I'm drunk and pretty dpressed, so sorry. A month ago I got

>>17311986
>At what point is it just unfair of me to not encourage him get the attention and affection he needs elsewhere, at least until I'm better?
Are you suggesting that you want your bf to cheat on you with another girl?
Guys, what do we call a reverse-cuck?

have you asked if it bothers him?

If you send him away you will lose him. If he didn't want to help you then he wouldn't. He cares about you and if you push him away while he is trying to care for you, it'll make him feel terrible. Stop feeling sorry for yourself.

You'll never forgive him if he does what you say.

>>17311986
Why the fuck don't they have you in physical therapy??? You need to take time to heal, but you won't ever get back to full force if you're not working at it.

>>17311996
She might not be able to afford it

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Sage it
Dumb bitch deserve to lose her bf

Have you been ordered not to have sex, or is it just painful?

>>17311996
I am working on it, andam in therapy. It's just taking a long time to get back again.
>>17312004
I cant do it. It's too painful.
>>17311988
I know hes struggling with at least certain parts of it. He's been putting his own life on hold to take care of me.

Don't send him away. You might think you are helping him, he will proably think he failed you and that you don't think he is worthy of you.
Go through this together.
Remember what he is doing for you, and do the same one day.

>>17312011
If hes putting himself on hold for you, in the future if he gets injured put your life on hold for him.
Thats all you can do.

>>17312017
I really hope we never have to go through this in revrse. This sucks, and I know it sucks for him too.

>>17312011
Well, if a doctor hasn't ordered you to not have sex, just have sex. Get a generous amount of lube and let him go to town, then take a bath and have some pain killers. When I was pregnant I had SPD and all kinds of pelvic and lower spine pain but I still grit my teeth and let my bf fuck me, and then after as soon as my stitches dissolved even though my vagina still hurt like hell.

Being a woman is pain. Don't send your man into the arms of another woman just because you're in pain. If it's that important that he has sex to you, then do it yourself. Just make sure your doctor is ok with you having sex first, because re-injuring yourself is out of the question.

>>17312029
Youre tougher than I am, and my guy is not willing to do things that hurt me. I've thought about it, but I'm a wimp, and he's unwilling.

>>17312064
Just keep doing what you can orally, sweetheart. He appreciates it, I promise. I felt the same way that you did but if your man is good all he wants is for you to get better.