I'm starting to worry about my standards... like im now

>>17164341
Everything you mentioned in physical. That is your problem. Your personality probably blows dicks. Girls care far more about how you speak to them than what you look like. The sooner you stop thinking girls are like you, and are looking for similar traits that men look for in women, the sooner you can start to realize the things they want out of a guy.

>>1716435
So girls are after intelligence over looks? Like I'm pretty retarded but no go fuck you're self.

Also I keep hearing my personality sucks from people here so let me elaborate, I usually let people walk all over me and am not a yes man but keep my mouth shut and try to see other peoples point of views, now I don't think Im entitled to anything for being a straight edge cunt and being positive to everyone around me, I believe I should atleast beable to pick and choose when it comes to the other gender to a degree, but its getting thrown out the door because im becoming desperate. And you cant just switch that off. Is there anything I should change about my personality?

>>17164375
Nope not intelligence you god damn fool. about charisma, personality confidence security etc~

>>17164379
How can I have either of those things when statistically Im already doing badly? So Im just fucked then. Good atleast now I know.

When it comes to sex I literally have no standards other than no obese girls and no single moms. If I have to go to a place where I might run into acquaintances I don't go with uggos though.

For relationships idk I don't really care for them anymore but the standards would be impossibly high.

>>17164375
For example, if you're like 10/10, but a clingy, whiny, dependent baby, after they get some dick or get to know you they won't find you attractive anyway

>>17164389
10/10 guy after a 5/10 girl

Wow this ottermode is to clingy, needy dependant baby. You idiot i guarantee in that instance they will use different adjective that describe the same behaviour.

>>17164357
>Girls care far more about how you speak to them than what you look like.
I hate this feel good bullshit. Looks matter a lot. Personality matters too. Who cares more about what depends on the girl, but to come straight up and say personality matters more than looks is straight up bullshit. That good looking guys can get away with literally anything on Tinder is a fact and that average or worse looking guys will not even get a chance to speak up there is as well. While Tinder probably is an extreme example, it's unlikely that it works the completely opposite irl.

That being said there are people who are ugly and have a shit personality and still manage to get laid and married.

>>17164357
Not op but

>told all the time I'm charismatic and really good at talking to people
>Make tinder because no gf
>Not a single match over a couple days
>/Adv/ says I'm ugly

Its physical

God is dead

>>17164448
Am op and its fucked up man I im sorry, you're probably not unattractive, but you need to be a god on tinder I think.

Girls are held to such high standers am i right? So essy for a man to judge them... brave new world.

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>>17164455
You tell me famalam

>>17164461
Get to work on the acne, get a decent hair cut and lose weight. You look 16. You'll be attractive someday, but you're going through your babyfat face phase that most white dudes go through. To combat that, you have to really cut weight. Your face will be the last place to slim down. But that's what cutting and lifting are for.

>>17164469
Yeah working on the acne

Im 18

I used to be like 150 but I started working out and now I'm like 200

I never found my weight that big of a problem, besides a huge ass. I'm more built and stocky I guess. I dont know. Is 200 lbs really that bad?

>>17164481
Don't care about the numbers, bro. Your face is fat. To get rid of that, you have to cut weight. A lot of it. Or you can deal with it and wait the 5 or so years it will take to grow out of your "babyface." That's just how it is. It takes pudgy face young white males a lot longer to physically mature than it does for young white girls, or young guys of some other races.

>>17164485
Fuck man

This shits jokes, even 50 pounds ago I had a pudgy fucking face. I don't know, I feel like I should atop worrying about a gf and do me, focus on shit I wanna do. But the feel of no gf is strong in me. I only eat one meal a day and it's usually fast food because im so tired from work I just want to eat then sleep


Fuck this gay earth

>>17164498
The fast food thing isn't helping your acne, btw. You need to eat regularly and eat clean. Prioritize your time better. You could be off 4chan right now, preparing healthy meals for the next few days.

Less complaining, more doing. And yes, focus entirely on your own improvement. Girls come later. Girls your age are garbage wastes of time anyway.

>>17164498
I better hair cut would probably make your face look slimmer. Grow your bangs/middle out and keep sides shorter and just style the longer portion with gel. You probably don't need to cut "a lot".. Maybe just cut back on nutrition-less snacks (which will help with acne as well), more proteins/veggies/fiber. Also just jogging and running can do wonders and a little weight work will help your figure. 200 isn't super heavy unless you're a total Manlet. Just tone up and eat a little better and fix the hair man you have a nice face

>>17164505
I know but I'm a handholdless kissless virgin

Also bad acne runs in family, I need some acne shit for my face

I dunno I'm not really upset about my weight but adv says lose weight. God fucking damn it fuck all this shit man.

>>17164522
But I love my Wendy's its the only part of the day I enjoy ;-;

>>17164523
You're not disgustingly obese and in dyer need to lose weight. Literally just tone up a little, eat a little better and drink more water. Even just taking long walks with music or a podcast, and cutting back on fast food. Even if acne runs in your family, oily fast food and shit tier snacks are shit for your skin. Literally 6 glasses of wawa and I good facial scrub/overnight cream will do wonders. I have genetic acne too and it helped heaps

>>17164524
Wendy's has some "healthier" options, but the issue isn't even the calories so much as the low quality and over processed aspect. Try to get a fish samwhich, wrap, burger with extra veggies and no cheese, salads, grilled meats, water instead of pop. I love me some BK and Taco Bell, but I don't eat it every day and make sure to cook myself something cheap and healthy.
Also the idea that "eating healthy" requires a 1200 calorie diet and zero fat is bullshit. Just try to cook your own stuff with natural oils, whole wheat products, and some vegetables a few times a week

>>17164529
I do mostly drink water and seltzer water which is pretty much water with carbonation, so ive got you already on that one

>>17164541
Carbs are the enemy man. It's sad the highlight of my life involves eating fast food, which goes back to the self improvement thing and shit.

>>17164551
Carbs ar necessary, but French fries, white bread, and frying batter are the worst kind and have no nutritional value. Get a sandwich with whole grain bread, make spaghetti with high protein noodles, baked potato without cheese and light butter, homemade pizza, fruit juices ect. And again, I'm not saying never eat fast food, indulge a couple times a week, but make up for it with better stuff too

>>17164567
Like I said dude Im so tired coming home I just wanna eat and sleep, I don't wanna make food.

I know you're right but my faggot job just drains me

Self esteem isnt gauged by how much weight you cut or what haircut you have. Its all in your head. Fuck the guy teling you to lift, lifters have the lowest self estems ive ever seen besides women.

Guys spend all day at the gym drinking disgusting shakes and pre work outs while looking at themselves in the mirrors surrounding the place, while im a fat beer drinker who got a hotter gf than them.

>>17164637
I do need to get a little better in shape because I've got the stamina of a sloth even though I do a decent amount of cardio

>>17164770
I think my meds do it because they kill my energy but I get way too energetic and shit when I don't take them

>>17164341
if youre telling a girl i know other dudes talk to you and youre not really busy, most likely will not like you anymore and view you as insecure. everyones lives are different.

>>17164341

i had that problem on a sex level but realized porn is better than an ugly c hick.

i think its better to be alone than with someone you arent that into. took me awhile but i was able to make my life actually enjoyable by myself.

>>17164375
no one likes someone that agrees with them all the time or disagree with them all the time, thats why they say be your self.

>>17164837
Good job man. Convince people not to work out. Fight the good fight.