Hey guys, need an objective point of view on things..
Friend of mine is dating a girl for a little over a year now, and her and I have gotten very close over the last 8 months or so. We all hang out at least once a weekend, and get a long very well.
I am single, and the topic of me finding a girlfriend came up.. In the midst of the conversation, she said this to me:
"On another note & I hope this doesn't sound weird either or freak you out but I have to approach it. And please don't bring this conversation to Jack or any of our friends but I hope I'm not making it hard for you to find someone. Not really sure how to word it. I'm absolutely not saying that I'm like anything to rave home about but I feel like we have this interesting dynamic and I'm like sending you food and interested in doing all of the things as you guys do and you and I talk pretty often, and the fact that we're on this conversation I just wanted to mention it. I guess I'm saying if I'm making it at all hard for you to find someone I'm sorry. I might sound very crazy right now so don't hate me after this lol"
Is she implying that I am comparing other women to her and that they cannot possibly live up to her standards? Or is this a subtle way of coming on to me?
If you were me, would you tel my friend about this?
There are a few other suspect texts with the same tone that I can post if this thread takes off... Just wanted to hear everyone's opinion on the above
Thanks
Anyone?
Need some sort of objective view and I can't go to my real life buds with this
>>17371869
20 words or less
>>17371869
Neither. She is saying your interest in her is keeping you from finding someone despite an enjoyable chemistry youbboth share.
She is being sweet about it but from what you posted she is ssying " you are a good friend and I value our relationship but dont let that get in the way of you finding someone".
>>17371912
and I have gotten very close
OP she has no romantic interest in you and I'm sure yours in her is apparent. Not just to her but her bf, your friend. They both are giving you a gentle nudge. Back off boy