>girlfriend stays up to 4 in the morning >wakes up at 2

Is your gf me? Just tell her to meet people on soc in different time zones.

>>17181337

She is a reclusive shut in. I tell her to try to make friends with people that are more on her schedule but she says "no I only want to be with you, why can't you change for me?"

>>17181333
Tell her to get a job or a hobby.
Stop ruining your life to please your girlfriend.

Your girlfriend is a piece of shit.

>>17181333
>Takes naps on a regular basis
Is your girlfriend five?

>>17181333
That's my boyfriend. At least he has the excuse that he works late and starts in the afternoon. And after work, he generally is not tired.

I stay up with him on the weekends, but on weekdays we've just worked out a schedule and after about 10pm he's on his own.

>>17181333
Screw your gf.
I work freelance and sleep around 4:00-12:00, say goodnight to my bf at midnight and let him go the fuck to sleep. We overlap with "us" time after his work and make dinner, watch shit, play games, etc. then go back to our own thing.
Being a shut-in is no excuse, either she can try taking melatonin and working on fitting her sleep schedule to yours (didn't work for me), or she can find some interests and leave you alone.

Don't stay up with her, stand your ground.

Grow a spine or get blackout curtains.

Do you not have jobs?