Hey guys this girl messed up :( a couple of months ago I was very over weight and I started dating a beautiful chubby chaser. She had long blonde hair,green eyes and tall she used to sleep over at my apartment and use my belly as her pillow. I decided I needed a change so I joined my works softball team,walked and cut out junk food and ended up losing a lot of weight. We use to fight about this constantly and she rarely slept over anymore. A couple of days ago she broke up with me because I wasn't the same size as I was. I really miss her so should I gain back the weight to win her back?
>can u get hotter women the way you are now ?
If yes ,screw her
If no ,back to fatty fat ,because she's the only woman you'll be getting while you're fat
Whereas now you can get more
>>17394323
No as you said she only loved your fat not you. She didn't love you she loved using your fat as a pillow
>>17394323
She wasn't really into you, more like she was just into you as a way to feel better about herself, like "I'm insecure over whether I am hot, but with this fat guy next to me, I feel so beautiful and above everyone else in comparison"
You don't need that kind of crazy people, you deserve better people and you will get better people, because the vast majority of hot chicks still like skinnier/fitter guys, plus you've already shown yourself to have a good personality as well, or at least through the trait of resilience (barely anyone fat ever has the determination to lose a significant amount of weight, sadly)
Clicked on this cause I love those cupcakes.