Long story short: I want to break up with my girlfriend of four years. I really care about her and I'm very thankful for all the years we had, but I'm simply not attracted to her anymore and we have been fighting alot lately. We dont have sex anymore, mostly my fault, because she is really vanilla and dont want to try anything new, period. The huge problem is that we own an appartement together and share many many friends and have a good relationship to eachother parents and as I mentioned I do care alot about her and want everything good for her in the future..
TLDR: Should i break up with my GF or not?
Is vanilla sex the only issue you have with her?
>>17351288
> I'm simply not attracted to her
>she is really vanilla and dont want to try anything new
>I want to break up with my girlfriend
You tell us. You already answered your own question.
>>17351295
To be honest everything starts to bother me. Dont find her as pretty as before, she always complain about random shit and makes a big deal out of every insignificant little thing.
>>17351299
Fuck, i guess youre right..