I'm in a pickle, how do you know if you are in love? I

Anyone? this is much harder than a simple forget about her etc.

>>17392993
Try to better yourself for her. Lift if you aren't already, try to get a better job of you can, etc. by the time you've completely bettered yourself, chances are better looking and overall better women are already in to you

>>17393264
Actual solid advice thanks.
Still feels weird having these feelings and not having anywhere for them to go.

>>17393270
Trust me man. Once you meet a special girl, you're gonna completely forget about that old girl.

>>17392993

>how do you know if you are in love?

You don't.

Love is taking a risk. Love is cutting yourself open and trusting the other person not to rip your guts out. Sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't.

Just remember that lifting and getting a better job isn't a substitute for a personality. If she's the kind of girl who suddenly becomes interested in you because your muscles and wallet are bigger she's a piece of shit.

>>17392993
>how do you know if you are in love

OP...take the time to watch this short clip.
It says a lot. Louie Depalma (Danny Devito) explains what love is. I've thought a lot about it over the years, and there is a lot of truth in it.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oaAA3PMLulk

The only thing really going for me is personality and I fall short in pretty much every other aspect.

>>17393418
All you really need is confidence....
A good sense of humor doesn't hurt