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My girlfriend is breaking my heart because she has such a bad

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My girlfriend is breaking my heart because she has such a bad self-esteem, mostly when it comes to her looks.
>a little chubby but working out,
> doesn't like her nose
> she mentioned being bullied by her own sister saying that "she's fat, ugly, etc", that's probably the cause

to me
>she's a pale girl
>beautiful green eyes
> i'd say she's 5/10 as she is and will totalement be 8 once she gets in shape (had major heath problems, got fat but I dated her despite that, and I subtlety implied working in the couple and she did, we're still in the first month of that tho

Anyway, she's feeling pretty good about herself and no matter what I say I can't help her while she is an amazing woman, not even talking about our relation, she's one of the top in college, she has a lot of talent, polyglot, etc.

How do I solve that esteem problem ?
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>>17391999
*she's not feeling pretty good
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Damaged goods, it's not going to get better.
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>>17392176
I don't think you right about that. We're not talking about a trauma, but a bad self-esteem...

I believe that might get better once she gets really fit, kek she might even dump me for a better alpha male.
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>>17391999

>thinking you can fix her

It really, really doesn't work this way. You will drive yourself and her crazy trying.

Why don't you look at why she's saying these things? You think it's "self esteem issues." Well, do you think she would say this to someone who she wanted to impress or had a crush on? Or even to a stranger in the street?

She's saying she feels like shit around you. You're not right for her. Leave now before you start having babies or something and saddle her with guilt because she didn't have the balls or self-awareness to break up with you when she could have.
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Exercise together and do fun stuff, she'll get over it and start feeling more confident, and it will pull you two together. Plus, she'll stop being a fatty.
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>>17392209

> Leave now before you start having babies or something

Wow wow slow down buddy it's a 7 months girlfriend

I have already made it clear to her that I am just playing around, I don't think of marriage and I don't believe in long relationships, I've told her about my ambitions in college and how I could probably leave her just to be alone and studying. She's okay with it, we're both focused on studies rather than being a cute new couple. We're enjoying our love life while not being delusional about it, although now it's become quite serious I'm getting in love with the girl (believe me, I weren't at first)

Do you really believe fixing someone is impossible ? I've already made her stop whining, make her talk to me when she's feeling bad, etc. I don't expect to change everything about her life, but if, as you are guessing, she likes me and thinks highly of me, well she will see that she needs to change to stay with me, and I'll be sure to cheer up her esteem and her morale.
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