 12 months. You're both in for a harsh dose of reality once the puppy-love stage passes.
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>>17395479
herein lies your problem OP. She is cultivating new guys and maintaining close friendships and the flirting crosses the lines sometimes and she doesn't want to stop. Instead of acting like a girl in a relationship she acts like she is single and guess what. One of these guys she will develop a crush on and she will not tell you right up till the time she bails. Nothing you can do to make her stop but ride it till it ends or get out now.
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>>17395488
My girlfriend and I were madly in love with eachother in the first months of our relationship and we're still going strong after 3 years.

Do you seriously believe successful relationships can't start with infatuation?
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>>17395518
occasionally but not usually
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