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Recently I realized something. I have no ambitions or achievable

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Recently I realized something.

I have no ambitions or achievable dreams.

I just feel uncomfortable with what I'm doing, but if someone told me "well, do only what you want to do!" I would be confused.

I just don't feel any drive inside to do stuff any stuff. I don't have any hobbies, I just want people to think "wow, anon is so smart, handsome and funny!".

I lost my virginity only because I don't want to be seen as a loser. And I go to clubs almost everyday to get laid and be able to say "well, I fucked a lot of women in my life".

The thing that motivates me the most is seeing someone "cool". For example watching a movie with a big masculine dude as the protagonist or watching a harem anime.

My biggest dream is being famous. I'd literally become a Hitler of the 21st century to be a historical character.
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>>17164696

If that is your biggest dream then get off your ass.
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>>17164702
That's the problem.

There's nothing that interests me. I just want people to remember me and my name. I'd say personality, but it's a persona at this point.

I'd have to work my ass off to be famous for something I don't care about.

I came here for advice how to recreate my personality,
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Welcome to the existential malaise of the lost generation.

You're not even close to alone.

Enjoy.
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>>17164763

Bullshit, the guy just needs to get off 4chan and make something of his life
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>>17164696
Why don't you try joining the porn industry ?
You could be the guy who fucks every girl, like that bald dude, and people would remember you for that.
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>>17164773
I'll be honest.

I thought about it and I'm not sure if I'd feel comfortable showing my body to everyone in this world.

Also how could I join it? Are there any requirements?

>>17164767
Well the problem is that I'm desperately trying to make something of my life but not because I want to but because the society forces me to do this stuff

I found out that "being successful" isn't satisfying.
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>>17164696
OP thats exactly the way I feel.
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>>17164795

Please.. Pulling the victim card and blaming society is the excuse of a coward. So am I supposed to feel bad for you because of... society?

No one is forcing you to do anything, the choice is yours to make.

The key to success is to stop pointing fingers blaming society for your own grievances. Life is tough and nothing comes for free, especially not success, as soon as you learn that the better.
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>>17164878

Edit: If you want to live on the streets? Go do that, no one really gives a shit either.
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>>17164878
I'm not trying to say that it's society's fault.

I just didn't want to say "I'm a special snowflake".

I'm so fucking bitter because since I was born I was promised that finding a girlfriend and a good job will make me feel satisfied. You know what I'm talking about.

>the key to success
What success?
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>>17164909

Success is when you excel at something. It is a subjective value, you've been taught that a measurement of success is finding a girlfriend and a good job.

There is a grain of truth in that, being able to pay your bills and avoid sleepless nights is obviously something to strive for. Having a significant other in your life is also something to strive for. Is that the epitome of success? - No, it depends on who you ask.

Girlfriends and jobs are not static entities, you advance through jobs.

Figure out what you want OP, nobody else knows that but you. The passion and drive comes from knowing what you want, or at least have an idea about it and then take the small manageable steps and work towards it.

Want to work in a certain industry? Take the necessary classes and jobs to build towards that. Want a specific job in a specific industry? Start zooming in one somebody currently holding a position that you'd like (LinkedIn is a great tool in this sense, and people are very keen to help you out).

You're currently in crisis because you don't know what you want, and you've probably been floating through life doing what was somewhat expected of you yet without being obligated to whatever you have been doing.

I am sorry for the outburst but people blaming their own existential crisis on society is just.. Pathetic.
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>>17164932
>Having a significant other in your life is also something to strive for.

I wouldn't call her a "significant other". I hate calling women like that but she's just a cumdump. I don't love her, I have her because I don't want to look like a lonely loser.

>Want to work in a certain industry?

I want to have cash, I don't care about my work.

>You're currently in crisis because you don't know what you want, and you've probably been floating through life doing what was somewhat expected of you yet without being obligated to whatever you have been doing.

That's what I'm talking about. I was doing what was expected of me and I'm not satisfied, and that's why I blame the society.

And yeah, it's pathetic. Just as pathetic as losing personality.
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>>17164955

There is a vast difference between doing what is expected of you and making bank. Personal drive is the key here. I understand that you want cash, but if you're in a field you don't care about the chances of you making bank is quite limited.

Through my jobs I've talked to alot of different people from all layers of life and believe me, you do not want to spend the rest of your life going to work when you don't care about it.

The only one to blame for the fact that you are not satisfied with where you are is yourself. The sooner you get over that the better. But let me ask you this then, what are you going to do? Spend the rest of your life being dissatisfied?
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>>17164987
That's why I came here. To ask for advice, I want to be satisfied. I want to go to sleep without bitter taste in my mouth.
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>>17164696
So you want to be remembered?
Then why don't you do something that will be remembered.

Being your average frat boy isn't memorable.

Shooting up a school is, but not for long.
And you are hated for it. And dead.

Better raise money to build a well in an African village. Then fly over, build it, and send the pics to your local newspaper.
Organize a conference on inter-religious tolerance. Invite speakers of major and minor religions ... and the press.
Make a kickstarter on how women live in Kurdistan now that it is freed from Isis. Fly over and interview them ... of course having urself always in the picture.

etc.

Goddammit - be a bit creative anon.
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>>17165003

Then take some personal responsibility and figure out where you want to go in life. It sounds like you're young, so there's still plenty of time to figure it out.
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I feel you, OP. I do stuff hoping that something will eventually click and it just hasn't. I keep having to move the bar: I'm only a teenager, I'm only still in college, I'm still in my twenties, etc. Hang in there OP. Having the realization that you're unfulfilled is already a good sign, we'll find what to do with ourselves if we just keep trying.

>tfw the only thing that I truly enjoy is escapism
>feels bad man
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>>17165005
>>17165008
>>17165011
Thank you anons.

Well, I'll try to do something. Maybe moving out of my shitty country is the first step to change my life.
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>>17165026
In what country do you live?
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>>17165065
Poland.
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>>17165078
Even better then. You can something similar to the well thing in your country then, OP. (Found a orphanage perhaps?)

As well, how about making it a trans-european tolerance thing instead of a religious only (German guy here - and thinking the later would be difficult in catholic poland).
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>>17164696
When people asked you as a kid what you wanted to be when you grow up what was your answer?

I was thinking the other day that i wanted to work for NASA when I was a kid, I sure let that one fall by the wayside.
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>>17165150

I wanted to be a space shuttle pilot, now I am in Big Data Analytics
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>>17165150
This guy isn't me >>17165173

I wanted to be a programmer. And I am a programmer.
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>>17165026
I'm completely the same as you, except I don't really care for fame. My life just exists of trying avoiding inconveniences. I've also recently gotten into drugs and i fear that may just worsen the matter. It doesn't help that all my friends either fully indulge in it or go full social servant.
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>>17164878
>libertarianism
nice meme retard
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>>17165964
>being accountable for your actions is libertarianism

i can almost guarantee you're very overweight or transgendered or something
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Define "famous" you insufferable twat. Do you want to be world wide famous? Famous within a certain field of work? Famous withing a group of people? What the fuck do you even mean by famous?

Protip: just about every human on earth has no idea what they're doing and wants their name to live on forever. You aren't special.
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