Suicidal gf + distance

>>17153639
This is not "anxiety" or "depression".
It's likely BPD instead (borderline personality disorder).
She's abusing you and you need to break it off for your health and sanity.

Tell her parents that she is suicidal.

She is not making your life any better and unfortunately for her, the dice she was given weren't the best.

She may have a psychological/emotional imbalance.

It's not her fault. Or, maybe she just wants to make your life miserable. You really need to sit down and talk to her and be honest and don't hold anything back. Speak your mind and tell her to speak hers honestly. If she gets mad, you need to leave. You tried your best. But, in the end. It's your life.

>>17153653
Yes, I do think she is bipolar. Actually, she even told me she believes she is.

>>17153655
I thought about talking to her parents. But she keeps telling me that if I do, she is going to leave me/suicide. But at the same time, I know her problem is partly linked to her childhood, so I do not think that she will be honest with her parents. Actually, they seem not to care much about her.

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>>17153671
not bipolar, BPD as in Borderline Personality Disorder.
It also comes with mood swings, but with a lot of other things too (which she obviously has).
BPD is much worse for you than bipolar, depression, anxiety, etc, because it gives her the tendency to emotionally abuse and manipulate you, such as you said here >>17153675
>I thought about talking to her parents. But she keeps telling me that if I do, she is going to leave me/suicide.

It requires very extensive therapy and the will to change. If she doesn't want to change, better get out before it gets worse.

>>17153744
Ok I get it. I'm going to take a look at this disorder...
You advice me to get out before it gets worse, but what if she decides to end her life after this..? I cannot live with such a burden...

>>17153639

it might not be as bad as it seems with her "mental health", two things, you've allowed too much disrespect from her(u said yourself u were submissive) and now she's a manipulative bitch or she actually has mental issues.

If you try to be your gf's therapist it won't work, NEVER. She can only help herself(she can only change), give her a little support but its not really your job. You are a romantic partner not a therapist.

In the beginning how were things, good? when did you see start changing?

>>17153843
I understand that. But she has to want to get better. She has to see a psychiatrist and get treatment for her problems.
This problem doesn't go away by itself, it requires a huge amount of effort and will on her part.

If she doesn't want to get better, there's nothing you can really do anyway, even if you stay with her.
The best option you have is to try to convince her to see a mental health professional.

People are dying and being killed by illuminatis.


While girls friends are suicidal because of some stuff that happened to them.

>>17153639
My girlfriend told me she was committing suicide over the phone one day when I was away at work. You have to take that kind of stuff seriously. She said that she had taken all of her meds. I called 911 and a police officer went to her address and brought her to an emergency room psych ward. My gf absolutely hated me for a bit, but was thankful in the long run.

Take this stuff seriously or else these kinds of threats will never stop.