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Bare with me because this scenario has some fucking twists and turns. There is no tl;dr that does this justice, and if you're going with "who cares" as your position then remember that nobody has a gun to your head to force you to participate.

Green text makes parts of this more easily understood, but I'm going to have to break with green text in parts.

>Me, 25 y/o Male
>Went to college
>Working now at crummy part-time job while working on another degree
>Have coworker
>She tells me that she is 23
>Says that she's about to start work on her Masters degree and just finished her bachelors at a different college
>Okay
>We go on a few dates
>Decide to look her up online
>Turns out she was lying... about a LOT
>She has no real social media profiles
>BUT there is a youtube video putting her at MY college back when I was there during the semester, putting her age at more like 25 since she was a freshman where I was a freshman when I was a freshman
>Okay... weeeeiiiird
>[Break one]

There's more weirdness afoot, as apparently friends of mine were friends with her friends back then. A social media post mentions her by name, and she is discussed in the comments as having been a ghost. But here is the weird part: it would have been during my senior year at college, and she's discussed as not having been in the area for some time, which seems to indicate that she had fallen into a black hole as far as her friends were concerned. I repeat, for a period of about two years she was pretty much missing.

Now back to green text
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>She wasn't so social media shy it seems before this two year gap in spite of reasons to be
>Makes me think she's worried about something catching up with her
>She works the job we have together (we live an hour away from her college town) in order to maintain an apartment of her own
>She CAN live with her parents (who live in the town of the college she originally told me she was at) but chooses not to
>She spent two years at the college that she told me she was at, but only after that two year gap
>She has a fear of apps like snapchat when I bring up things like that
>She makes a point of playing very innocent when the topic of marijuana or drugs in general comes up, to the point where I took note of it, but she's brought up other people being stoners before
>She's now going to a very expensive college, but has to work for spending/living money to maintain her apartment, so daddy is paying for college barring a scholarship
>She has passed multiple background checks for employment purposes, so she must never have been convicted of anything criminal
>Indicates to me that she used to have trouble relating to the opposite sex without flirting
>Indicates that she was the wild child as the oldest sibling
>Claims to have spent a semester abroad to find herself

So I have a few hypothesis

1. She ran off with some dude who was an asshole and eventually came back. Doesn't quite explain the shame though.
2. She was a stripper or something to that effect and ran off to do that. Explains why she'd be scared of someone tracking her down from those days, maybe she did porn.
3. She went into a drug black hole, but that doesn't explain the lack of social media.
4. Maybe she just fucked up at school, but that doesn't explain the social media blackout or the seeming shame.

So of my four hypotheses the sex worker one holds the most water. What do you think?
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>>17168851
boring
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>>17168851
She wants your dick.
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>>17168863
Why don't you just ask her?
Its not hard.
The past is the past and she might have made a mistake, if you like her get over it and see her for who she is now, and just give her the benefit of the doubt.
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>>17168863
>>17168851

And this is important... why?
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>>17168869

I already knew that.

>>17168872

Because I'd like to walk into that conversation with some idea of what's coming so I don't appear shocked.

>>17168874

>and if you're going with "who cares" as your position then remember that nobody has a gun to your head to force you to participate.
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>>17168877

So you want to know about her past without asking her about her past so you won't be shocked if it's shocking.

.........wut.

This doesn't make any sense. Plus, lots of people have stuff that happens that they're not necessarily happy about or want to share. I went through a long period of being in a social black hole due to having no money and living in a small town. Shit happens. The fact that you're investigating it on the side instead of trying to ask her to tell you is shadier than her past. You're being weird.
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It's fascinating that other people even take such a stalky interest in the lives of those around them.
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Hidden pregnancy?
It's pretty easy to hide doing sex work or porn on social media, baby bump not so much
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>>17168890

Investigating why someone lied about their age and made two years of their lives disappear is weird when you're dating them?
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>>17168895

That would account for one year, but not two. Not neatly anyway.
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>>17168896

Not asking her is the weird part.
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>>17168896
>go on a few dates

Bro you guys aren't exclusive.They were casual dates even if sex was involved. And if she was lying to you then you guys totally aren't going to make it. Trust is the most important thing in a relationship and she's already broken it. You need to turn off Stalker Mode too. All this shit is pretty creepy and borderline psycho shit. If it turns out she's not lying to you then you've broken the trust aspect of a relationship because you did all this stalker shit thinking she lied to.

Advice: Leave it alone. Drop her and find someone else. There is no; try an make it work with her because you've already crossed so many lines by going this far into the deep end trying to dissect her past.
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>>17168918
/thread
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>>17168907
>>17168918

I initially looked her up on social media because I wanted to friend her. The weird shit came from pulling the thread at that point.

>stalker mode

It's like you don't fucking bother to know who you associate with.
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>>17168981
>It's like you don't fucking bother to know who you associate with.

Bro, this is straight up denial to try and make it seem like what you're doing is okay. Don't get defensive about it, stalker.

Yeah you can friend someone on social media, and hell even go back and look at their profile history. But all this shit you have told us and the way you seem to be dealing with it is totally not normal.
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>>17168996

Some habits are hard to break m8.
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>TL;DR version some weird bitch is a fraud and op is a dumbass dealing with a nut job while nobody cares because there is no mystery

Op is addicted to edgy 4chan stuff and can no longer tell the difference between normal people and retarded people
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huh
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