I'm with a girl, we have been dating for a month or so. We have know each other for years and we have some kind of history together.
I know she loves me, and I love her. But I also know that she also likes someone else, and they kissed a few days ago. She didn't tell me anything about it, either because she doesn't want to hurt me or doesn't want me to leave her, I don't know.
Supossing I want to get somewhere with her, should I confront her about this or should I keep somewhat quiet but do my best to outclass the other guy in all ways possible?
I think I can do that. The idea that she leaves me for him its really hurting me, and the fact that she did that too. But if I can endure this pain and do this, then the reward will be much better. I'm not very.optimistic though
Maybe I should probably just leave her, but man.. This is rough
What should I do? Keep in mind that my objective is to win her over this other guy
>>17384685
>dating
>she kissed another guy
its over faglord, dump her
She has no respect for you
She cheated on you
Its over, youre the safe option. She doesn't respect you
>>17384724
We are not really dating. But when you know that someone loves you and would be hurt if you were to be with someone else, then you know what your responsabilities are if you keep going with the relationship. She even told me that she would be really hurt if I were to be with anyone else, and I believe her, and I know she loves me to an extent.
But if she can't make up her fucking mind, then fuck her. What bothers me is I can't stand the fact that she is probably just going to go with that guy after I dump her. But anyways, my love tends to fade quite quickly when someone pulls shit like this, so I hope it will just be a bitter reminder of who she is, and that's it.
I knew what to do, it's just that it's better to see that somone else would do the same.
I'm still open to what other my say in this thread though. But I'm pretty sure I'm just going to dump her today or the day after
>>17384772
dont pussy out
shes pretty much has u and another man side by side trying to decide.
She kissed him, and still tries to maintain a relationship with you. No.
Dump her ass like the bitch she is.
If she cant decide to be with you she doesn't really love you. What will happen is shell figure out that a relationship with this other guy wont work so shell have you on the backburner. Youre the failsafe.
fuck this bitch and make her watch as you go ballsdeep in another
Have a heart-to-heart about why she'd kiss the other guy when you're getting along so great. Depending on the outcome, mend your relationship or proceed with dumping.