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Being ghosted

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>3 years ago, girl adds me on facebook and starts to chat with me
>we get close and become pretty good friends, at least as far you can go while being online
>We weren't in love or anything, just 2 good friends that talked with each other a lot.
>We met here and there, but not often, because we live apart from each other
>A year ago she stops responding to my messages, and cuts all contact with me, not sure why since I we didn't fight nor did I piss her or something. She just ghosted me.

TL;DR: A girl I've known online for quite some time ghosted me, and my question is how do I deal with it? She never told me why, and I tried to ask her a couple of times, but she didn't respond. I thought we were good friends and it actually still hurts me that she did that. I've tried to move on, but I'm still asking myself a year later why did she do that. Help would be nice.
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she's dead
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It stings to feel that insignificant when it comes to someone you cared about. That's all there is to it. No response and zero closure is torture but you can only hold onto this for so long, bud. Plenty of people in the world are gonna beat you down so don't be so hard on yourself. An answer from her also won't change the fact that you're no longer wanted as a friend.

Friends come and go, so just treasure the ones that have stuck around. I've had plenty of people just 'poof' out of my life and act like I stopped existing. It stings, but keep your chin up. Platonic relationships between men and women can be difficult to maintain, too. Wrong signals, relationships, etc., so don't take this occurrence that harshly.
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>>17383650
She's not, but might as well be to me.

>>17383657
I know it would be for the best that I just move on, and forget about her, and I really should, because it is the best to do in this kind of situation, but I just can't. That question has been on my mind for a long time, and I really need an answer to it no matter how unfulfilling it would be. But, I'll try to just move on, and continue my life without her, because she obviously isn't worth a bother. I appreciate the help.
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