Bit of background, I've mostly had good, long term relationships and now I'm in my late 20s, I'm looking to settle down for good.
The problem is that even though I'm in a relationship, I fall for women easily. Really easily. Basically if I get talking to a woman who:
- Seems sweet.
- Motherly/loves kids.
- Is sympathetic, has had issues in her past with parents/being cheated on/psychological issues etc.
- Loves romance.
- Is white (I'm white).
Then I basically fall head over heels for her and end up dating her, even if I also have something going on with another girl at the same time.
Understand I don't do this out of malice. I love and adore women. I love them so much I can't stand the thought of a girl I grow attached to being unhappy, so I end up in these predicaments.
How do I stop myself doing this?
I'd prefer suggestions from femanons.
There's nothing you really can do, it's just how you're wired. If you truly want to settle down and be monogamous you have to put in the effort to stay faithful. If you can't handle this I suggest you wait until you're older and your hormones settle down.
You don't love women at all lol
>>17390470
You have a love fetish. It's a thing, I have it too
>asking women for advice about women
Hahahaha this dude. It's like asking flowers how to be a better gardener
You need to realise that there are different kinds of love. Would you settle down and have kids with all of these women?
>>17390470
What you need, OP, are some gurl friends. Two words, mibd: I'm talking about women you aren't interested in romantically, but still gebuinely ebjoy hanging around. Your gf may be able to introduce you to some.
The reason for this is that you don't have experience seeing women as anything other than close relatives or potential mates. So when a woman who isn't related by blood acts nice, you fall for her, because according to this duality, that is what you're supposed to do. The problem is that the duality itself doesn't reflect reality. I can tell you there are other ways to interact with women, but really, you need to experience it for yourself. Once you've gotten the hang of it, that should fix your problem.
grade a bullshit
stop playing you stupid muppet