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> new guy coworker mentions he knows jiujitsu > say it

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> new guy coworker mentions he knows jiujitsu
> say it was a childhood dream
> guy coworker invites me for free one on one lessons after work hours.

Wanna say yes cos I want to learn, but with it being a contact sport and done privately,
I find the invite awkward. I also have a boyfriend who may get jealous.

Should I say yes or no? If no, how do I turn him down without making it look like I'm being presumptuous?
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>>17166908
Did he know you have a boyfriend before he offered? If he did and offered anyway, I would say it's ok. Ask your boyfriend for permission, obviously.
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You're a femanon? That's a really awkward thing to offer unless he's a professional instructor or someone you've known for a long time and are very comfortable with. For a practical stranger to offer an hours worth of amateur close contact sport as a way of getting to know you is inappropriate.

If you want to learn find a place that teaches it, not some random guy. And you turn him down by telling him no thanks
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He knows Ive a bf. He plays this nice guy,friendly card to everyone in the office from the ceo to the janitor. But then he wouldn't hesitate throwing a kinky sex joke that can get a little uncomfortable and TMI sometimes. I'm torn between trusting this dude as an innocent nice guy or be wary cos he could be a sly sexual predator in hiding
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>>17166946
If you're uncomfortable with his jokes how do you think you'll feel with him grabbing and feeling you up for an hour?

If your only goal is to learn a martial art I'm sure there are other, more professional options.
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>>17166908
this is incredibly obvious come on.

This is like that one anon that complained about giving a man, who has admitted he liked her and obviously still had feelings for her, mixed signals while they "jokingly" wrestled.

Just don't do it. For fuck's sake.
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Are you really this daft? Learn from someone who's actually qualified to teach, not someone who just wants to play grabass.
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>>17166958
>>17166958
>>17166958


This. The fact that you arent put off by obvious signals
>>17166946
>he wouldn't hesitate throwing a kinky sex joke

Indicates you probably are attracted to him at some level.

Are you that fucking dedicated to learning jiujitsu that you have to go over a coworkers house?

Be honest with yourself here..
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>>17166908
A guy wouldn't go out of his way to invest time in a girl he didn't like. If you wanna know if he's flirting ask yourself whether he would do this for you if you were a male coworker?
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Its threads like these that make me hesitate from getting a girlfriend again. The way some women are truely so naive about what is appropriate when in a relationship.

> I also have a boyfriend who may get jealous

Really? Your boyfriend might get jealous that you're rolling around on the floor with some dude you work with at his house? No fucking way???
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Ok. I'll get honest. I'm male. He has a gf too but I think he might be bi.
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