So there's someone I'm into. We're pretty close, we're good friends, we're fuckbuddies, etc. He sleeps with other people a little though, and I don't.
I think tonight he might be sleeping with someone else. I was feeling lonely, and I texted him a little in the evening saying that and wondering if he wanted to spend time together tomorrow.
I feel like I'm pretty self conscious and maybe kind of obsessive about being a straight up dude, so I may be worrying too much, but is this sort of emotionally manipulative of me? Like I know there's a chance he's reading that message while he's with someone else at the moment, and I know that might damper the moment for him. And I don't really know for sure if that's what I want, or if I just am feeling lonely, probably at least a little of both, honestly.
bump dis
>>17380935
Did he reply back, and if yes, then what did he reply?
IMO you're taking this too seriously.
And, If you're into him and he's into you, take the next step.
Leave that bitchh
>>17381162
yeah, he did and it was pretty positive and normal, said hanging out tomorrow would be nice. I'm also not really sure he even was sleeping with anyone tonight, but he could be, who knows. I guess you're right, it's not really that important anyway.
I'd take the next step but I dunno. I remember him talking about the guy he actually was hanging out with today a month or so ago because the guy apparently posted something vague on facebook about how he was into someone but thought that person was into someone else. My friend interpreted that as about him (and the someone else maybe me, I guess). His feelings about it weren't really that he would want to date the guy or not, just that he really hopes it isn't about him so he isn't in that situation. It seems like he just still doesn't want to date anyone for now, just not deal with that shit for a while.