I have a colleague at university, with whom I have a common friend (guy) I hang out with often. He´s pretty much my only friend there but the guy I´m talking about is really popular and outgoing.
So the thing is, we can talk for hours on the internet, about anything really. Have a lively, fun conversation, even slightly kinky at times, crack jokes within reasonable limits and then the next day, when we meet face to face at a course, he doesn´t even look at me and barely mumbles a ´hello´. Mostly talks with our common friend and then ignores me the rest of the day. And then this shit repeats itself.
I´m not interested in this guy, but his behavior is confusing. Does he like me in the slightest but is shy (he´s NOT a shy guy, generally) or is indifferent and just wastes his time away with random conversations online but doesn´t bother afterwards???
Considering the context of your conversations (I can relate with the kinky situation) this may seem awkward to him as you guys aren't established in any sort of relationship. Is he like this with anyone else?
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I really don't know what he talks about with others but he seems okay with them. Isn't it more awkward acting like this I mean I don't pretend to be super close and talk about the same shit, but not even looking me in the eye and barely addressing me a word is odd and it makes it awkward for me as well cause I feel out of place and stupid
Why not ask him about it online where he seems more comfortable?