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Friendship is magic

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>be me
>F 20yr old

I started a friendship with a girl and she's really cool. I feel like I'm too boring for her. I'm not trying to change myself but I want to hang out with her more and develope our friendship. I haven't had a friend in a long time so, yea, I'm excited that she's in my life but I'm also completely clueless on how to have a friendship. When we're in person, things seem okay but our texting is dull and I feel like It's because I dont know how to text a friend.

I need advice on how to get past this early stage of our friendship and develope a deeper connection. I would love to have this girl in my life as a friend, or best friend for a long time.

Keep in mind I'm female and I'm not gay. I just havnt been in the friend fake for a few years. I don't want to come on as too strong but i also don't want to come off as boring or uninterested
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>>17367883
This is such a contextual issue lady. You know what your friends is like better than any of us could ever hope to guess. You have an infinitely better clue about how she will react to things and take certain advances in your friendship. Fucking Christ, what is wrong with people? Do you even think when posting or is this just for attention?
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>>17367883
Be yourself. Try to be a little more outgoing, ask interesting questions, keep conversation flow going, hang out together and to shit you both like. Don't drop your darkest secrets and lean fully on her yet, but if you just keep spending quality fellowship time together your conversations will occasionally become deeper until you get to that point. Once you're close, drop everything you need help with or are worried about on her (not all at once), there's no point in having a friend that you can only partially trust, or only trust to an extent. There's also no point in her being friends with a fake you.
Q: What do you find to be boring about yourself or the way you act, that she would become disinterested in a friendship with you?
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